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 kenda2010
Joined: 10/2/2008
Msg: 38
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Let's ask former Governor Spitzer...

What a damn fool he was.
 kenda2010
Joined: 10/2/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/23/2008 6:01:18 PM
I am nomad! Error! Error!!!

Trek stuff.
 someotherdude
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 11/23/2008 8:22:33 PM
The real issue is how unnatural monogomy is, and why people are willing to suffer so much because they are "supposed to".

Thank you Jesus.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 11/24/2008 7:10:17 AM

I stuck with it and suffered with it..if I had only known that it was ok to go out and pay for it.........


ye but i do think think that men and women have different levels of need, this must be so because 99% of prostitutes are for men.

Nope, most of the time, it's because women don't have to pay for it. Most women who have affairs aren't paying anyone - most men are more than happy to offer free sex to married/involved women, so JGirlinSD, you could have shopped and still gotten laid somewhere else.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/24/2008 9:50:52 AM

One could argue that seeing escorts isn't really cheating.


One could argue that, but one would have to be deluded to do so.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 11/24/2008 9:54:54 AM

Nope, most of the time, it's because women don't have to pay for it.


I'd say it's more likely that women haven't realized the advantages of paying for it. Women will catch up in time.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/24/2008 10:32:34 AM

HOWEVER deciding to go outside of your marriage whether you are a man or a woman is a moral choice, NOT reality, but a choice to decide that what ever is going on in the bedroom is NOT making them happy THUS they make a choice to do what???? Generally people who have committed to someone already know what is considered right and wrong in a relationship.


I'm not sure what planet you're from (Solipsistalon, maybe?), but here on Earth, when someone makes a choice and acts on it, the choice becomes reality. Maybe on your planet you can wish people didn't do things and they don't do them, but here on Earth, we're stuck having no control over the reality created by what others do.
 someotherdude
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 11/24/2008 2:42:16 PM
Another wise man said "A man is only as faithful as his options"
 nexthyme
Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 11/24/2008 3:12:35 PM

The real issue is how unnatural monogomy is, and why people are willing to suffer so much because they are "supposed to".
Hmmm guess that comes from a guy who doesn't believe in being monogomous... What ever float your boat...

HOWEVER there is a LOT of monogomy in nature itself, check it out. So for monogomy being so unnatural why is it that lifes lower forms can and do practice it???

JAT
 nexthyme
Joined: 9/12/2007
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Posted: 11/28/2008 5:27:46 PM
Zain, truly my apology for having the impression that your parents were having an unhappy miserable sexless life.

I do know that some people whether it be culturally related or what ever, they do not show affection in public, however they may have a very loving relationship, which includes great sex behind closed doors.

My Grandmother shut down after being mutilated after a hysterectomy. My poor Grandpa went without for at least 40 yrs. When he was in the nursing home, and my gram was there as well, but dementia claimed her so she doesn't know anyone. Grandpa didn't like the little ol ladies hitting on him, and trying to get cozy.

He left us in 01' and Gram has been physically alive, but has been gone for at least 15 yrs now.

So I know that there are men that go without for the pride and love of the person they committed to.

Me, I left my own marriage because my spouse wasn't into sex. I never cheated, and never would whether I was married or not; guess it runs in the genes.

Anyway, I am graceful enough to apologize for offending someone that came across with something that sounded differently in text, muah, it happens...

Good luck
 thedude81401
Joined: 11/15/2008
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Posted: 11/28/2008 7:21:57 PM
I would pay for it if it would get me lied. There is no chance of that happening in my town. I will just go with out and hope to eventually find someone
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 49
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Posted: 11/29/2008 2:37:35 AM

i thought an escort was someone you pay to go with you to some sort of event


You could say that.
 textodd11
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 50
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Posted: 12/1/2008 2:24:25 PM
HOWEVER deciding to go outside of your marriage whether you are a man or a woman is a moral choice, NOT reality


OK, Nexthyme, you keep telling yourself that but I'll guarantee it's sure as hell reality to those people it has happened to. And from the number of failed marriages which cite infidelity as the cause, that group is huge. That's REALITY.

Also, I really wish that comprehension accompanied your reading ability so you would stop accusing me of things that: One, I never stated and two, I never did. Sticking to what is stated and not inferring your own ideas and biases about my motivations for starting this thread would serve you well.

I'm sorry that your ex didn't want to have sex with you as much as you would have liked but ma'am, you MUST be aware that your situation is in the significant minority of cases and therefore its relative significance to this overall conversation is minimized.

However, on the other hand I would wager good money that 70% or more of the men on this site have dated ladies who would metaphorically (maybe even literally) go down on them in a crowded movie theater in the early stages of a relationship only to be begging 6 months later for the same enthusiasm. I would further hypothesize that that change in what was her perceived, and even demonstrated, sex drive will eventually contribute to people at least thinking about going outside the relationship to fulfill what they thought they had inside the relationship. This can be said of men as well as women, although it usually manifests itself in emotional instead of sexual withdrawal in my anecdotal experience.

It really happens and if you think it doesn't, you can always embrace that denial and hope that it doesn't turn out to be your reality.
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