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 ~gemini~girl~
Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 276
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If time allowed, once a day. I have a high libido. And when I was married, we were a perfect match. We did it as much as we could, even with 2 kids. When we went out and kids were home with a sitter we would do it in the back of our SUV before we went home. Its more exciting that way. Its keeps a relationship exciting. But sex can not be the foundation of a relationship.
 bhi99
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 277
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/23/2009 1:05:56 PM
3-4 times a week.

Call me a prude but I have a social life and like going out.

Also, sex for me including foreplay is an hour minimum and is generally tiring if done right.

I find if I have sex too often I become bored of it, there's a ton of things you can do with your partner.
 kmm52072
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 278
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/23/2009 1:09:19 PM
In an ideal world, I would want it at least 6 times a day. 1 in the morning before we got out of bed, 2 after breakfast, 3 before a shower and getting ready for the day,4 a 'nooner'/lunch break, 5 when you got home from your day, 6 during the night (sex before you sleep makes you sleep better)!
 ref230658
Joined: 1/8/2008
Msg: 279
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:30:04 AM
Just looking at you and some of the sexy clothes you wear is a massive turn on ,to be honest i would struggle to get off you at any one moment i just could not keep my hands off ya x x
 conor0101
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 280
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 5:40:22 AM
hmmm,,,I reckokon 14 times in aweek..does it...I remember in the beginning it was 3 times a nite !
 Destiny_22LL
Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 281
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 7:12:26 AM
I would have to say no one is really lying....

Women at a certain stage of life, some early bloomers, some late truly want sex more often than not. Not sure what it is, but it's true. Especially if the woman is in her "prime".

I know I can detest to it. When married young, I didn't really want it, I mean it was good, but as I grew and became more comfortable with my own sexuality, it's a different story. The desire increased a hundred fold.

At age 32 I definitley noticed an even greater increase...now at 37, I'm wondering if I'm truly a nympho. lol Not that I'm having sex all that often; would be nice though :). Would rather be in a relationship than just random sex partners.

The part where they want it more often or not can also be induced from the person they are with.

I would have to say time permitting at least once to twice a day...if not, one can always take care of business themselves.
 Janey7781
Joined: 3/25/2009
Msg: 282
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 7:58:01 AM
Hmmm with a compatible partner, daily, plus whenever and wherever else the mood struck would be awesome!
 rome46
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 283
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:08:18 AM
at least 2 time's a day.
 Call Me Sugar
Joined: 10/7/2008
Msg: 284
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:12:50 AM
Everyday.... before Breakfast, during Lunch, after Dinner and Midnight snack...
 kojaks488
Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 285
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:31:50 AM
Time permitting twice a day; once in the morning and once in the evening. My mate had a girlfriend once that wanted it so often that his penis started to become sore and actually tired. I felt kind of bad for him actually!
 ChevSeleah
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 286
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 2:22:10 PM
smae as I do now, everyday, more than once a day
 Volgirl65
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 287
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 6:34:22 PM
I dated a man last year that thought I was "crazy for wanting sex more than once a day". I guess if he was a perfect partner, he would want it as much as my sex drive would allow...and on average, that would be at least once a day, some days 2-3 times.
 MrFication
Joined: 5/6/2010
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/23/2010 10:31:12 PM
Probably a few times a day. Up to about 10 times some days.
 Apollodorus
Joined: 11/24/2009
Msg: 289
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/24/2010 4:42:26 AM

If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?


First off you should only be dating what you would consider a perfect partner otherwise you should dump him/her. I want it once a day minimum.
 readthedamnprofile
Joined: 5/5/2010
Msg: 290
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/24/2010 3:34:47 PM
I think it has a lot to do with what else is going on in your life. No matter how busy you are you have to make time to make love with your partner or your relationship will eventually fall apart but, expecting people with careers outside the home, a household to run, kids to raise, social obligations to meet and probably some interests of their own outside the house separate from their partner to be available to have sex all the time is not very realisitic.

This is the kind of thing that needs to be discussed before the relationship has progressed to the point where there is no getting out of it without a lawyer. I know for my partner and I, it varies. Sometime we are an every night couple, other times, a few times a week couple, and still other times we have gone weeks or months. Of course that is usually because one of us is away and we have no control over it.

