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 lalby
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I would never delete my account or stop talking to people ive become friendly with for a man.
If my man didnt trust me then how could it work?
And i wouldnt expect my guy to cut himself off from people for my sake either.
As long as you are honest and open and dont keep the fact that you chat to people a secret then i dont see how it can hurt anyone.
I'll try this in uk forums, opinions please
Posted: 1/18/2009 2:57:36 AM
I'm at odds with the previous replies on here Stewy.

My advice to you would be for the two of you to exit all dating and chat sites, and concentrate on the relationship that you're fostering.
Never mind the trust and fidelity aspect of the relationship, immerse yourselves in your own lives, at least for a short period of time.
Sit down and talk, does she tick all the boxes for you?
Do you tick all the boxes for her?
If not, how can you change that?
do you want to change that?

I'm talking from experience here.
I'm a Libran who's twice your age span, and have spent my life looking for the perfect partner.
Only to have lost her because I failed to ask those questions.

A.T.B. Rob...
 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 1/18/2009 3:12:26 AM

recently realised that she is still chatting to an ex and a few male friends,


So she can talk to her mates , exes, men etc but you can't ?

I think you need to both be singing from the same hymn sheet, if her 'chats' are non-threatening to you then so should yours be for her
 lalby
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Posted: 1/18/2009 4:48:32 AM
I forgot to put like with others on here,i wouldnt activly look for new people to chat to,it would just be the people i know already.
And i also wouldnt sit here chatting to people whilst my man was about,i think when both parties are about the pc should be off and they should be conversating with eachother.
 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 1/18/2009 5:13:14 AM
Change the record josh

Do you have shares in facespace or mybook or any of the other 'networking' sites you keep plugging ?

(now where did I put my wooden spoon )
 oggers
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Posted: 1/18/2009 8:54:04 AM
Stewy, you are in a relationship and still chatting to random females.....

Your "little lady" is also in a relationship (with you !) and chatting to random males ....

Now I may be missing something but IMO it wont be long before the Green Eyed Monster raises its head, and you are both referring to each other as " the ex "

Quit typing on here and talk to your lady about what is going on here. Otherwise you will lose her.
 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 1/18/2009 9:07:58 AM

This is a dating site though so pretty daft coming on here if your not looking to date someone


This has been done to death on many other threads, by people in relationships who still like to debate on the forums. Yes, it may well be a dating site, BUT, you don't have to want a date to debate on the forums.

I think the OP has said he resurrected his account, not created a new one, therefore he didn't come looking for a date, but a debate.
 oggers
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Posted: 1/18/2009 9:15:41 AM
Bloody hell, if HE is old, then I have No chance !!!!
 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 1/18/2009 9:25:30 AM

This is an old man who is looking for attentions from other people in a very big way.



I hope when you reach the ripe 'old' age that he is, you will appreciate being called an old woman (FYI I am ten years older than him and don't class myself as old)

And aren't we all looking for attention in some shape or other by posting our thoughts on a forum like this ?

If I make a comment I feel to be amusing and it gets a reaction, I am happy.

(does that make me an attention seeker lol)
 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 1/18/2009 3:49:00 PM

I am older than 19. In fact i am older than anyone who is under 22.



Sorry ? Are you saying you are lying about your age ?

What does this have to do with the price of fish ?

 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 1/18/2009 4:47:14 PM
my point Josh was
Yes, it may well be a dating site, BUT, you don't have to want a date to debate on the forums.


which i know you disagree with, as you have said many times

and some people find your fixation with casual sex/ casual relationships suspicious but hey ho it's all good and fun in a debating way
 TheRealSoul
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Posted: 2/19/2009 11:22:03 AM
l agree with the talk to your woman advice. lf theres something wrong in a relationship you sort it out together. Continuing to chat to random people can only raise questions within your relationship.
Nothing wrong with putting your views and opinions on the forums or chatting to 'friends' though, just remember that what you have is real and the internet and all its pitfalls can damage that.
Personally, once im with someone the chatrooms and dating sites hold no interest for me as l would be enjoying as much time as possible with her, and you cant hug an email
happy fishing all
 diabolikk
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Posted: 2/19/2009 1:14:32 PM
"I've reactivated this profile as a way to chat to ladies when the little lady is sleeping"

When in a relationship, I'm not so sure this is a good habit to keep or revert to, on a site connected with Dating.

Try a forum without dating connections.
 nemises546
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Posted: 3/19/2009 4:35:17 AM
Just by being on a dating site and chatting to other females...is cheating on your partner...seeing has you wait until she is in bed...if you want to chat to other people get off this site and find one that you can make friends with in other countries or in fact your own....I also go on another site (non dating) and i have some great friends who I chat to on a daily basis and have been a great support to me.
 nemises546
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Posted: 3/19/2009 4:38:32 AM
I'd also say the OP seems to be trying other forums to at least find someone who agrees with what he's upto. i for one do not.

it will end in tears...and if you are married a load of money....get your life in order
 Doitwithoutme
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:25:31 PM
One way round it if innocent on all parts is to allow her access to thr profile so she can see is just chat and banter, but whats sauce for the goose is good for the gander I say.

What hypocrisy though she ought not be put out if she is doing the same. You have to talk to her though too resolve it is a waste of time asking people here for advice.
 Cleverkitten
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:30:09 PM

You have to talk to her though too resolve it is a waste of time asking people here for advice.



You might have to type that a bit louder as the OP and his little lady left the building ages ago
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