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 CMonster
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 34
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... It's Pavlovian, really.

Pavlovian as in "involving of a large amounts of drool?"
 4408joseph
Joined: 1/10/2008
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Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 5:27:31 AM

Ive not yet met a man who would turn down a blowjob if it was offered him ,well unless it was offered from another man and the first guy was gay..but thats another subject..[/quotw]

Hummm, you might be on to something FLRD,

As a red blooded american boy, I'd NEVER turn down a bj from a woman. On the other hand (no-pun untended). I find it totally replusive to conjure a man preforming this for me, and my solider wouldn't salute .

As others have already noted sex has alot to do with the mind.

OP?, have you thought about switching teams for a night?

Maybe it's a mental block. I've often read most guys that are impotent are because if this.


 transcend
Joined: 1/13/2007
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Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 6:07:16 AM
for me its not important to orgasm..id rather experience several hours of being near the edge..it inspires creativity and motivates my movements..every act requires energy and a BJ doesnt usually increase mine.. i will allow for the extraodinary exception..but since its only been one .. it is indeed the exception..

the physical,emotional and origin of energy differences between men and women are real factors in what we generally like.. women can focus on their own pleasure and broadcast to their partner , enhancing the energy exchange.. men arent wired that way.

a male focusing on himself is headed for a post coital nap
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 37
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:04:22 AM

A blowjob is sort of like pizza...no matter how bad it is, hey...it's still pizza.


right..we've all heard crap like that before..

does a pizza leave tooth marks in one of your most prized possessions?

yeah, all you women are so smart..and cynical..you just 'know' that 100.000000% of men, every single last one on the planet..loves getting head..and anyone who says otherwise is just playing a psychology game.

because really, you've all blown at least about 2,000-3,000 guys each - enough to have a statistically significant sample size to extrapolate to the entire male side of the species, I assume?

and maybe your experience is limited to a fairly small geographical area..do you really know about other cultures, etc. where it might not be so popular?

there are women on POF who have said they don't like receiving oral..they "must" all be lying too, right?


Guys love head..true
Guys love girls who give good head..also true
Guys love girls who love to give good head..very true..


so..how many guys have you sucked off, that you can conclude this about ALL men, 100.000% of men? I assume, it's been around 3,000 + for you to draw such a conclusion, accurate 19 times out of 20, +/- 5 %

or do you know anything about statistically significant sample sizes..?
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 38
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:10:06 AM

Yea right I know, You can suck the chrome of a bumper without touching the metal. You have been know to suck a golf ball through a straw, I get it, you think you are some kind of blowjobologist, Other women pay you for lessons on giving blow jobs. How did I know this thread would bring out all the "experts".


hhaha, wildman, you so funny..but true! good points..

so many women will claim that SHE is the undisputed heavyweight queen of blowjobs..

every woman one talks to about this, knows she ought to make an instructional DVD so all the other women out there will know how to do it PROPERLY :)
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:11:42 AM
if someone is leaving teeth marks.......
I wouldn't let them blow me either!


all you women
tsk tsk.......u wouldn't be generalizing would u?!!
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 40
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:13:06 AM

......but I bet u it will be right up there w/ the other memorable ones! ...and I guarantee you won't be bored...or thinking about what color to paint the ceiling......you'll be looking into my bedroom eyes and enjoying the show....and sensations.....

I know you can see me smiling,, as I'm sure you are correct,,


OT,, I love when a woman give a great BJ as will as like its.. ,, because I'm not selfish,, Who am I do deny her that pleasure,, So my motto is,, drop the big boy pants and let her suck it up..
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 41
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:16:52 AM

You can't be serious..


yes, I can't be serious..of course not! can wildman!

I'm awed at how so many anonymous POF posters, whom I've never met, know me better than I know myself...simply from reading a few sentences I have posted..

how do you people do that? are you all gifted with ESP, or what?

please let me in on the secret(s) ?

can you also tell me when I'm going to get my next promotion, when I will get married, have children ? and when (exactly) I will die?

thanks in advance..
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 42
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 9:21:50 AM

There is something more over-rated than a BJ....its...'A" woman who thinks she's the sole person who could satisfy your ever need



Aint that the truth.
 4408joseph
Joined: 1/10/2008
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Posted: 1/15/2009 9:36:53 AM

can you also tell me when I'm going to get my next promotion, when I will get married, have children ? and when (exactly) I will die


I believe so

1) promotion?when you give your best BJ
2) married?when you recieve your best BJ
3) children?when you stop recueving BJ's as sex
4) and when (exactly) I will die? right at the very end of your most mind blowing BJ when you throw your head back,eyes closed, mashing the accelarator to the floor , only to cross over media strip and hit a tractor-trailer HEAD-ON!

 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 44
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/15/2009 5:49:51 PM

Actually, I DO teach a class twice a month on said subject. it's always sold out.


