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 MrBob54
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 151
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sorry about the typoes iwas laughing to hard when i read this , not at the question just the whole subject matter people are funny
 MrBob54
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 152
why do WOMEN just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 4:52:53 AM
LMAO COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS BUDDY
 Madhattan
Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 153
why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 7:41:05 AM
I am not one of those guys that just wants sex. Through my personal encounters, I have gone out on a lot of dates. A lot of these women think that if you are not drooling and all over them, and just speak to them like a human being, that something is wrong with them. "Why isnt he hitting on me?, Does he not like me?, Oh, is he gay?, Oh he's just a friend because he is not all over me". Women are very self conscious.
 floridacoastman50
Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 154
why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:16:22 PM
My humble opinion is that men seem to think women think the way men do. When I was a teenager of course sex was the ultimate. Sex turned into an addiction quickly and caused many heartaches and guilt. Not that anyone cares, but I haven't had any in 1647 days now, that is just a ballpark figure. I have had the chance but she wanted money for it.
In my priorities sex definately isn't first on the list. The sound of a female laughing so hard she can be heard over my laughter is first. Lets face it. We all want happiness. Sex to many men is secondary. We have been trained that the adonis will get the date first and any poll I have seen demonstrates that a high percentage of women place sex appeal very high on their list. Men want to strut their feathers and do the turkey dance right away to eliminate competitors. The thought of having another female friend that talks about how good looking that guy she dated the other night isn't exactly what we are looking for. I have lived around females all my life and I notice how they manipulate men with sex just like I notice that men try to flirt flagrantly with any good looking skirt they can.
It works both ways. Females want sex also, they just don't want to used. Men don't want to be used for 50.00 dinners and months of being the back up guy until the "right guy comes along". The game continues. If you are finding only men that want sex, maybe you are presenting yourself as the type that only wants sex. I have met many women that would date in a heartbeat knowing full well that I would have no chance of sex. If I felt chemistry then I would jump all over the date, not her. I don't want to date a girl that just communicates by body language, suggestive flirting and conversation that sex with the right guy is what she wants. Sure as there is sun in Florida she will be off with the next guy that blows her skirt up anyhow, and then comes the insecurity; who wants that?

Since I have had to enter the dating scene in midlife I cannot even imagine having sex on the first few dates. Maybe there is a circumstance that it could happen with, but I highly doubt it because it is not what I personally am looking for. I would probably think she was too loose and politely excuse myself. Not to bash females that categorize men because sure as sunup men categorize gals, it is my feeling that females that think all men want is sex are targeting those type of men. Men that think females don't want sex enough are targeting females while they wear blinders and earplugs. Their are plenty of men that don't want sex right away and plenty of females that want relationships before sex. There are contradictory people that complain but turn down the nice guys and jerk men that make it hard on normal men. If all men wanted sex right away then every relationship would involve females that think that is ok. I am sure that isn't the case. Be careful with using a paintbrush because they drip on you. JMHO John
 fl_renaissance_guy
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 155
why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:44:41 PM
I resent this post...real men don't just want sex!!!!...enough said
 Dulsinea
Joined: 3/14/2005
Msg: 156
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why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 4:10:34 PM
Real men want Quiche!!

(w/bacon...right, FL Renaissance guy?!!!)
 RedFredOrlando
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 157
why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 5:05:32 PM
Bashing men is not going to help any woman find a good man, any more than a guy opening his first conversation with a woman using the line "Why do women spend three hours to look beautiful and then complain that the only thing men think about is sex?"



We're different, get over it--men and women, that is. And we are just as different from each other, men and men, as women are different from each other.

The Armchair Pilots called counselors tell people that the same problems with the opposite sex happening over and over show that we are finding the same people.....and if you are attracted to what annoys you I truly feel sympathy for everyone involved. Believe me, we could all rant for hours about the things that separate and divide us.... Maybe it is better if we focus on the things that bring people together, the things that keep us together--

The rest is just the voice of frustration.
 creamykisses
Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 158
why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/30/2006 8:42:27 PM
WOW!!!!

Coastman you had a very intersting point.....

