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 recko_lover
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 326
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Muse1440, sorry but your wrong, in a couple of ways. Psychologically the reason men want sex is because thats how there programmed. Men continuously make sperm until they die. There sex drive is a never ending quest to reproduce.(this includes reproducing with multiple partners). women on the other hand, have a limited amount of time before they stop menstrating. Thats why women usually want to find a stable relationship where they can have kids, and a family. I say usually because there is the small percentage of women that decide their bodies are instruments rather than temples...(I.E. hookers, sluts...ect).
I guarantee you before every first date, the man is asking himself, "would I do her" and the women is asking herself, "Where could this relationship be going"
 clt199
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 327
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why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/1/2006 3:52:49 PM
A lot of men are on these sites for yes, one thing, SEX!!!! But not all of us.
There are many men out ther that are yes, looking for a relationship(As I am one of those), and if things work out that a relationship starts, we are dating. then yes, sex is a big part of the relationship, amongst many other things.
We both have to get to know each other, feel right for each other, and be ready to commit to each other
There are guys out there, good guys, not JUST looking for sex, but there are men who are on many of these type of sites that are looking for that one night stand, or other type of relationships
We are out there, just keep looking, one should pop up for you soon, I hope
 glasgowguerilla
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 328
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/4/2006 2:07:58 PM
listen the guys in here are full of crap.....they stand in front of either bikes and cars and house professing that they are diffrent from everyone else ......well here is a newsflash ladies it is complete bull the guys in here are just like me ....they are looking to get laid and they are trying to get it on the cheap .....guys when they hang out with guys condascend women ( for you guys who do not know what that means you should not even be here)......cut the crap all men lie and cheat and want to get laid for free ...no man wants to pay for sex unless it is an escort......it si obvious that plenty of fish is free so taht will atrract the cheap losers like me and believe me guys are cheap when it comes to trying to get derrier for free if you woman have not figured out this buy now....then you deserve all you get ......a cheap place brings out cheap people
you can insult me all you want but thats the way it is .... .....probably half these guys are still living with their mother and their mother is paying for their computer
 Funlovinnut
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 329
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/4/2006 2:44:33 PM
Wow u are a messed up person i see ... as i would love a womans touch yes but why does it have to be sexual and for u to put all men in your catagory is so wrong ..i would explain it to u but u are one of the men that give us all a bad name .. i was brought up to respect women and love and cherish them and i have always had long term relationships and never cheated ..now i must say as a man yes we have thoughts of other women as women do of men but nver acting on it is the difference ... so plz don't put me in ur torrid world of lying and cheating ..I want someone to do things with and grow with and if there is sex it is another part of closeness u both feel ..
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 330
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/4/2006 2:55:44 PM
There are a couple of reasons.

1/ Because the women beech and carry on like port chops if the man shows even the vaguest interest in sex.
With this in mind I will never understand why so many women are so addicted to the idea of marriage becaust THAT is THE sexual realtionship. You can date for years without sex but sex is a part of marriage.

2/ I regualry PM numerous women about something other than sex. Something interesting in thier profile that I just want to chat about. These women do reply but, when I havent raised the issue of sex by the third PM they asume that, because I havent asked them for sex, then I'm not interested in them, and they simply stop replying or they block me.


So Mickie. Are you genuinely after a man who isn't after sex all the time???????
Or is this just another feeeble excuse to grizzle about men.
 belly18dancer
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 331
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/4/2006 4:24:30 PM
I think it's your horrid spelling that is making them uninterested

women love sex as much as men...but if we exercise our passions and go out and sleep around with every guy that turns us on, then we are labeled as a whore and slut....

