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 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 21
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I think the best time to bring it up (or bring anything else up) is the first opportunity you have to do it in a way that fits in with the conversation you are having. In other words, ``Before we go to dinner, could you tell me if you're into anal sex?'' is probably not going to be received very well. I'd pick a time when you're conversation seems to be heading toward attititudes about sex, so you can just work it in the most matter-of-fact way you can, given the topic at hand. Which date is not important as long as you get a feel for whether she likes it before the date during which you decide to try it.
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 22
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After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/7/2009 6:36:48 PM
DAMNIT Abelien. You BLEW it with a SERIOUS answer. Shame. 3 PAGES and you're the first. You couldn't even say "when the conversation was headed for the dumpster" could you.

Considering this dude's ongoing obsession with all things SPHINCTER I'd hazard a guess he's never actually seen one up close and if he did he'd pop a Loonie in there to see what it played.

Actually as this is, after all a DATING site, he has already let every potential date on here at least, KNOW that money, an brain, a dYNOmite bod, great sense of humour / loyalty / passion mean NOTHING to him as long as she has a hiney she's willing to share.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 23
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After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/7/2009 6:42:59 PM
Hey.......I gave a serious answer first!

but I liked Ab's really well!
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 24
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After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/7/2009 8:11:53 PM
Umm first date! Why waste your valuable time.
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 25
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 10:16:06 AM
the OP makes me laugh out loud..a 'doctor' with 'some college' ?

um, OK

not too many MD's would be obsessed with cramming an oversized rigid object into a part of the female anatomy that is clearly designed for 'exit', not 'entrance'.

must have skipped the anatomy classes while becoming a 'doctor' at his local junior/community college?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 26
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 10:42:51 AM
^^^ He's not THAT kind of doctor. He lives in a time traveling call-box called a Tardis.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 27
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 11:02:11 AM
DAMNIT Abelien. You BLEW it with a SERIOUS answer.


I did? I guess my attempt at sarcasm wasn't as obvious as it should have been. Sorry. I'll try harder at the next opportunity. I really wasn't trying to be serious. I promise.
 beerbag
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 28
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 11:06:29 AM
It would seem that CM has a bit of a man crush on me.
 beerbag
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 29
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/14/2009 12:07:52 AM

Seriously? Is anal sex REALLY the basis on which you decided whether or not you are "wasting your time" with someone?


Yes.
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 30
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/14/2009 8:50:07 AM
^^
beerbag:


Seriously? Is anal sex REALLY the basis on which you decided whether or not you are "wasting your time" with someone?


Yes.


^^ should probably meet a girl who is into strap-on sex as well

turnabout is fair play, no?
 beerbag
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 31
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/14/2009 10:53:17 AM
Compleat man after reviewing all of your posts directed towards me I can tell you that you are way too obsessed with my anus. I'm not sure if this is just you flirting me but really man, I'm not interested at all.

kthxby
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 32
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/17/2009 10:37:37 AM
The night before the wedding... HAHAHA!!!
 Spence56
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 33
After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex?
Posted: 1/17/2009 10:43:59 AM
It's been so long since I filled out the "Chemistry" questions I don't remember what is on them.

Personally, I think that these kinds of questions should either be part of the Chemistry section to help make that a part of the equation, or at least there should be a part of the profile that lists the things that are "Deal Breakers". I would think that this is the kind of issue that has a strong Pro vs. Con sensibility. Either you love it or you hate it, for the most part. For many people, that things an exit, not an entrance! :-)

Well, that's what I think anyway.....
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