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 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 89
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of course, taking a shower and then jumping right back into those sticky wet sheets defeats the purpose...do those and the pillowcase get changed, too? does the Febreeze come out? :)

there's a middle ground. but then, I live up north--we get a few months of humidity, and a few months of single digit weather. No sweating then (didja know much of sweat's ingredients are found in urine? hey let's get grossed out over everything that didn't bother us before). if i lived down in "sweat all the time" south, maybe I'd have a different view.

I don't need to kiss a girl after she's chowed down on cinnamon hearts ,but I'd prefer not to enjoy her breath reeking of sinus drip, garlic, and onions. there's a middle ground. sometimes you overlook one imperfect part of a lover b/c the rest of what she's doing is so good.
 April1963
Joined: 6/7/2013
Msg: 90
Hygiene and intimacy (sexual)
Posted: 10/4/2013 8:59:01 PM

A male friend told me that he and his wife of 20 years, bath in the morning and NOT at night..
I asked if they were sexual and he said "of course, including oral sex".
A full day usually includes physical activities, and using the commode. This sounds horrible to me.


^^This sounds stinky to me....lol


I have always had the habit of bathing before having sex and only washing my vagina after,Just to avoid any infection due to semen.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 10/5/2013 5:49:38 AM
If you just jumped out of the shower before, then where is that human lovers smell?

I dont want to smell Irish Spring.

Not implying after a hard day on the chain gang though, just don't wash off all of your sexy until you squeak.


1) some people love phermones

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 April1963
Joined: 6/7/2013
Msg: 92
Hygiene and intimacy (sexual)
Posted: 10/5/2013 11:45:43 AM
Hmmmmmmm.I was wondering why so many men on Pof commented about the women bad odor down there, and for this reason they do not like to do oral sex.

MYSTERY SOLVED!!!!
 sun_and_cinnamon
Joined: 12/3/2013
Msg: 93
Hygiene and intimacy (sexual)
Posted: 12/8/2013 10:49:38 AM
Call me crazy but I will take up to two showers a day, I prefer to be freshly showered if with someone before getting hot and heavy....Never had a problem with a man not showering before either. However I have had camping sex before where you couldn't exactly shower....maybe a dip in the river, was still hot tho.
 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
Msg: 94
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Posted: 12/8/2013 11:43:29 AM
OP, I can't speak for others, but personally, a woman should WANT to be freshly bathed before getting into bed, and as for me, I am almost obsessive/compulsive about my personal hygiene. I'm ALWAYS washing / showering etc. But that's just me, and MHO.
 Hamilton12345
Joined: 3/29/2012
Msg: 95
Hygiene and intimacy (sexual)
Posted: 12/8/2013 2:27:08 PM
All this talk of showers and baths makes it sound like you all only have completely planned out sex! How about a little spontaneity? Not saying hopping into bed right after a day of hard labour or straight from the gym, but gawd, don't you shower as part of getting ready to go out on a date? I shower before work in the morning and either at the gym or when I get home if I am riding, I'll be damned if I am going to shower a 3rd time, my skin would be like leather!
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 96
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Posted: 12/8/2013 4:07:03 PM
not everyone is located in the sweaty south :) Half the year up north, you can wear longjohns and a sweater and still not sweat in 30 degree weather. Of course, its nice to be lily fresh before bed, but after that first spurt of fluid...that's gone. As for using the commode, the ingredients of that fluid are found in your sweat. Your body doesn't have five different fluid tanks it pulls all the different fluids of your body from to keep everything separate.

If someone's worried about being lily-fresh, fine...pull me into the shower. As long as you have those wonderful anti-slip things on the floor, getting lathered up by an experienced partner is quite fun. foreplay, even :)
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 97
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Posted: 2/12/2014 3:46:50 AM
NEVER have I been to bed with a woman without showering or even a date for that matter....can tell ya some stories bout the reverse tho...kinda discusting and unbeleiveable in this day and age.....lol
 nyceguy85
Joined: 1/11/2013
Msg: 98
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Posted: 2/12/2014 9:06:53 AM
IF I AM WITH A WOMAN, SHE MUST WASH THE AREA THAT HER UNDERWEAR COVERS THOROUGHLY BEFORE ENGAGING IN SEX LESS THAN ONE HOUR BEFOREHAND!!! Very simple. If she feels ashamed to wash before sex, I will help her wash. I will be damned if the bedroom smells like Captain D's takeout because she didnt wash.
 that_ol_lady
Joined: 4/19/2013
Msg: 99
Hygiene and intimacy (sexual)
Posted: 2/12/2014 4:20:47 PM
In the words of the late great Redd Foxx ladies an gentlemen

You got to wash your a ss not the whole a ss but the a sshole
 that_ol_lady
Joined: 4/19/2013
Msg: 100
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Posted: 2/12/2014 5:28:40 PM

nyceguy85


IF I AM WITH A WOMAN, SHE MUST WASH THE AREA THAT HER UNDERWEAR COVERS THOROUGHLY BEFORE ENGAGING IN SEX LESS THAN ONE HOUR BEFOREHAND!!! Very simple. If she feels ashamed to wash before sex, I will help her wash. I will be damned if the bedroom smells like Captain D's takeout because she didnt wash.


