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 sydneyleigh
Joined: 3/21/2008
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Unless he is 40+ or has a history of something like diabetes or prostate cancer, I'd suggest he visit a doctor.

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 Rythmn
Joined: 1/21/2006
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why does my boyfriend go soft during intmacy
Posted: 12/7/2008 3:15:14 AM
if you have eliminated the medical or chemical issues as per nola above, discussed between you the issues as per doc (preceding this post), and are dealing with performance issues applicable to "youth": i remember that in the "beginning" my first husband and i used the "squeeze method". i am sure you can google it. however, this is for premature ejaculation. not sure if that is what you are talking about, or no performance at all. if it is applicable, i can assure you that it works! oh to be young again........ ............it's the vulnerabilities that bond us.

ps ah! i googled it for you: http://prematureejaculation.sohosted.com/squeeze-method.php good old masters and johnson!
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 16
why does my boyfriend go soft during intmacy
Posted: 12/7/2008 7:47:21 AM
sorry ladies i have to agree with most of the men on this post.

a very heavy woman does not often induce mr. stiffy to point up into the air. however there could be other factors. Opening Poster, your profile says you are a heavy smoker. if your boyfriend is not a smoker this could be a huge turnoff for him. the smoker's breath/body smell is an erection killer. but some of the readers here are correct.

she needs to communicate with him as to why he cannot stay hard and what she can do to help him. in opening up to him he may come to trust or understand HER better and keep his erection. after all the brain is the body's largest sex organ.
 sexy58
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 19
why does my boyfriend go soft during intmacy
Posted: 12/7/2008 8:08:10 AM
It's simple valley girl. He has ED. It happens to a lot of men. A simple trip to your doctor to get viagra or other med. will work great. That used to happen to me till I got smart and forgot about the embarassment . He can start by trying over the counter meds first but they don't work as well. He and you will both be happy if he does. Good luck.
 treetp33
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 22
why does my boyfriend go soft during intmacy
Posted: 12/7/2008 9:09:21 AM
Maybe you guys need more fourplay.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 23
why does my boyfriend go soft during intmacy
Posted: 12/7/2008 9:13:35 AM
He's probably thinking of the stock market...
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