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Joined: 1/29/2009
Msg: 36
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I have the same issue and have recently become open to the idea of professional help and am currently looking further into that. here is something i think you should read and then do a google search and you will find more on it as well.
note : a sex therapist might be able to help as the issue may be in the subconscious

"Delayed ejaculation, also called retarded ejaculation or inhibited ejaculation, is a man's inability for or persistent difficulty in achieving orgasm, despite typical sexual desire and sexual stimulation. Generally, a man can reach orgasm within a few minutes of active thrusting during sexual intercourse, whereas a man with delayed ejaculation either does not have orgasms at all or cannot have an orgasm until after prolonged intercourse which might last for 30–45 minutes or more.[1] In most cases delayed ejaculation presents the condition in which the man can climax and ejaculate only during masturbation, but not during sexual intercourse. It is the least common of the male sexual dysfunctions, and can result as a side effect of some medications. In one survey, 8% of men reported being unable to achieve orgasm over a 2-month period or longer in the previous year"

I hope this helps
Joined: 10/30/2013
Msg: 37
Can't get off during sex
Posted: 2/16/2014 10:28:26 PM

Try changing positions. Missionary never worked for me; I thought there was something wrong with me. Tried Cowgirl; SCORES...almost every time.

The o.p. posted the question five years ago. It's pretty safe to assume he has got this sorted by now.
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 38
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Can't get off during sex
Posted: 7/14/2014 12:00:46 PM
I can't get off with sexual intercourse either.I can with self masturbation.I get off by orally pleasing a woman front and back.Mostly into BDSM Play.
Joined: 2/3/2012
Msg: 39
Can't get off during sex
Posted: 8/10/2014 3:14:09 AM
Fuck harder............
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