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 robernj
Joined: 11/3/2008
Msg: 31
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He's not a player, he's not a jerk, there's nothing wrong with you, there's nothing wrong with him.
Your'e great, he's great, everyone's great....I bet the new girl he met is great too. She is also not 3 hours away, so I'm not seeing the issue.(personally I wouldn't drive 3 hours to meet the pope, let alone a date.)
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/19/2009 4:06:39 AM
Well, let's put it this way. You live 3 hours away from him. You found each other attractive and had sex. You don't live close enough to turn that into a relationship. I wouldn't drive half that distance, except for a fun overnight every now and then. If I found someone closer, the fun overnights would not be my priority. What he wasn't ready to do is committ to a relationship that would be at best, part time due to the distance. If I'm going to be in a relationship, I'm going to want to be around her quite a lot.
 cfb62
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/19/2009 7:39:35 AM
This is just part of dating.
There is nothing wrong with you.
I'm sure with this guy, you should thank God for unanswered prayers.
Something's just not right with him.
 urmysweetheart
Joined: 9/17/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 1/24/2009 6:38:16 PM
Nothing is wrong with you at all. A women is a whirlwind of emotions, that is a good thing. It all has to do with the total reproductive nature and further related to humans. If women did not have these swings of emotion we would most likely not be here reading this today. Setting all that aside you need to focus on you and your kids only and not be placing pictures of yourself in minimum clothing pictures. You have kids and your kids could someday see those photos and be hurt by them because they would not understand what you yourself do not understand at this time. Please post pictures you and yours would be proud of, stand tall and proud no matter how tough it get because it's going to get much tougher out here and there before this american soup line disappears. Don't for a minute confuse your self worth with the condition of the economy as many of your perspective mates my want to be next to you but can not bring themselfs to that because they know they would only be fooling them selfs and you. This is the type of situation that many men and weman are faceing right know. So all I am saying is there is nothing wrong with you, it's not your fault that over 16 years ago corporate America and our government sold the USA out with NAFTA and Free Asian trade agreements. So now finally with most people unemployeed, people aren't making alot of dates. Keep trying but try places you would not think of normally, like the mall, Publics, the car dealership, the hardware store, etc, etc. Be creative.
 steeler49
Joined: 8/17/2008
Msg: 36
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Posted: 1/24/2009 11:29:08 PM
same thing happend to me last 2 met hit off then they dropped me .kissg hug hold hands sex then excuses bye bye hah last 1 said wasnt her type after 2 dates kissg hugging sex both said not not just sex and 1 at xmas was christmas time so boght her gift neclase and she said never take off show everbody then bye bye hahhhhh game playing
 SylvanSwan
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 1/24/2009 11:39:03 PM
Because some men are just plain lazy! Some would rather have a greasy burger from a dirty diner across the street than travel a distance for a 5 course gourmet meal.
 hapeenurse
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 1/25/2009 6:02:52 AM
It happens and it sucks and there is a tendency to dwell on the why's and what if 's but you have to force yourself to realize that (for whatever reason) he wants to pursue someone else (his loss , clearly!) . Although the post above me is quite well, umm , blunt? there are some valid points in there - the first being it's sometimes easy for single people to jump the gun and get too excited and thinking about the future with someone too quickly because they've had a good first couple of dates etc, I always try to just view dates as what they are - a fun night out getting the chance to get to know someone a bit better, seeing if the chemistry is there etc. If it is ,you hang out again and go from there, if it's not - or worse - the attraction is one sided (one person feeling more than the other) you should also just move on , because you (and all us single ppl!) deserve a person who is as into us , as we are them!
 Septimus
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 3/23/2009 3:57:41 PM
>>>> But it's like my uncle says.. Whenever one slips away, theres another swimming around you. <<<<

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Your uncle has never tried internet dating apparently.
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