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 cocorico35
Joined: 9/24/2010
Msg: 265
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?Page 6 of 15    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15)
I AM MARRIED SINCE A LONG TIME...I WOULD LOVE TO DO THAT EVERY DAY BUT MY SPOUSE IS VERY VERY
AWAY FROM THAT IF i DON'T TOUCH HER FOR A YEAR SHE WILL NEVER ASK FOR IT...i CANT IMMAGINE WHY SHE IS SO AWAY FROM SEX...i WISH i CAN HAVE A WOMAN WHO WOULD LIKE TO HAVE SIOME BODY TO SATISFY HER AS i NEED MYSELF.....
 smch82
Joined: 4/2/2012
Msg: 266
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/20/2012 8:55:32 AM
At least once a day!
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 267
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/8/2012 2:44:57 AM
Well, let's see...I always need more tools for the shop, so I guess as often as she could afford it!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 268
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/8/2012 2:48:40 AM
at least once a day
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 269
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/8/2012 6:57:30 AM
My partner is as close to ideal (for me) as one could expect. For over 12 years, we've averaged over once a day, and for many of those years more like twice. So, I guess I'd say at least once a day. Of course, with the occasional 4+ round days now and then.
 marcus_biggs
Joined: 4/2/2011
Msg: 270
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/8/2012 12:58:23 PM
Once a day at the very least.. Wet, creamy, wild and steamy.
 bignbeautifullover
Joined: 5/29/2012
Msg: 271
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/10/2012 1:39:25 AM
I totally agree......but that would be with the perfect partner
 bignbeautifullover
Joined: 5/29/2012
Msg: 272
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 7/10/2012 1:41:00 AM
It is all about your out look on it. What is perfect to you? I dont consider perfect to mean actions rather to mean intentions.
 scared80
Joined: 4/7/2011
Msg: 273
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 12/21/2012 7:44:41 AM
Well first u have to find the PERFECT partner but then I would say 1 to 2 times a day. my ? is how do u really have sex !
 scared80
Joined: 4/7/2011
Msg: 274
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 12/21/2012 7:46:19 AM
how often is what i meant
 Zuglo65
Joined: 4/19/2012
Msg: 275
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 12/21/2012 8:20:27 AM
3-4 times a day sounds about right.
 Brodigy
Joined: 10/26/2012
Msg: 276
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 12/21/2012 8:29:31 AM
I would want the theme of sex to be almost a constant ( teasing, seduction, etc).

The only reason I say " almost " is because sometimes you are going to have to discuss serious issues, but otherwise if we're talking about a perfect partner then I would want the game to be afoot as much as possible.
 mr. bass
Joined: 8/6/2008
Msg: 277
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 12/21/2012 8:32:01 AM
With the right partner, every day and as much as you can when the situations are right. My duty is to bang that booty. LOL
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 278
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 12/21/2012 12:30:58 PM
I don't think that 4 times a day would be overly greedy.
Mostly because , as a Perfect Partner . . . . she'd want it that often , Too!!
 YKNON
Joined: 3/4/2013
Msg: 279
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/14/2013 5:04:05 PM
I would want him all the time. I guess I am saying that right now because I am extremely horny these days. I don't have anyone in my life.
 askmeificare
Joined: 1/20/2012
Msg: 280
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/14/2013 5:11:51 PM
ideally 2-3 times a day.
I have similar problem with my gf. she is satisfied with twice a week.
I am almost sex addict and im unsatisfied sexually.
This is becoming a problem in our relationship.
 brie76
Joined: 12/13/2012
Msg: 281
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/14/2013 5:55:34 PM
2-3 times a day at least. was fortunate the last few guys i dated had high sex drives too. haven't yet found a male that can outlast me. being female is great! ;) sooo crazy horny right now.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 3/15/2013 9:16:05 PM
I'd have to settle for never, because if she was perfect... she'd leave my ass before I got my pants unzipped.
 waitingforyoutoo
Joined: 7/19/2012
Msg: 283
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/15/2013 9:42:22 PM
Anytime or anywhere and that should be saying enough.
 bovier59
Joined: 6/24/2012
Msg: 284
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/15/2013 10:04:39 PM
first, to be consistent, "perfect" is subjective and then there's the issue of sex as it applies to "perfect". but aside from that if there was no mutual chemisty then the point, or desire is null anyway. how attracted , not to be confused with attractive the one is or makes the other feel, is the spark of "regular sex"

there has to be some common degree of psychcal desire felt for and from the other, a light glaze of the hand or finger-tip along the neck, or the slow teasing drag of a tongue from the ear lobe to the nape of her neck....its all relative

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 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 285
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/16/2013 4:59:11 AM
I have the perfect partner for me. WE want sex often, and in reality for over 13 years that means every single day with rare exceptions, often twice a day (and occasionally even three or four times in a day).

Perfect partner - to me - means very attractive, fit, warm and affectionate, loving, generous, highly intelligent, communicative, shares values, beliefs, goals, and many interests, and has a very healthy and imaginative libido.
 waitingforyoutoo
Joined: 7/19/2012
Msg: 286
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/16/2013 5:49:25 AM
Does she have a sister forumonly that is the same lol. Seems those types are not to be found, the perverbial needle in a haystack. Would travel anywhere for that one.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/16/2013 6:50:31 AM
Alas, her sister seems nearly asexual, otherwise I might become an advocate for polygamy!
 Jaco_boy
Joined: 3/7/2013
Msg: 288
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/16/2013 10:06:25 AM
hello sexysingle1,

honestly, to answer your question with some objectivity: as much as you and your partner wants to invest themselves into a fun a pleasurable experience !

It's not about being a pervert or not, it's about being matched and wating to do something about it. As for me, when i was married, i was the one being frustrated over the lack of desire and involvement (kids, career, whatever...)... she was not into it, i was the pervert. When i got separated, wow did i got back into action, and i did big time ! to find that a lot of women were highly active and for me, a new begining. On the 'unusual' side, it's a delicate topic with men and women... Stats are stats, but for me at the peak of my new 'career', almost everyday, at any time and anywhere, to average bewteen 6-12 times per week, and not couting her number of times... as i said, this whole experience took a lots of dedicated hours, nothing comes without efforts ehhhh. It's all in the match of the 2 i would say, coupled with our busy lives, a though call some times.

ciao bella
 Here4ForumsOnly
Joined: 1/2/2013
Msg: 289
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/16/2013 10:32:48 AM
3 times each 24 hours during weekdays & MORE FREQUENTLY on weekends & Holidays!
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