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 vulcangirl
Joined: 12/29/2004
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Wow, I am a single mom and I am a lot of fun. We single mothers do miss out on a lot of guys because of our kids, but I won't say I actually "miss" it if you get my drift. It is a package deal and men who can handle women with kids are special. Thank you all of you not-so-selfish men out there!
 d-belle
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 7/4/2005 10:49:54 AM


sexy-and-single, that was perfect!
 CareToBoxOutOfTheRing
Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 7/5/2005 10:03:43 AM
You know all of us show signs of living. Some of us have scars that live inside of our hearts. Others show signs by having kids. Some choose to run from their scars, and they waste a whole life time hinding them from every one else. The true souls wear them on their shoulder for every one else to see, and admire. We all have some thing about us that some one in this world isn't going to like. The key is finding the ones that will love you and your scars. Then you will go one and live a little more, inorder to make more scars together. The best part is since we all have them; yet all of them was giving to us in diffrent ways, we have such great stories to tell about them. So go live your life, and remember one thing. What is one mans destiny, isnt anothers. In-order to reach your destiny, may mean standing along and looking strange in the eyes of others....
 cpupro_4hire
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/6/2005 11:21:25 AM


Oh I'd also like to add...

cpupro_4hire..I just read your profile and I giggled while reading it. Not sure why but I picture you with a big long broomstick up your a** and not at all what most single moms would want anyway...Oops sorry, let me rephrase that before I get hate mail...maybe not all single moms as I can't speak for them but THIS single mom...there...and I wager a few others too.

Get over yourself...you ain't all that. Mr. Perfect...indeed


Blastkist you are a sweetie. I like how you speak your mind. :)

You're right, I'm not perfect. But in a world that's messed up enough as it is, the one thing I can set right is what goes on in my family. And rather than leaving behind a trail of kids with numerous ex's and being a deadbeat dad, I'm looking for someone that doesn't have kids and wants them someday when she's ready. And when I find that special someone, I'm not going to f*ck it up.

I've noticed that many single moms are single moms because they had children at a very young age. I've waited until my life was in order, my income stable and strong, and my education complete. I'm now at a stage where I can think about the possibility of having kids of my own.

 sweetdad4u
Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/7/2005 12:21:27 PM
well mr 4hire, i have never heard so much shit come out of 1 persons mouth, before i was blessed with my daughter i met her mother who had i 6 mth old son, who i see now as my son that kid gave my a new outlook on life and my daughter is doing the same single mothers r no different then any other women, in fact most of them have more to offer, not saying that u personally should date them but saying sometimes u cant control who your heart feels is right and sometimes it wrong, ya maybe some girls have kids for the wrong reason, and maybe some r not ready, but in the end it doesnt make them any different, i am the oppsite of u, i will only date single mothers. you should just understand the other side of things before u flap your mouth of, and if need attention that bad i would never have kids if i were u
 sweetdad4u
Joined: 6/2/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2005 12:23:00 PM
and to add i was pretty much a father at 20 and ya it was hard but i am very stable now so its make no diff, what age u r
 moffiaprincess
Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 7/14/2005 10:25:19 AM
having children at a young age doenst mean a thing , when i had my son at 17, i was a high school drop out and had nothing to look forward to, now i am in collage, saving money to buy my own house and life is great, granted yes dating is hard, just finding a balance is all it takes, i still go out and have a great time and if i want to "bring someone home" i just aska freind to babysit at there place, its called kid swapping it really werks, and if you dont want to date a single mom thats fine too, just dont use her, be honest your not into it,
 sweetone30
Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/14/2005 11:26:24 AM
cuterguy........... i believe wat princess wa ssayin g is that she can wait until her daughter is in bed, get a sitter ..go out.. come home and still be the mom in the morning.. and her daughter has not missed her..
 Melissanicole
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/22/2005 8:30:33 PM
Sometimes we cant... and its not necessarily fair, but we have to assign priority in our lives and our children have to be number one.

If you want to take a single mom out and she is always declining- maybe she doesnt have the money for a sitter- just a thought.
 wonwascallywabbit
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/5/2005 2:48:33 AM
I look at it this way, gives me an excuse to go to Chuck-e-Cheese and play the arcade games without it looking like I wanted to. lol
 raven2003
Joined: 8/5/2005
Msg: 31
Single moms. Can they have any fun?
Posted: 8/5/2005 8:44:29 PM
ya kids always come first. but there is baby sitters and a family member to take these kids for an evening. if guys can't except the fact that i come with a package then don't waste my time kind of thing but it can work i should know i have done it a few times my self
 Angel_73
Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 8/13/2005 11:21:43 AM
Im a single mom and i still go out and have fun ... my ex takes my daughter almost every weekend so that gives me plenty of time to go out, have a nice dinner at home with the bf, have his stay over etc.

Once i meet someone I have no problems having him come over during the week for dinner, movie etc. There is always time after my daughter goes to be to be alone as well.

The only thing i can see why guys have a problem with dating a single mom is they can not be as spontanious as single girls cuz they have to find a sitter first. Other then that i dont see a problem.

Im sorry but my daughter is # 1 in my life and always will be ...my man comes a close 2nd when i have one lol But that dont mean my family and friends arent up there with him.

 Angel_73
Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 8/17/2005 10:01:45 PM
Thx Nixx46 ... of course he comes in a close second ... when i have a man i like to spend as much time with him as i can ... if that includes my daughter as well all the better.
 techgirl27
Joined: 9/5/2005
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Posted: 10/7/2005 10:30:02 AM
So single parents shoud be dissed and dumped because they've done the hard work for you?

The vast majority of them arent that way by choice, and for people like you to be dissing them simply becuase of their status is insensitive. How do you know you wont be an important person in the kids' lives? Unless you open your mind up, you'll never know how it will turn out.
 Tanya2000
Joined: 4/23/2005
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Posted: 6/6/2006 5:14:45 PM
...in answer only to the subject question: single mums can have far more fun than you ever dreamed of or imagine ;-)

I know :-)))

I don't think you see very far at all. Best for you to stay clear of single mothers. They don't need guys like you. Find a single lady who doesn't care for children. ...saves wasting anyone's time.
 Tarika
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 5/4/2007 9:13:37 PM
I parented my two boys for quite a few years alone. I didn't go out much and most of my time was spent with them. However, now both are in their teenage years and I can finally have some fun on my own.
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