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 Ssongbird
Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 198
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An ideal partner? At least once a day. Maybe like 4 times a day on vacation or a lazy Saturday when you do absolutely nothing. Had I not finally been with an "ideal" partner my best guess on this topic would have been once or maybe twice a week. Sad huh? So thankful I have been enlightened.
 mdnite_ruby
Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 199
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/22/2009 5:49:10 PM
Mannnnn I am hitting my sexual peak or something....LOL....I want it all the time. Day, night, everywhere. Just be creative and bond.
 msflis
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 201
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/23/2009 7:54:15 PM

I wonder which excuse comes first when the real frequency is clearly less than what most state here.


Wolf, they're talking about what they WANT. Not what they'd be able to do in real life, where work and other stuff gets in the way--for BOTH partners.

One's perfect partner would not only want it whenever you did but would be able to provide it, too. But that's in the ideal world--not the real world we live in.

--Ms. Flis
 DankNina.
Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 202
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/23/2009 8:03:04 PM
multiple times a day.
 msflis
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 204
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/23/2009 11:36:26 PM
^^^ But don't you still want to eat every day???

--Ms. Flis
 marcopolo305
Joined: 4/6/2009
Msg: 206
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/24/2009 12:14:27 PM
i will do it every time she wants it
and every time i want it
 henry1995
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 207
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/24/2009 12:25:43 PM
At least onnce everyday ,I luv oral and penetration. Cant get enuf.
 henry1995
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 208
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/24/2009 12:37:15 PM
msflis I would lick ur arse multipile times daily
 brendantime
Joined: 10/31/2008
Msg: 212
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/23/2009 1:45:13 AM
Any and every free moment you have you should be doing something or she should be getting busy at least. I'd say 3-5 every Mon-Fri. Probably 6-12 times on Sat&Sun.
 ketch
Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 216
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/23/2009 6:38:13 AM
I do have the perfect partner. The limiting factor is now capacity.

Unfortunately, as a man gets older his capacity declines. However his control increases.

Currently we are having it about 10 times a week, Usually for about 1-3 hours at a time.

Ketch
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 217
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/23/2009 6:51:55 AM
K. I just shut my eyes tight, wiggled my nose a couple times, pulled hard on a slightly modified image of Elaine666, and nuthin happened.
Does it have to be night to summon the perfect partner demon?

I wouldn't even think of burdening another human with my perfection fantasies- they change, with the weather, but even more frequently.
I can be seduced by idyllic, even ideal, couplings, however.
 Destiny_22LL
Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 222
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 7:12:26 AM
I would have to say no one is really lying....

Women at a certain stage of life, some early bloomers, some late truly want sex more often than not. Not sure what it is, but it's true. Especially if the woman is in her "prime".

I know I can detest to it. When married young, I didn't really want it, I mean it was good, but as I grew and became more comfortable with my own sexuality, it's a different story. The desire increased a hundred fold.

At age 32 I definitley noticed an even greater increase...now at 37, I'm wondering if I'm truly a nympho. lol Not that I'm having sex all that often; would be nice though :). Would rather be in a relationship than just random sex partners.

The part where they want it more often or not can also be induced from the person they are with.

I would have to say time permitting at least once to twice a day...if not, one can always take care of business themselves.
 rome46
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 224
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:08:18 AM
at least 2 time's a day.
 Call Me Sugar
Joined: 10/7/2008
Msg: 225
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:12:50 AM
Everyday.... before Breakfast, during Lunch, after Dinner and Midnight snack...
 kojaks488
Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 226
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:31:50 AM
Time permitting twice a day; once in the morning and once in the evening. My mate had a girlfriend once that wanted it so often that his penis started to become sore and actually tired. I felt kind of bad for him actually!
 ChevSeleah
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 227
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 5/25/2009 2:22:10 PM
smae as I do now, everyday, more than once a day
 Apollodorus
Joined: 11/24/2009
Msg: 229
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/24/2010 4:42:26 AM

If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?


First off you should only be dating what you would consider a perfect partner otherwise you should dump him/her. I want it once a day minimum.
 readthedamnprofile
Joined: 5/5/2010
Msg: 230
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/24/2010 3:34:47 PM
I think it has a lot to do with what else is going on in your life. No matter how busy you are you have to make time to make love with your partner or your relationship will eventually fall apart but, expecting people with careers outside the home, a household to run, kids to raise, social obligations to meet and probably some interests of their own outside the house separate from their partner to be available to have sex all the time is not very realisitic.

This is the kind of thing that needs to be discussed before the relationship has progressed to the point where there is no getting out of it without a lawyer. I know for my partner and I, it varies. Sometime we are an every night couple, other times, a few times a week couple, and still other times we have gone weeks or months. Of course that is usually because one of us is away and we have no control over it.

If you turn each other on and are willing to talk about what your expectations are openly you should not run into too many problems keeping in mind that things like health issues, serious problems of some other sort, major tranisitions in life like menopause, a big career move that perhaps has required a relocation that has disrupted the entire family, ect., can all have an effect on libido. Just keep the lines of communication open.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 231
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/24/2010 4:01:31 PM
I would want to have sex with her as often as possible Whenever I was horny (which is usually all the time) or as often as she was horny. But if she was the perfect partner, then she would be just as horny as me (if possible) or hornier I would want to have sex with her every way, every day and just about everywhere!
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 232
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 1:53:53 AM
I believe I'm at my prime.I would love to meet someone with an insatiable sex drive, like mine.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 233
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:08:14 AM
as often as humanly possible.

I have never been able to test my absolute limits yet, but have been close.
The problem will always be sustaining this action, few men could screw four times a day every day and excel in their career while supporting two kids in private education and a 1/2million dollar mortgage.
my perfect partner would also agree to drop out of society and go "feral" so we have more time for good sex, instead of wasting our time on careers that only benefit tax dept. of stoopid governments.
 MarriedMommy
Joined: 10/3/2010
Msg: 234
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:41:58 AM
My husband and I have sex 2-3 times a day and I'm 42 weeks pregnant...LOL
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 235
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 3:49:31 AM

My husband and I have sex 2-3 times a day and I'm 42 weeks pregnant...LOL


pregnant lady loves to rub it in !! lol


I'm a daily guy when I am with an average girl....Perfect partner? 2-3 times a day (time permitting) and twice that on weekends....

worst case, 3-4 times per week, once things settle down somewhat.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 236
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 11/7/2010 6:34:47 AM
Haven't found the perfect partner. Yet. But I'm lookin'. So just guessing about what's possibly perfect. But I do hunger.
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