"[ It works both ways. Females want sex also, they just don't want to used. Men don't want to be used for 50.00 dinners and months of being the back up guy until the "right guy comes along". The game continues.
If I felt chemistry then I would jump all over the date, not her. I don't want to date a girl that just communicates by body language, suggestive flirting and conversation that sex with the right guy is what she wants. Sure as there is sun in Florida she will be off with the next guy that blows her skirt up anyhow"]

YOU are so right THE GAME Does Continue...............


women do want sex and too not be used but, at the same time they dont want one nighters either.. seems most men have no problem with one nighters,..

Something was said to me today in fact that literally floared(sp) me...this person said..."we are all adults here so whats the big deal, it isnt like we are virgins and it is our very first time, we both know we want sex,so why do we have to make pretend dinners, and get to know one another when all we want from one another is sex??

I could not believe what I was hearing ... I agree I do want sex and I do want a relationship but dont they go hand in hand ... I dont have in my profile ..intimate encounters,one nighters, sex pervs,or anything like that...that I am aware of .:) but yet most respond to me as if that is what I am seeking... I sometimes ask myself why???

I know I am not a knock out barbie babe, BUT I am a person who desires as most
do someone to grow older with and enjoy life .. why is that so hard for people to grasp... seems to me both male and female look at this "SEX" issue with different colored glasses and I have to wholeheartedly agree.............

THE GAME DOES CONTINUE.......

plz understand ((Generalizing here people....not any specifics of all..)

Creamy
 Forever or never
Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 159
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/2/2006 7:38:31 PM
No it's not all men that just want to have **x ,,,, just you people that live in the south ,, up here in the north we just do it to stay warm. lol
 luv4u461
Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 160
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/2/2006 9:32:01 PM
I can't and won't speak for other men but in my case, I feel having sex is the ultimate way of feeling loved by a woman. I don't mean just any woman or every woman.
I try to date a woman that I truly like and would consider marrying. I don't feature just chasing a lady for sex alone. If that is the case, a man is better off going to a house of prostitution; less people get hurt that way in the long run.
I don't agree that ALL just want sex from a woman..
 Scinque
Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 161
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/2/2006 9:52:12 PM
Not just sex, I think a lot of guys want the one thing that we can never find: a girl who can and will stand on her own two feet. Now, I know that may sound harsh but it is so true. We find so many women out there who just try to play us and some give in and expect a little booty now a lot of those guys are just dumb and should just give up and call a prostitue but there are those who try to get what they want: an undercover prostitute. Girls who play a game and get hurt or hurt someone. I can't give a lot of sympathy and I can say that it is save to say that most women can agree on a girl playing games and getting hurt. Game over.
I think most guys are like a lot of girls. They want friendship, a laugh, someone who can appreciate it when they can only take them to Mc Donalds from time to time. Someone who can at least offer to help out with dishes after we made a meal. Someone who can just drop the game and truely get to know us. No buissness deals, just a friendship first.
 TallMelbourneGuy
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 162
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:58:33 AM
Before you get into the all men think with the little head syndrome, let me make some flip side observations. I can count on 2 hands how many times I have had women approach me wanting sex at the first or second date. And yes I have accepted the offer, but rarely, and for each time (3 times by 3 different people), the sex wasn't nearly as good when I did accept. Sure there is some thrill aspects to it, and no I didn't hate any one of the encounters, but I know personally from myself that if I am not connected at some level besides "Hi how are you let's get it on", I don't usually perform nearly as well sexually speaking.

I even talked about this with one of the ladies before the encounter. Her words were, "Look I'm 35, single, busy, open minded, don't have time for a relationship and I get horny. I enjoyed the evening we spent, I found you relaxing and communicative and to be honest it made me comfortable and it was what I wanted to do finish enjoying my evening with you. It is just sex for me and nothing else".

The woman is a well educated bank vice president with lots of choices and options available to her besides her evening with me. And she enjoyed sex for sex sake. I did not hate the encounter and yes it was all totally safe sex. And yes we dated after that and the more we learned of each other, the more we decided that it wasn't going to be anything we were going to pursue long term. Neither of us feel any guilt about what happened.