If you turn each other on and are willing to talk about what your expectations are openly you should not run into too many problems keeping in mind that things like health issues, serious problems of some other sort, major tranisitions in life like menopause, a big career move that perhaps has required a relocation that has disrupted the entire family, ect., can all have an effect on libido. Just keep the lines of communication open.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 291
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/24/2010 4:01:31 PM
I would want to have sex with her as often as possible Whenever I was horny (which is usually all the time) or as often as she was horny. But if she was the perfect partner, then she would be just as horny as me (if possible) or hornier I would want to have sex with her every way, every day and just about everywhere!
 ktori
Joined: 7/9/2009
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 1:29:28 AM
I enjoyed sex immediately from the very first time when I was 16, and always had a strong sex drive. I'm basically horny all the time that I'm not thinking about something else. I like thinking about sex and doing things that make me think about sex. I've been a compulsive masturbator and either gotten into or stayed too long in bad relationships because I wanted sex. For awhile I wondered if I was a sex addict. Now I'm in a committed relationship and my sexual energy is better channeled. Basically we do it every night before falling asleep, again when we wake up, then more in the afternoon if we're together. This seems right for me. I have the perfect partner, and I would like for us to be married.

Actually I think God intended us to be sexual and for it to be a bonding experience between people who love each other, just like religion teaches us.
 Son_House
Joined: 11/1/2010
Msg: 293
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 1:38:00 AM
Ktori, I feel like the last line of your posting contradicted the rest of it.


Actually I think God intended us to be sexual and for it to be a bonding experience between people who love each other, just like religion teaches us.


You said that you had stayed too long in bad relationships because you simply wanted sex. It doesn't seem to me like that is a bonding experience at all, but rather an urge you simply can't control. I wish you the best in your current relationship and I am glad that your sexual drives seem to match, but if it doesn't work out you might want to consider some sort of therapy for sex addiction in the future. Anything that forces you to stay in bad relationships is definitely not good for you.


As to the main question: I enjoy sex a lot. I'm pretty sure most people do. It has actually ruined several relationships for me in the past, because I like to do it at least once a day if time allows and many of my exes felt like that was being a bit too liberal with it. However, I've learned to control the urges and instead of demanding it when I want it, I simply focus that energy on other tasks until the right time comes along to satisfy it. So, my answer would be this...ideally, at least once a day. However, if it starts to become a problem in the relationship or we begin to feel like we are becoming too physically orientated and drifting apart emotionally, I have no problem putting it off for days or even weeks while we reconnect on that emotional level. Ultimately, the most important by-product of a relationship should be love, not sex.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 294
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 1:53:53 AM
I believe I'm at my prime.I would love to meet someone with an insatiable sex drive, like mine.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 295
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Posted: 11/7/2010 3:08:14 AM
as often as humanly possible.

I have never been able to test my absolute limits yet, but have been close.
The problem will always be sustaining this action, few men could screw four times a day every day and excel in their career while supporting two kids in private education and a 1/2million dollar mortgage.
my perfect partner would also agree to drop out of society and go "feral" so we have more time for good sex, instead of wasting our time on careers that only benefit tax dept. of stoopid governments.
 MarriedMommy
Joined: 10/3/2010
Msg: 296
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:41:58 AM
My husband and I have sex 2-3 times a day and I'm 42 weeks pregnant...LOL
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 297
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:49:31 AM

My husband and I have sex 2-3 times a day and I'm 42 weeks pregnant...LOL


pregnant lady loves to rub it in !! lol


I'm a daily guy when I am with an average girl....Perfect partner? 2-3 times a day (time permitting) and twice that on weekends....

worst case, 3-4 times per week, once things settle down somewhat.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 298
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 6:34:47 AM
Haven't found the perfect partner. Yet. But I'm lookin'. So just guessing about what's possibly perfect. But I do hunger.
 Pilose_Wink
Joined: 11/2/2010
Msg: 299
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 7:53:15 AM
In a perfect world, I would like to have sex when ever the mood arises, whether that be 4 times today, skip a day and then once on Thursday if that’s what we wanted. I guess I’m old enough to beyond the simple horny stage and prefer the hungry phase and boy do I like spending time at the buffet table!

I guess I don’t understand how many times in a set period of time even equates to anything remotely involved in satisfaction. The quality of “the” time seems more important to me than the quantity of times. I mean just reading these forums; I have seen a lot of people who have had a lot of really bad unfulfilling sex!
 3prong
Joined: 1/3/2010
Msg: 300
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 11:04:53 AM
Because the topic was perfect partner, not perfect world ... factoring in household chores, career, family, social, community involvement and such ... for me it's not times a day/week but I like to average about 5 days a week. Some weeks would be thin because of travelling for work and such, some would be more full. A day could include once going to bed or 6 times on a lazy Saturday. Realistically there are some days where you just need a breather and watching a movie and getting a full nights sleep really appeals more than getting your rocks off.

In any relationships I've been in, if this falls to the 1 to 2 per week ... do I ever get whinny!
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