Do you demonstrate on your students or something else? I mean really how would a male student know the class is worth it unless you showed him a up close and personal look at your technique? Do your get alot of business through word of mouth?
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 45
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/16/2009 6:08:45 AM

I hope one day when he's with someone new that she ties him up and gives him a mind-blowing bj


There has to be a very strong level of trust involved before I give someone that kind of power over me. So I doubt very very much if someone NEW in my life would ever be tying me up. I never said I no longer get them I simply said I don't care for them, So tying me up would not be required. Maybe after the first time she would have to do it to get me to try again.
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 46
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/16/2009 8:58:24 AM

1) promotion?when you give your best BJ
2) married?when you recieve your best BJ
3) children?when you stop recueving BJ's as sex
4) and when (exactly) I will die? right at the very end of your most mind blowing BJ when you throw your head back,eyes closed, mashing the accelarator to the floor , only to cross over media strip and hit a tractor-trailer HEAD-ON!


thanks, but none of those will ever happen..
 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 47
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/16/2009 11:46:40 AM
Yes there is alot more overated stuff than blowjobs,I personally enjoy receiving blowjobs and I do not get off of them but they still feel very wonderful,everytime.
overated sexual acts...facefarting,peeing,feet,anal,facials...you get the idea
I'll take some wicked oral followed by sweet fuxkin' anyday and everyday.It would never be boring.To each themselves..
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 48
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/16/2009 5:20:08 PM

BUT there is still hope that you will be with someone new that will make your eyes roll in the back of your head and seeing fireworks when receiving them from her


Yea Iguess anything is possible, I never thought I would ever see an African American president in my lifetime, and that's about to happen. But I think there is a better chance of hell freezing over than my eyes rolling in the back of my head from a bj.
 MsMicki
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Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/16/2009 6:13:31 PM
as stated before......since your brain is one of the biggest sex organs in your body.....and your brain has already decided not to enjoy BJ's.....
yep.....I'd say there will be no eyes rolling in the back of your head.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 50
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/17/2009 7:41:14 AM

Ican't believe the thread title.Very little surprises me in this world, but that sentence truly does


Honestly you really should try getting out more.

I'd say you either haven't found the right woman, or you aren't treating them right, or you may want to see a doctor about the sensitivity levels down there


Thanks I will make the doctors appointment right away, Of course this lack of sensitivity you speak of only happens during bjs, I don't have this issue anytime else while having sex. What is your expert opinion as to why that may be?
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 51
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/17/2009 7:48:37 AM

Something doesnt have to be 100% to be called true..
As in British people have a wacky sense of humour..Im sure not all brits do..but we say it anyways.
or blondes are dumb..not all are but we say it anyways..


do "we" all say things like that? really now..? maybe YOU do..

do you have any idea how offensive it is, to tell an INDIVIDUAL person, that they "must" be a certain way, because you "know all about" the 'group' s/he belongs to?

-by gender, by race, by ethnicity, by nationality, etc.

"you are British, therefore you have a wacky sense of humor" "You are blonde, therefore you are dumb..you must be lying about that PhD you say you have in molecular biology"..

would you tell a black teenager to his face s/he "must be" good at basketball, because 'all you people are" even when he tells you he is not?

would you tell an Asian teenager to his face s/he "must be" good at math, because "all you people are" even when he tells you he is not?

I would hope not!!

but you feel comfortable telling wildman (and me) that he "must" love BJs because he is a male, even after he has told you that he does not?

any man who says otherwise, in your all-knowing opinion, is lying or 'falsely issuing a challenge to women' because really he secretly loves BJs and is jsut trying to psyche them out?

really, now..
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
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Posted: 1/17/2009 8:45:33 AM
some sex is overrated u just gotta find a professional.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 53
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/18/2009 8:22:17 AM


The proven fact is that most American women don't enjoy giving them, but they do it to secretly please their men.

I can prove other wise,, most women that I have known enjoy it, and the ones who think they are doing me a favor,, I say see ya,,
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 54
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/18/2009 10:07:58 PM

I really don't know,I'd have to think on this one a bit


Well thanks for dropping in, do come back and let us all know what you decide, I for one am standing on pins and needles awaiting your next post.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 2/1/2009 7:41:29 AM
OP....maybe your bad attitude is the cause of the bad BJ's


That may be correct, or maybe I should start getting them from deceptive women, you know the kind? The ones that put "average" in their profiles, when a blind man can look at their pictures and see they are obviously BBW....just a thought
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 2/1/2009 4:12:04 PM
I think the OP is just a s hit stirrer myself


Ahhh DOPEY, you know me so well.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 57
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:41:31 PM
Aaahhhh. the word is MOOT, not mute.

And no, BJs are not overrated. If you had 1000000 from women who were either bad at it or really didn't want to do it, then it's true, you wouldn't know the big deal.

When you've had them from a woman who wants to be down there, can't wait to suck your ¢0¢k, puts her everything into it, swallows everything and keeps sucking on you, then you'll change your mind.

Night and day....
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 58
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 2/1/2009 10:03:32 PM
I am 2 sizes below the national average in size


that may very well be right, I have no idea what the "national average " is these days I am guessing size 18 0r 20 would be about right?


So I guess if it makes an angry aggressive man feel better to insult me feel free


If memory serves you are the one that started in with the insults, not I, YOU came into this thread solely to toss around your petty insults. Now you got your big girl bloomers all knotted because you think I insulted you, please get over yourself, my post was in no way directed at you, but if the cap fits, who am I to try stopping you from wearing it.

Now I would ask you very nicely to address the topic and not me, I have no interest in you, your weight, or your off topic attempt at starting some kind of flame war based on some imaginary insult directed at you by me. Have something relevant to add to the topic being discussed, feel free to chime in, otherwise just please go away.
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