I mean men think if you sleep with them on the first date, you're a whore...ok but didn't they just sleep with you on the first date? doesn't that make them a whore too? no...they're the stud...it's a double standard that is not fair

not only that, women online are bombarded EVERYDAY with requests for sex...so of course we're going to get tired of being a sexual object and wonder ''is this guy serious, or is he just wanting sex too?" So you can blame our suspicions on all those of your gender who are just prowling around online looking for women to f***, they do have sites specifically for intimate encounters but for some reason men would rather pick on women who want something ''long term''...I assume it's because they feel we're not as slutty as the women on the ''intimate encounter'' sites...who knows?

but the fact is, just because we don't want to talk sex with every guy who brings it up, doesn't make us a prude....we love sex as much as men, we're just a bit more picky about who we're doing it with

a male friend gave me this quote to use with those online pervs..."A whore is someone who sleeps with everyone....a bi.tch is someone who will sleep with everyone BUT YOU!!!"
 belly18dancer
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 332
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/4/2006 4:25:04 PM
by the way...what are port chops and how do women carry on like them???
 InnocentFlirt
Joined: 1/7/2006
Msg: 333
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/5/2006 11:28:27 AM
Men only JUST want sex, cause woman have allowed this to happen!
why strive for anything else, when they know that at the snap of a finger, there is a woman not to far away, willing to give it up....
with no flowers, no conversation, no other intimacy.
Those relationships are easier for men, they dont have to work at it...
If woman started to boycot casual sex....Men would then change their tune...and they would do it VERY soon!
 Nightwing66
Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 334
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/5/2006 2:12:45 PM
Well....it worked for Aristophanes' Lysistrata.

Of course, all the young men were gone fighting wars.....& the old guys couldn't break down the doors of the Acropolis
 EBAR
Joined: 3/3/2006
Msg: 335
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why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/5/2006 2:41:12 PM
THERE ARE MANY REASONS FOR THAT QUESTION ./ 1 .....BECAUSE IT IS A NORMAL WAY OF LIFE ,,, BUT WITH THE RIGHT WOMEN THAT YOU WANT TO WITH......UNDERSTAND MEN JUST LIKE WOMEN WANT THE SAME THING WOMEN WANT THE HOT SEX JUST LIKE US MEN ... AGAIN WITH THE ONE THAT TURNS ONE ON... IT SHOULD BE THE SAME ,,, FOR BOTH. THE WANT , TO SATISFY EACH OTHERS NEEDS....................AND THAT IS ONLY THE START...........
 lizziemae
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 336
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/5/2006 3:13:10 PM
Men want just sex, cause they just want to catch a nut. It makes them feel like they are a man, not just for the Love within.

Whenever a man get the urge to want sex, they can be like dogs fighting over a bone. Get off, and then go to the next woman...... Men need to cool their behinds and think about AIDS....
 vsangel
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 337
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/5/2006 3:19:44 PM
Well now...sorry to hear that you need a woman to make you feel good, but let me say you shouldn't generalize all women by your past misfortunes...not all women have a ulterior motive. I myself don't need a man to feed me, buy me drinks, clothes, and etc., sorry but I prefer to pay my own way thru life, however I do desire a man in my life to share lifes adventures, and that should be a compliment, a man knowing that a woman desires him not needs him.

So in retrospect you should be more careful in your choosing of Barbies, there are girls and then there are women. Keep smiling and searching.
 belly18dancer
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 338
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/5/2006 3:26:39 PM
for that angry glasgow man, who says this is a site full of cheap people looking to get laid for free