Ladies, I personally know that we are all sexual creatures, don't complain this is all a one way street here. A lady or a man wanting sex, is part of our being as humans. Certainly men can be ignorant in the way they approach it, but horny is what horny is for different people.
 swm352
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 163
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 7:34:02 AM
wow, many of the women i have met in Florida seem to think thats all men are for. I think perhaps some of it is the internet dating. it is probably better to meet in everyday life someone who has the same interests as you then meeting someone online is what im starting to think. :) Peace
 ptrainer4u
Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 164
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 9:58:11 AM
lol......we don't want JUST sex,I think like myself we just think about it alot........ok,all the time. If you saw the movie phenonomon w/john travolta,his love interests asks(as they are sitting on a blanket,in a grassy area)."were you expecting to get lucky"?......"no" JT replies...."just hoping".....there are nice guys out there who will "wait" or just know when they know its "ok" to make that move......I'm one of 'em
 toolman62
Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 165
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why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 10:31:23 AM
the real reason is that men express themselves(and show their love) with sex and women express themselves with emotions
 rose33859
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 166
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 11:14:02 AM
I TOTALLY AGREE ...WHY DO MOSTLY ALL MEN THINK WE ARE GOING TO PUT OUT THE FIRST DATE????
 mrkinfl
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 167
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:23:48 PM
ive was married for 10 years and my wife said she lost herself so she moved out we seperated and next thing you know she needed money i woundnt give it to her so she became an escort to pay her bills instead of getting a real job, so i know how you feel. some woman just dont realize how good they have it until its gone. she didnt have to work when she was with me but that was her choice to move out and try it on her own.
 Akoni1965
Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 168
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 3:20:54 PM
Aye, there are alot of men out there that want a woman for company. I for one. I enjoy the fun you can have. Though finding a woman who doesn't think I am after her panties every day is also hard. I would love to find women for fun and adventures. If it leads to sex later and we are both comfortable with it, great, but until then, take it slow, enjoy being together and above all be honest with each other. I am old-fashioned and probably will always be. Good hunting to you and stay safe.
 Akoni1965
Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 169
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 4:37:52 PM
Young is in the state of mind. Age has nothing to do with friendship. Might be a factor for long term relationships. I have friends 20 years younger than me, I don't think I would date them, but we still have fun (probably cause I am a big kid at heart). But I am looking for closer to my age, but like I said friendship has nothing to do with age. Stay safe and be careful out there.

Ciao,
Akoni1965
 dave189
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 170
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 5:47:45 PM
Sex isn't everything....
 jforlove
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 171
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:58:19 PM
it actually depends on stituation.. some times guy dont want sex ( husband )
I m a man I want sex also but for me if I can find a girl for friendship I prefer that..
its like game , always girls thinking guys want sex and try stay away and when guy seem girls try stay away he try get closer and finally they talking about sex or jerkoff.. if I find a girl realy can be friend only friend as my dude I like girls as a friend better.. I think girls have to ask this questions by theirselves and they can find out what is the answer..
kisses and hugs
 elbarbaro019
Joined: 6/13/2006
Msg: 172
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:59:39 PM
bef.u main sex u field good and the...u see whow much u love that. person
 MrBob54
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 173
why do WOMEN just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:05:09 PM
this last reply was to the "man" who cryed about he was used for sex by women lol as I said count your blessings buddy and these teen guys who get it on with the teacher and turn her in hope his dingalaing falls of this world grows more goofy by the year as do the people
 Mr. Ivan
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 174
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 9:02:20 PM
I don't want sex.
 MagnusBoones
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 175
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 9:30:20 PM
mickiesthe1 , I dont really agree with you .Any normal human being will definitely want sex if in company of the opposite sex. In some cases some women have out lived their sexual life and as such what they really want is company to help reduce some kind of depression. In some other cases their age may be on the high side. Sex is a biological neccessity . I dont think the active women will complain about men wanting sex all the time. Most women I have met want more sex than I can handle. You do the maths. This is the truth. Magnus
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