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 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 55
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Sounds like he's a very insensitive type - you are not going to get much more from him than you have already gotten - and that ain't much! If I were you I'd play it really cool and give him a chance to redeem himself - if he doesn't - he's not worth worrying about!
 FortyFine44122
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 57
One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 1/25/2009 8:50:42 AM
"One-night-stand" is the most funny thing. The more you like your date, the less chance you'd have sex too soon...or even kiss right away for that matter. If you like someone - you don't have sex on the first date, because both of you know from the start - it's for fun only.

Even if he'd call me - I'd still consider him "good time only" and I know 100% - this is nothing serious..so does he.
WHY? Because you gonna ask yourself if he's doing it every time he's drunk, or like someone, or she's drunk...or whaever. Do you really want to have relationship with someone like that?
 CompuG8r
Joined: 10/4/2010
Msg: 60
One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 3/1/2011 8:26:45 PM
One night stands aren't necessarily a bad thing. I managed to say the right thing to a girl one night many moons ago and wound up waking up at her place the next day. From there we continued to date, wound up married and spent several years together. Here was my very clever line, "Would you like some company." She said yes and the rest was history. I met her in a bar. "Life is like a box of chocolates..."
 nicepisces
Joined: 11/20/2007
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One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 6/20/2011 8:52:20 PM
hi to caroline1981,
write him a line right away explaining your discomfort re your own (and maybe his) behavior, and that was not at all your ususal style.
He may also be in a quandry about what happened. There is no downside to doing this as it will demonstrate what you are made of.
 olesailorman
Joined: 1/30/2006
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Posted: 6/20/2011 9:56:26 PM
Unless something really went wrong during the evening, I'm the type of guy who, if I liked you well enough to have sex with you, would want to see you again. So I'd call.

Since I've never had sex with a woman that I didn't like, just for the sake of sex, I can state this with some certainty.

One of the few exceptions to the above was an experience with a woman that I had many years ago. I basically discovered that she was a closet alcoholic. The whole experience wasn't enjoyable so I never called her again.

Doug
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 64
One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 6/12/2012 10:05:08 PM
only within 24 hrs or its not a 1 niter!
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 65
One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 6/12/2012 10:41:51 PM
This bloke has been known to.

Has led to several relationships.

Have also had ONS's where we've both enjoyed just being in the moment and left it at that.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 66
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:48:40 PM
A one night stand is that when they dont call again. A drunken tryst in a hotel after a wedding, not likely.
 bamaguyforu
Joined: 4/23/2012
Msg: 67
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:01:12 PM
He might....he might not. A one-night-stand does not disqualify a relationship any more than it qualifies it. There is either a connection deeper than sex or there is not, that's all there is to it, and there is nothing you can do to change it. I wouldn't worry too much about it because you will never change what is.
 joemetro3
Joined: 1/9/2008
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Posted: 6/13/2012 2:09:54 AM
he'll call if he liked it.
 Maggie__x
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 69
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Posted: 6/26/2012 7:32:47 PM
I recently had a one night stand and the guy still talks to me but it ended up being a friend thing, sort of fwb. I didn't want anything more from the guy, its easier to cut it off.
 cocoicet
Joined: 4/15/2012
Msg: 70
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Posted: 6/26/2012 7:37:21 PM
HHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHA,,,, DID YOU DATE THE SAME DUDE I DID?
 Happy Dude 63
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 71
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:30:02 PM
If he really liked you, you would not be on here wondering. And that is a FACT. He would of called/texted and emailed you. A guy doesnt have sex with a woman he likes and then disappears, unless he got what he wanted OR he is already hooked up with another woman.
NOW if he does call it is only to see if he can get past your defenses and have u again...or some variation of that.
 NBS707
Joined: 6/29/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:42:12 PM
Sorry that you're going through a rough time over this. Why didn't you exchange telephone numbers before you left each other? I think you would be happy moving onward. It is already Wednesday afternoon. How long do you plan on waiting for the phone to ring? Sometimes life sucks. Wishing you the best of luck.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:47:20 PM
I had a one night stand that lasted 7 years
hell, I married her lol
 MDIYM59
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 74
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Posted: 7/11/2012 3:08:37 PM
While most will say no I guarantee there are many happy couple not on this site who jumped in the sack before it was wise, but it worked out. Or think of it this way, waiting doesn't guarantee a successful relationship either. If it did, no woman would ever sleep with a man until the magic waiting period was over.

One of the best relationship I ever had was with a woman I slept with soon after meeting her, one of the worst was with a woman that I didn't sleep with right away. If you both like each other it may still work out, if not, lesson learned and you had great sex. Which unfortunately you may not have with Mr. Right. Lifes funny that way.
Good luck
 Oncetwice57
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 75
One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 7/12/2012 3:34:50 PM
As situations go...things happen and it takes two....nothing wrong with you calling if times goes by and he doesnt...it would let you know if the feelings are mutual....YOU are adults.....not in school anymore playin games...good luck!
 the_biggavell
Joined: 7/9/2012
Msg: 76
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Posted: 7/12/2012 7:31:32 PM
if you were any good, he'll call.
 italiangurl110
Joined: 7/9/2011
Msg: 77
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Posted: 7/12/2012 7:34:23 PM
Talk? talk about what-- girl friend you go for it! have fun and enjoy this guy, cos it sounds like hes into you to. or course he will call you, gaureentee
 NWFY1979
Joined: 12/3/2010
Msg: 78
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Posted: 10/29/2012 9:37:12 AM
yes we do call, cant speak for all the guys but if it was good or maybe just ok, we will be back, its nice to live for the moment and as an adult good for you get what you want and if you have his number give him a call to ask him for another nite out, its a pleasure to hear from a girl you had a time with. just remember we might be thinking the same thing. anyway i always say if it feels good do it
 cowboydog51
Joined: 5/20/2017
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Posted: 8/22/2018 4:22:38 PM
hi im waiting come see me 9122863225
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
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Posted: 8/30/2018 12:13:48 PM
So what prevented the OP from calling him? This is the 21st century after all.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 8/30/2018 7:02:42 PM
A one night stand is just that. One night and no more... Why would you ask if the guy will call? I hope you used protection.. If he has not called within a week forget it. He may want another casual night though so up to you to deal with that.
 Norasings
Joined: 8/12/2018
Msg: 82
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Posted: 9/1/2018 10:25:15 PM
The OP was nearly 10 yrs ago, I think that ship had sailed.
 ssm508
Joined: 5/27/2018
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Posted: 9/2/2018 8:52:53 AM

The OP was nearly 10 yrs ago, I think that ship had sailed.

I know this is an old thread and the OP has moved on one way or another. But women in a similar situation can also make the first contact after sex. There isn't a "rule" that states it always has to be a man.
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