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 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 167
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?Page 11 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
I would never wear those shoes that make a guy taller, so the body shaper thing would be a turn off to me when I discover it.
Push up bras are fun, though. As a guy you gotta realize that maybe 0.01% of females have breasts that actually look that way unaided, so you say "look, a sweet push up bra!" and leave it at that. If I had two globs of fat hanging off my chest you'd better believe I'd try to enhance them! But to tuck in my stomach? I'd rather do some sit ups, eat some veggies, and take a few walks to deal with that.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 171
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 11/4/2010 12:58:50 PM
What confuses me are the women that are already nicely shaped with curves, butt and boobs, yet they STILL feel the need to get the extra enhancement. Some people are never satisfied.

I don't wear push-up bras. I tried wearing them before, and they were too uncomfortable. Plus, I don't feel the need to give my breasts a boost. Never worn any body shapers, and girdles look hell of uncomfortable. No thanks.

Dresses enhances my figure, and that's why I like em.
 Molly Maude
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 177
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Posted: 11/6/2010 1:09:46 AM
funny ... I got a BUNCH of ads in the mail today ... (I HATE getting ads in the mail and wish the government would charge THEM as much to send stuff as they charge US to send mail so I wouldn't get so much useless paper, the world wouldn't cut down more trees or buldge higher landfills, etc.)

ANYWAY ... I got a bunch of ads today in the mail ... one was from a company that specializes in clothes for "big beautiful women" ... so ... they're flaunting their "big beautiful bodies" ... and I'm reading and looking at the pictures of those "big beautiful women" ... then I turn to about 6 pages of slimming stretchy things that look INCREDIBLY uncomfortable ... "enhancing" their bodies ...

wait a minute !!!

I thot they were PROUD of their "big beautiful bodies" ... if you're PROUD of it, ya FLAUNT it ... ya don't "enhance" it by slimming it to nothingness ...

Lane Bryant ... make up our mind!
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 179
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 11/16/2010 6:02:09 PM
I can spot a push up bra a mile away. My radar for push up bras, etc is calibrated very well.

Some folks look great in clothes (even w/out body enhancers) and not so good naked.

Some folks look great naked and average in clothes.

Ex gf wore a body shaper from time to time. She was a 4 or a 6, depending on the outfit. Her body was not perfect, yet I had zero problem with her body. I was hot for her even before she began wearing those body shapers around me.

Did I Have a problem with it?
Nope- because she had a really hot body anyways and all the body shaper did was make her look even sexier in certain outfits.

So I was fine with it- didn't have a problem with it- and of course when she'd wear it (with the right outfit), my eyes would only bug out of my head by a miniscule amount more.

Yet when took it off- they'd bug out 100 fold.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 182
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 11/17/2010 12:52:20 PM
^^^ I know, right?
Men are more akin to just let it all hang out and not give a damn. Thank you, ladies who focus on personality, say the beer and junk food manufacturers.
Because of you, us men can still be fat slobs and get laid, while said manufacturers rake in the cash.

America rules!
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 183
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Posted: 11/17/2010 1:01:56 PM
One of the BFs single buddies (52) came by to show off his new motorcycle last week. He'd been going to the gym, dating 25 year olds and had his hair dyed so dark it looked like he had a ferret on his head.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 184
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 11/17/2010 1:13:16 PM

A lot of the men I've dated could've used a mirdle. I'm just sayin'....


This reminds me of a time when I was working at Domino's, and a man dropped in wearing a jacket vest with no shirt underneath. He had the biggest boobs I have ever seen on a man, and I badly wanted to tell him to put a bra on, but, of course, that wouldn't have been appropriate.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 186
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 11/17/2010 3:55:23 PM

mmmm body shapers are awesome - they just smooth things out a bit!


so long as its a little bit....great....

of course- i prefer women with tight, hard skin need less smoothing.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 188
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Posted: 11/17/2010 5:16:59 PM
I tried a push up bra once.....felt like my breasteses were about to fall out every time
I leaned over! No thanks......I'll stick with my minimizer bras!

And I always wondered what a woman would do if she had one of those
body shapers on and then got lucky!
Now I know.....go in the bathroom and remove it so he don't see it!!
 amethyst10616
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 190
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Posted: 3/27/2011 12:40:23 PM
I resurrected this thread only because of the make-up thread and how some women see any kind of enhancement as deception. I do not agree and while I think the best way to deal with excess flab is through diet and exercise, a good pair of Spanx is a girl's best friend:) Even thin ladies look better when there is no jiggle in their wiggle, IMO.

I think is very rare for undergarments to make you look thinner, I think what they do instead is to provide some support where needed. I am big-breasted and the shaper I wear helps hold my girls in place all day, therefore saving lots of strain on my back.

There is nothing to hide when our clothes are off:)
 Sherlock101
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 191
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Posted: 3/27/2011 7:23:06 PM
I was dating this girl when I was younger for about 6 months. She did school during the day and a coc*tail waitress a few nights a week. One day while working I just happened to be near her Apt and since it was almost noon decided to stop by. She was still in her robe when she answered the door and her eyelids looked kind of pink. . I looked at her and said, "I'm sorry, are you sick?" she smacked me and told me she had just gotten up and didnt have any makeup on lol...
 romancemann
Joined: 3/12/2011
Msg: 193
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Posted: 3/28/2011 8:12:22 PM
all i can say is if she looks like she has a big set of headlights they better be big when the bra comes off or i'm gonna be VERY DISAPPOINTED.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 194
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Posted: 3/29/2011 12:52:35 PM
I always thought the name WonderBra was perfect. Sure. It does wonders for a ladies presentation; but, it also leaves a guy wondering WTF just happened when it comes off.


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 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 196
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Posted: 3/29/2011 2:02:28 PM
http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html

I know the link is make-up specific, but people are being SERIOUSLY lied to.
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