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 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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I've been down so long, I'm starting to grow gills...I could use sometime up in the shallows. Kidding. Mostly.
Not tonight, I have a headache
Now that's just sad.

Someone send stargazer a snorkel.
 texasbaby
Joined: 7/21/2005
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Posted: 12/3/2009 4:15:59 AM
^^^^^^ No doubt!
I think what's "normal" for some, would scare the heck out of others!
Whatever works for you, is normal, don't ya think?

tb
 SingleGuy4912
Joined: 7/25/2006
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Posted: 12/3/2009 11:56:04 AM
Yeah, what's normal? For that matter, does self-gratification count?
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 12/17/2009 7:34:21 AM
I'm thinking everyone is different when it comes to "normal".

Example:
My grandson is in the 1st grade but reads at 3rd grade level ... that's "normal" for him (and actually really great considering he's borderline Autistic)

A lot of women won't "have sex" with a man unless there is some sort of emotional tie ... perhaps even commitment ... disease testing ... so that's "normal" for them

To me, "normal" is what stays within my comfort zone and since we're all different, my logic tells me that ... everyone is different when it comes to "normal".

I would rather be involved with a gentleman who views "sexual intimacy" the same as I do ... and that means he's not out there having sex with just any woman he can find ... just to "have sex".

So, yes ... it might take years to find that person ... and that would be "normal" for me.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 12/17/2009 8:34:17 AM
I once went without for 12 years. Of course, I hadn't reached puberty.
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
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Posted: 12/17/2009 10:15:45 AM

To get a lady, you've got to expose yourself as well.


I might be wrong, but I don't think that's the best way and potentially could lead to an appearance in court.
 Jake52177
Joined: 12/18/2007
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Posted: 12/17/2009 12:46:33 PM
I heard Richard Pryor say there's only 2 pieces of "stuff" you remember, your first and your last, and if i gotta think i don't wanna live that long.
 mysteriosa
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Posted: 2/12/2010 8:02:40 PM
I don't think it would put me off but I might wonder why you'd been so restrained given than many men aren't. I don't go after any free male either so I can understand that.
 MrLove45
Joined: 1/31/2010
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Posted: 2/12/2010 8:51:46 PM
You'll be just fine. Just stop comparing your self to your roomate and get back on that horse. You've waited this long why not let it happen natuarally with some lady that you really care about.
You've waithed this long so why not see if you can connect with a woman mentally,spiritually,emotionally and then physically.
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