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 Abby156
Joined: 4/1/2010
Msg: 67
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I suspect most women hear the line the OP refered to. I often dont reply to such messages. I am more interested
if guys actually read my profile and comment about that.
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 68
true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/15/2012 7:48:24 PM

So I have played games with them about spelling or like one that said that she was a stickler for men with bad grammer. I could not help it and indicate that Grammer is a town not a noun.


Before one starts to poke fun at the spelling of others, perhaps that person should make sure that his/her own syntax and grammar are correct.

For example, perhaps the poster in the quote above meant "stickler for men who use correct grammar." If she were a stickler for "bad [sic] grammer [sic]," that means that she would insist on a man who used incorrect grammar.

The syntax is convoluted, what does "about spelling or like one" intend to convey?

It should be "indicated," past tense.

Towns are "nouns," or they were last time I checked.

I won't mention the lack of commas or the misuse of the pronoun "that" and the adjective "bad."
 HappySingleSpirit
Joined: 9/10/2011
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true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/18/2012 11:19:36 PM

true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people

It is as much true as anything else you could replace “the most beautiful people” with.

Such as:
Ugliest people are sometimes the loneliest people.
People without profile pictures are sometimes the loneliest people.
People who are rejected are sometimes the loneliest people.
The most arrogant people are sometimes the loneliest people.
People who have nothing else to offer except for biceps are sometimes the loneliest people.
Unhappy people are sometimes the loneliest people.

You get the picture.
Loneliness happens to all kinds of people, especially “sometimes”.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/22/2012 8:40:03 PM
True. I am an example of a beautiful person who lives a very solitary life. I have no luck finding and mutually connecting with the right man for me.
 WiseBurro
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 71
true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/23/2012 9:52:02 PM
No, the only true lonely person is that who has no smartphone.
 mizeat
Joined: 7/30/2012
Msg: 72
true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/24/2012 5:25:03 PM

its really funny how things work out in the end..it seems that many people judge someone based on their appearance and therefor it is assumed that beautiful people have the world by the balls and have the opposite sex just throwing themselves at them...however, do you really think this is really true?


Here's the deal with people who claim they are too beautiful to get a date and are 'lonely': Their minds are diseased. They want "perfection" to cure their insecurities/ own faults even though they may be gorgeous on the outside.

No one asked them out for a date and they're lonely because they are too beautiful = The guys/girls who did ask them out on a date weren't their idea of perfection to "complete" them so those people who DID ask them out and they declined are the "No One's" they are talking about. It's easy to read between those attention seeking 'poor me' lines.
 Purplethumb
Joined: 4/5/2010
Msg: 73
true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/26/2012 2:45:29 PM
You know what i think? Beautiful lonely people don't even know they are beautiful, because lonely people have a hard time thinking of themselves as beautiful.

I know that i had a solid 3 years of loneliness after High School...and every day i spent alone, my self esteem got lower.

Now, i know i'm perfectly average, but that could happen to anyone, even a super model.

Low self esteem + a mirror= self loathing.
 Sweet_Danimal
Joined: 6/22/2012
Msg: 74
true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 8/26/2012 4:11:44 PM
I worked at a truck stop overnights for a few years while I was in college. Sometimes the truckers' wives drove along. NONE of them were going to be fashion models - either the truckers OR their wives - but I couldn't help noticing - the uglier the bride, the bigger the rock was on her finger. I guess these guys kept upgrading their ladies' rings year after year because they realized they were grateful for what they had. They may have not been flawless stones in the middle, but it meant everything to both of them.

Loneliness, Depression, Anxiety - they are all SELFISH problems. The force you to turn inward, and ignore everyone else. Once you figure that out, and start being outgoing yourself - a lot of these issues just melt away. Personally, I think the 'beautiful' people keep picking others that are inherently selfish, and get exposed to those issues more often than most. Unfortunately, once they themselves become inherently selfish, there are very few people out there with the balls to tell them to knock it off and be grateful for what they have.
 Greatcatch12345
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 75
true or false: the most beautiful people are sometimes the lonliest people
Posted: 9/4/2012 5:40:08 AM
yes...i'm very lonely..lol...
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