i've been on paying sites, and guess what , the men there are looking to get laid too...for the most part...
 crossroads5050
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 339
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/6/2006 5:03:36 PM
OK, Who wants to get laid???
Oh wait, I guess is not the right for forum....lol
WOW... glasgowguerilla...You must do really well on this sight...lol
Someone wrote something, about 800 posts ago, about how men and women are just wired differently...I can buy into that but I also see alot of women in Victoria's Secret outfits and bikini's. So, who we kidding? Sex should enter into the equation but some guys let the little head do all the thinking for the big head. I can't think of a clever way to say that about women...but so do some of them.
I mean if your responding to the woman with her shirt half off or the guy in his speedo...guess what? They have an agenda
We are who we are...some of us have high sex drives but also have higher standards. Others have no morals what so ever and then there is everything inbetween, including those who are single for a reason (oops sorry that wasn't very nice).
But I will give that wack job, glasgowguerilla some credit. It's true that there are a lot more people on here that are not serious and like to screw around. Having to pay for a web site does weed out some of the freaks. But if this is the only singles site you are on, I guess you kind of deserve what you get.
 vivi63
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 340
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/6/2006 5:10:05 PM
I totally agree.....men will tell you anything to get in your pants, even if you tell them before you ever meet what type of a woman you are and your standards...they will lie right to you and say they understand, they like that, they aren't out for sex....you meet the guy and he has one hand up your shirt and one down your pants!!!! LOL
 chp1945
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 341
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/6/2006 5:42:09 PM
well men are creation centered by time and nature.
most anyway are really and truly seeking much more than simply sex
companionship and so much more
 crossroads5050
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 342
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/6/2006 6:05:32 PM
That's what happens when you wear a skirt and pants at the same time...
 1goodguyleft
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 343
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/6/2006 6:47:01 PM
I don't need sex all the time as I am getting older. But I had a girlfriend years ago that always took care of me if I was in the mood & she wasn't! It's so easy to get a man off by hand or mouth! What's the bid deal? How long does it take to get him off, maybe 10 min.? If u love someone it's not much to keep him happy! Also he won't b looking 4 it somewhere else cause u r not keeping him satisfied! Men r wired that way by God & he doesn't make mistakes! We have a stronger sex drive because of more testosterone & we can't really help it!
 Easyrdr
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 344
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Posted: 11/6/2006 7:30:41 PM
I think that most users of this site would agree that they want a best friend and a fantatic lover in their relationship with their mate.
 Not a Trout
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 345
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/6/2006 7:56:04 PM
Not all of us do. For many though physical contact is the only social clue they understand. I personally don't want sex on a first or second date. It takes the romantic aspect out of dating. Part of a relationship should be based on interpersonal attraction, a bond that goes far beyond the physical. That being said we are simply animals and at times fall victim to our evolutionary desire to procreate. Our society is so caught up in the sexual aura of the media and movies that it sometimes colors all we do. The worst part of chasing sex and only sex is that you often miss out on the best part of the person.
Have a great evening.
 kloey
Joined: 10/3/2005
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Posted: 11/9/2006 10:31:19 AM

Everyone wants to make love!males can admit it,but women dont!


Wrong answer. I'm a female and I readily admit that I can't wait to have sex, as well as to make love. When I do decide to take that step in my life, you better believe my partner will definitely know of my desire for him.
 GAL4U2C
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 347
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Posted: 11/14/2006 3:53:22 PM
Because it is in a man's genetics to reproduce. Simple fact. This theory goes back to the stone ages. Why do women keep asking this question?
 c4seth
Joined: 8/4/2006
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Posted: 11/14/2006 4:18:49 PM
Men are pigs. The ones that say they are not in it for sex still have sex in the back of their minds.. or they're gay and could care less (You said you wanted the truth right). Every girl I've dated has pretty much been in it for the sex, so it realy doesn't always go one way. Some women believe a guy is just good for sex, what else do we do to contribute to a relationship.. If you only knew what guys talk about when there are no females around... If you did you would probably become a lesbian. Alright, the answer is TESTOSTERONE, which as you know is produced in the gonads of men. Find a guy, even one who wants sex all the time and castrate him, then he would be less inclined. If guys didn't want sex all the time, most of us wouldn't be here and the human race would eventualy become extinct. Society also plays a role, because back i the 20's guys didn't expect that as much from women, but look at their dress. G-strings didn't exist, only long dresses and hats. No short skirts or skimpy shirts. But there are some good guys out there, probably < 1% of the male population. Hope you find the one for you. :laugh P.S. this is not meant to offend anyone, merely to give a straight answer, which sounds like what you're looking for.
 Junneco
Joined: 11/9/2006
Msg: 349
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 6:20:53 PM
You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I so much agree. It almost makes me sick to my stomach. The men here in Jax...thinks if they pay for dinner, they expect sex. When we say NO, they think WE are the ones with a problem. What's up with that? They are truly sick in their minds and also think they are SO much the best lover out there. I hope one day, they get a life. Women are just fine....not need nor want sex from a lonely man.
 tsmith33534
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 350
why do men just want sex
Posted: 11/14/2006 7:03:36 PM
General statement you make and it does those of us that do not expect nor think or want a disservice if I may say... I could say the same statement about women based on how my ex has acted since our divorce as she (from what my daughter tells me) brings home a different guy every other night from the bars she goes too.... as in there is a new face at the breakfast table when my daughter gets up in the morning...
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