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 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
If you're counting.....u have to count them all....
But why count?
Nobody's business how many partners I've had......let alone what kind of sex it was.
 jackster121
Joined: 9/2/2008
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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was?
Posted: 1/18/2009 10:10:49 AM
In my opinion, they are equal but different. When I have had monkey-sex it wild abandon and lustful which sated me (temporarily LOL) and when I have had an intense lovemaking session with anintimate partner, it has been physically and mentally a one-of-a-kind experience. Deep, satisfying (temporarily) and a sense of closeness you do not get from wild, fvcking. Both are great just different.
Do I categorize, no, I don't have that kind of time.
 MsMicki
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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was?
Posted: 1/18/2009 12:50:13 PM
I've never felt the need to come up with excuses for having sex.
If I have sex.....it's because I wanted to have sex.
Whether it was with my SO.......or a one night stand.....or FWB......

If I felt the need to "classify" it.......or "justify" it.....it would mean I felt guilty about something....
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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was?
Posted: 1/18/2009 12:59:24 PM
When taking into account how many sex partners you've had, is it important to classify what type of sex it was?

Hmmm ... a type of sex never entered my mind. There might have been two different approaches - to start with - but blending into o n e was always on the same wavelengths.

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 MsMicki
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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was?
Posted: 1/18/2009 1:15:37 PM
overthink much?
 MsMicki
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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was?
Posted: 1/18/2009 4:50:56 PM
Don't assume we didn't "get it"......
just know.....it seems most of us have never felt the need to "categorize" our sex acts.
We are comfortable with our sexual past.....
We don't need to justify ourselves by putting into perspective.
The question made us think u do.
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