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 thecatt
Joined: 1/12/2005
Msg: 95
How many times have you been in love?Page 3 of 20    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20)
6 times....
 checkingup
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 96
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/7/2005 2:18:32 PM

Can I ask something: Isn't part of the definition of "love" as being never ending? If that's the case, can you really be "in love" (I'm assuming we're speaking in a romantic sense) more than once?If it failed, was it really love? I say no .


Yes when you really love someone, you love them forever. Sadly it does not mean that the other person will feel the same way and that is where the failure will come in. It is possible to love more than one person.

I am not speaking in a romantic sense, but more in the sense that yes romance is there, but more importanly that when you love someone as a person, you will love them always, even if that love is not returned.
 tampablu
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 101
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/7/2005 7:19:42 PM
Never been in love.. Love dosen't exist in my life..
 Capt Caucasion
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 104
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/7/2005 11:19:36 PM
Hmmm, If I keep track of the degree's of love, would this not be defeating?

O.K. Life and love and subsequent marriages would suggest three loves.
But In retrospect, The deeply inclusive heady steamy whirlwind handcuffed to each other, cry and hurt till you consider suicide stuff when it ended thing has occurred 8 times.

Wait, Don't laugh, (or Cry) I have seen the growth in myself to include many of the traits mentioned by both men and women in this forum....Those possess another question....or leaves me pondering....Was I really ready for the love? Or was I in the way of the love to give and recieve.....?

Ahhh Sh*t!! Somebody give me some prozac!
Can we just talk about sex and not getting laid again? LOL
 tyme_gypsy
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 105
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How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/7/2005 11:37:02 PM
...31, 32, 33....
 fishbill
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 106
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 12:16:47 AM
A good healthy love once, RIGHT NOW, yee haw!
 fishbill
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 107
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 12:18:42 AM
This hippyinasuit guy is pretty smart for someone so funny looking. You, see it is possible for a male on here to agree with another man.
 jennifer j
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 108
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 5:07:57 AM
3 times the day they were born they had my heart
 leafyone
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 109
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 6:42:06 AM
Once
 Aurielei
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 110
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 6:49:31 AM
Once.
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 111
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 7:32:36 AM
once

maybe
 SHE-DEVIL-36
Joined: 7/28/2004
Msg: 112
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 7:40:49 AM
yes...you can be in love and it not last....sweety..I have loved 3 men..but have only been IN LOVE twice.....IN LOVE is that feeling that you cant get enough of them....whether it is in the bedroom...or out of the bedroom laying in front of the fire....whispering ..snuggling..listening to some sweet music.....just enjoying being together...and you guys who have met women who only wanted money....THEREIN lies the problem.....when a woman is truly in love with you....she only wants to be with you..not spend your money.....she wants to get to really know you...she wants to just look at you..she wants to KISS you deeply....passionately Forever....she loves hearing your voice...she loves touching you ALL over....she gets that soft look in her eye when she sees you.....and WILD hot...look for you on a daily basis....

as for why being in love doesnt last......sometimes.....either one or both have not matured enough yet....or circumstances such as job..distance....finanacial hardship...other responsibilities etc.....put to much stress on the relationship..and one or both decide they just cant continue like this....if Both people are truly in love....you would think Anything could be worked out...but hey that is Life...and some things are just unacceptable......my first love was a great friend ...lover.....husband....but a pitiful excuse for a daddy...and if my babies are not happy....how could I ever be?...tossed him out the door....head first...hehe...second one...great friend...OMG lover...hehe....wonderful daddy......or so he pretended to be cause he knew why I got rid of the other one..hehe....but alas....not a good husband...he had difficulty.......with keeping his hands to himself.......(and not referring to in the bedroom)...happened ONCE.....hurt me once...shame on you....hurt me twice...Shame on me..LOLOL..sooooooooo.....needless to say....he said he wasnt leaving...so he had to be physically removed...tsk tsk....so ...hopefully....number three wherever he is out there..will be what I want......my best friend....fantastic Lover....Husband(eventually..gotta take that slow) and a loving man to my babies....they are my heart....so where oh where are you ??? as I have told several...guess I need to update that profile huh?....hehe
 mikedanger
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 114
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 9:43:29 AM
a whopping one time! ...i've been INFATUATED 'bout a grillon....
to squirrly: primarily feeling, but both
 krazyxkat
Joined: 7/8/2005
Msg: 115
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 9:48:58 AM
Seems the average answer is twice.

And I'd have to agree. I would probably have only been able to answer once if he hadn't passed away last year. In the recent months though, another man has come into my life, who I love as well.

*Kat
 anthony10306ny
Joined: 4/16/2004
Msg: 117
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 9:54:10 AM
None as one has to have a true lover to be in love, where is she? you got me.
 Semper Verite
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 121
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 10:25:51 AM
Once, and now another half. Quickly on my way to being completely smitten at the moment. Seriously, how often is it you find a hot girl that has the same socio-political, religious and philosophical views as yourself, exactly? And who's crazy intelligent and witty.

Yargh! I'm getting all verklempt just thinking about it....
 tyme_gypsy
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 123
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How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 3:58:32 PM
...34, 35, 36.....
 cudahudson
Joined: 3/27/2005
Msg: 124
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 5:22:14 PM
In love twice.....In heat about 999,684,972,981,326,623,984,982,124 times
 Meekrob
Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 125
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 8:28:19 PM
In love once, in heat once, "in friendship" once.
 Shawn1157
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 126
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 8:39:48 PM
By YAMIHERE's definition...........twice. I still love both of them and always will. One of them is my ex and the other a girlfriend after the fact. I love them as the wonderful individuals they are, but we are not meant to be in a relationship.
 snowbird1111
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 127
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 9:09:09 PM
I love my truck LOL
 opaphous
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 130
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 11:27:47 PM
you know sometimes i think love is just intence lust..where you just have to have it..like a honey kid! you remember "If I don't have it I going to die!!!
 opaphous
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 131
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 11:35:42 PM
twice but none like the first of course she married with five kids now funny how life turns out we thought we would be together for ever
 opaphous
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 132
How many times have you been in love?
Posted: 7/8/2005 11:48:06 PM
I never fell in love like the first time,when time seemed to stop just for you two,when nothing was more important,I think it was because I was 14,15,16yrs old and in high school at the time.the second was great I was 20
 tyme_gypsy
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 133
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Posted: 7/9/2005 12:34:20 AM
...41, 42, 43....
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