UHH I hope you are also taking your own advice nobody wants a man who smells like butt nutts an cheese...

an based on some of your other postings on here you probably should change your name to narcissistic bitter guy..cause anit nothing nice flowing off that musical track..
 SILLYGIRL111
Joined: 11/30/2012
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Posted: 2/12/2014 7:03:36 PM
I take two showers a day and lotions does help your skin from being dry. You should shower before sex.
 nyceguy85
Joined: 1/11/2013
Msg: 102
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Posted: 2/13/2014 10:15:25 AM

UHH I hope you are also taking your own advice nobody wants a man who smells like butt nutts an cheese...

an based on some of your other postings on here you probably should change your name to narcissistic bitter guy..cause anit nothing nice flowing off that musical track..


Interesting. It seems as though any guy on here who does not worship the ground that every woman walks on and allows her to take his balls and put them in a jar is labeled as bitter. I have opinions and I dont sugar coat anything. If that makes me bitter than so be it. I rather be called bitter than a brown noser.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 103
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Posted: 2/16/2014 3:50:12 AM
Bathing 5 minutes before sex seems a bit OCD, as you wash all the good smells away too.
If a man/womans natural smells (that are good) offend someone, thats abnormal to me.

If someone just got off from working a stinky job or has never used wet wipes..yeah wash something if you are going to have sex, but not a scrub head to toe.
You need a couple of hours to get the sexy human smell back over the Irish Spring.

Thats one of the reasons sex in the morning is so good..
 greatblah
Joined: 11/14/2012
Msg: 104
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Posted: 2/26/2014 3:41:13 PM
Pearls of sweat and saltwater on the nature girl I love so much. Her hair grows all over her sexy body. She doesn't care what society thinks. She's so fundamental, primordial and uncorrupted by society. She's the queen of cool. She won't waste time on elementary talk. Midnight swims in the cool black waves and her in my arms as it rolls away.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 2/27/2014 8:11:36 AM

Bathing 5 minutes before sex seems a bit OCD, as you wash all the good smells away too.
If a man/womans natural smells (that are good) offend someone, thats abnormal to me.


Thank you, finally one person that thinks like me. My gf doesn't even like it for me to use cologne because it masks that unique smell that is the actual person. Now, that does not mean to stink, or the smell of sweating all day.


Thats one of the reasons sex in the morning is so good.


Love it.
 LiliMarleen
Joined: 5/24/2009
Msg: 106
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Posted: 2/27/2014 8:23:56 AM
Again, as so often, it comes down to personal preference.

As long as the couple agrees on what's sexy and what level of hygiene is desirable, it's all good.

Napoleon wrote to his wife: I'm coming home, don't wash, after months of warfare, and this was in the early 19th century, when people didn't wash all that often, in the first place.

I love the way my guy smells and feels after the gym. It's fresh sweat, and his whole body feels strong and energized. I think he's so sexy that way.

And he loves the way I smell everywhere, whether I just had a shower or haven't had one since the morning. He says it's just a different experience, and they're both good.

A guy who felt you had to shower before sex, either one of us, would drive me crazy. That's just not how I feel about the human body. Nothing wrong with it, if you do, but not a match for me.
 Westernguy
Joined: 2/14/2014
Msg: 107
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Posted: 2/27/2014 8:24:56 AM

Bathing 5 minutes before sex seems a bit OCD, as you wash all the good smells away too.


Agreed , too much is too much but too little is very BLAND !

One of my fave natural scents is a woman's scalp, during doggy I like to put my face right in her hair in breathe in her wonderful natural scent ! MMMMMMMMMMMMM

Armpits are hit and miss, they're either the nice musky scent or that pungent sour scent.

I think most would agree that the rearend is better to be freshly washed if you intend on embarking because even then it maintains a musky scent but then it's tolerable and even enjoyable once accustomed to it .




Westernguy
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 108
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Posted: 2/27/2014 8:37:03 AM

A guy who felt you had to shower before sex, either one of us, would drive me crazy. That's just not how I feel about the human body. Nothing wrong with it, if you do, but not a match for me.


I dated someone that had to take that shower and be super clean before jumping in the sack. It killed the sex and spontaneity and eventually the relationship.
 grizzelda
Joined: 6/25/2006
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Posted: 2/27/2014 8:54:11 AM
What about the overpowering smell and taste of body wash or soap as well? This may be a TMI moment, but oral sex after tooth brushing can be painful depending on the toothpaste, as the flavoring they use can be quite harsh and can burn delicate skin. Not talking tingling, talking burning...

I want to smell a person, not a bar of soap...
 Strider886
Joined: 3/28/2006
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Posted: 2/28/2014 2:24:41 PM
^^
And soap gets you right at the back of the throat.....
 April1963
Joined: 6/7/2013
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/28/2014 6:26:42 PM
Oh well, I only have to say that all of you are "dirty" people....lol
 BrianfromBurgh
Joined: 12/11/2013
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Posted: 3/9/2014 3:06:25 PM
I'm with you Peppermint. I love the aromas of the female body, no matter what, it is exciting, arousing, personal, bonding.

Morning sex, nooner, "seconds", anything goes, and the smells contribute a lot to my excitement.

I would never ask my lover to "go shower".
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 3/15/2018 3:52:43 AM
Have dated woman that at first weren't hygienic...but once we decided to be intimate they would be good with cleanliness....I LOVE oral and specially giving sooo once we cross the line and they aren't bathed I drop hints....I always am clean and showered for them and expect the same in return but then there's the on the spot type of sex as in spontaneity that takes place and from my experience IF ones normally clean and their physical up keeps good they are!
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