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 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 33
How can you say...Page 6 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
^^LOL

I guess it is a little easier to love something that is not in your face and around all the time, no?

Yeah, sure....I love my ex husband and I would cry if he...died. LOL We have been divorced for 19 years TODAY of course....



Funny point, mylifeasme!
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 37
Has anyone practiced COMPLETE abstinence for sometime?
Posted: 3/9/2009 3:44:51 PM
Well, I could absolutely NOT go without (at least) self love/masturbation, no way, no how! So....not sure if I wanna offer kudos or condolences to those of you who CAN/DO...lol...but take whichever you prefer!
 GoneSailinBabe
Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 38
Has anyone practiced COMPLETE abstinence for sometime?
Posted: 3/11/2009 7:30:34 PM
I did, for nearly 6 years. It went fine and was entirely worth it. I have no regrets for having done it other than now, I do feel somewhat that I made a life choice to lose much of my sexuality during that time - but my desire was to focus on raising my children and being an excellent Mom. Not a woman. My time for that is now, and I'm fine with having made the choices I made.
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 39
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Has anyone practiced COMPLETE abstinence for sometime?
Posted: 3/12/2009 12:47:41 AM
I dont know, what time is it now?
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