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Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 9
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ya need a real man. look me up.
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 10
Posted: 6/24/2005 4:14:10 PM
she sure looks like a real woman from here.
looks like all original parts too!!!
Classy chassis... nice grill...great interior even.
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/24/2005 7:12:15 PM
yeah what he said lol
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 12
Posted: 6/24/2005 8:20:02 PM

only 4 percent of girls can actually have an orgasm while having sex

I totally don't believe this statistic....I'd love to see your sources
( ACCCCKKKK....this is why I stay out of current events 'cause they require those damned *I'M* doing it....I need a drink)
that 4 percent of women cAn't have VAGINAL orgasms during sex I might buy.
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 13
Posted: 6/24/2005 10:00:17 PM
For the answer to your sexual dilemma, experience makes the difference

YES!!!!!!!...find a man who knows what he's doing
trust me that's NEVER a bad idea
(you won't get any flak from me , darlin')
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 14
Posted: 6/24/2005 10:17:23 PM
my ex could get the big O from just some licking behind the ears...she just turns flush red........and then
lift off......................
explore.... explore...explore and you shall christopher columbus did....The earth is not flat....neither is sexuality.............
I say dump all the self help books and explore using your primal faculties that you were born with.
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 6/27/2005 6:21:44 PM
Well then I c u need alittle help!!! but really I would like to chat with u about other things too!! if u like to reply ..... I'm handsomebwonderfull
Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 16
Posted: 6/27/2005 7:07:58 PM
Well there are some girls that i know. That never had an orgasm also and they say they just fake it..Guys would think they had one but they really did not.. But I gguess some girls only have there first one by there selfs
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 17
Posted: 6/27/2005 8:07:35 PM
It's not all about technique, 50% of it is mental.
You have to be in the right state of mind or it's not going to happen.

You have to shut all other thoughts out of your head and focus on your
partner and what is happening to your senses.

For me, it only happens when I am totally into the person I am with, and
making love is like becoming one with that person. Powerful stuff!!!
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 18
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I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 11:34:24 AM
you only need a good lover thats all,
Joined: 8/19/2005
Msg: 19
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 11:50:52 AM
Hunny you need me.I think you have had bad guys.I would do you for about 3 hours and then i bet you would!

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 20
Posted: 8/27/2005 12:05:24 PM
My ex could not get the Big O thru intercourse. Only oral. It was hard on my ego. I think it was a mental thing. She never masterbated. One has to know thier own boby first. believe me I tryed everything books,videos.booz.gel.
Joined: 8/27/2005
Msg: 21
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 12:51:08 PM
No way! that sux. No guy has ever touched your G-Spot? Do you even know where your G-Spot is? That is the easiest way I would make you have an ORGASM, that should take about anywhere form 5-10 mnts. Then the SEX is like 100% better (that is when doggie style will come in to good use after your ORGIE<<<.

You will want it to last forever.
Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 22
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 9:15:59 PM
^^^^^ I totally agree with that statement. Every guy says that, yet I have only found one guy that can do it for me.
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 23
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 9:44:25 PM
to those of you men who have said, do it for hours , meaning vaginally,... honestly , many of us women don't like one who goes all night and bangs for hours ! that is reminicent to the porno flicks with the bad music of the 70's! I think if you took a pole in here, the majority of women, love to make love, love making love WITH her partner, sex, well heck, we can do that alone just as you guys can! True orgasms for the majority are not vaginal, the absolute best lovers are those who find oral sex, and manual stimulation erotic, long slow passionate, and most of all, the best lovers are 'artists' they treat every woman as a new canvas, something to explore, and to create..........guys, the BIG BANG theorum is out!
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 24
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I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 11:08:08 PM
Hi melissa22,

Hopefully you've had some luck in the last couple of months, but if not I'll offer my advice (it's free--take it for what it's worth ;):

There have been many good suggestions in this thread--mainly (imho), relax and enjoy it, and (get hime to!) focus on foreplay. More foreplay (& I include oral in foreplay) is pretty much always better.

One position that might work for you is with you on the top, facing him, with him roughly perpendicular. I believe this is the position 4 at_fates_gate was mentioning in msg 10. Your goal is grind you hips forward (towards his chest) and back (towards his feet) while rubbing your clit against his ab muscles. Down correctly you are not intentionally moving up and down his penis at all, but instead forward and back along his lower abs (& always contacting his lower abs). On his part, he needs to experiment with flexing his abs and adjusting the angle of his hips for maximum effect (and changing it up just for variety ;). You should position yourself further forward (towards his chest) or backward ,depending on his size, to hit your g-spot. Note that this position/motion is not intrinsically pleasureable for him (normally it's an up/down motion that works for the guys), and the grinding is done poorly--or too vigorously when he's not very excited--can fold him backwards (ouch!) So be careful for his sake! Because of the rubbing involved, public hair length and coarseness also matters--the last thing you want is razor burn down there! Done with enthusiasm and (hopefully!) enjoyment it can be pleasurable for him as well (maybe that's just me though...)

Best of luck! :)
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 25
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/27/2005 11:44:30 PM
get a koala boy...vibrator......300,000 women cant be wrong...

or is that what the advertizers say...I dont know
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 27
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/28/2005 8:42:35 AM
um ok.... hi melissa. that was weird

Joined: 11/7/2004
Msg: 28
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I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 11/6/2005 8:29:11 PM

Sounds like most of the guys are rushing through and not taking time for you. it also depends on the intimacy and how close your feelings are in your relationship. Also get your guy to do things for you I have did things to help my girlfriend when she was not able to have an orgasm. you riding on top will also help cause you will reach your G-spot more. So take your time relax and enjoy, your worth it.
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 29
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I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 11/6/2005 9:11:50 PM
i'm 28 and still have yet to orgasm - either vaginally or clitorally....doesn't mean i don't enjoy sex, and don't look forward to doing it again....i guess i justt don't know what i'm missing lol. but i think that a large part of the problem with me anyway is that i start thinking too much: am i doing this right? am i doing this wrong? is he having a good time? do i look ok? lol....maybe one day i'll get over it - or maybe not
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 30
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 11/6/2005 11:55:40 PM
I think many of the posts have good suggestions. First find someone that you can be relaxed with. Make sure it's someone interested in pleasing you, and that's willing to take the time to explore your body and find what it likes. You can just as easily do the same. That way once you figure it out you can point them in the right direction if the have attention deficits. As to the 4% thing I think that's a load of BS too. I never had a girl not have several, so it can't be that small of a percentage. Cause I can assure you I am far from godlike.
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 31
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 11/7/2005 7:09:17 AM
About 40% of women never have orgasms. They are normal in every way but just can't have an orgasm. Try a vibrator on your clitoral area - if this dos'nt work your sol.
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 32
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I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 11/7/2005 6:58:00 PM
i think offkilter's on crack
Joined: 3/15/2004
Msg: 33
I have never had an orgasm
Posted: 8/13/2010 8:37:56 AM
a good tonguing is what you need then you will blow
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