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 StarreGazer
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 22
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Msg: 70 -- definitive written proof that with men....it is a numbers
game.


The pursuit of any ONE or any THING is ALWAYS a numbers game,
regardless of the gender of the pursuer.

This sort of pursuit is EXACTLY like fishing.

If you want a fish, you choose the bait. IF you choose correctly, it
is a guaranteed HOOK.

If your choice is wrong, your line lies idle without a hint of a
nibble, except when you reel it in and find the bait is GONE and the
hook is EMPTY.

The fisher's decision on bait ALWAYS determines the outcome. Bear in
mind that the BAIT is ALWAYS evaluated; **ALWAYS**!!!! It may be
smelled or licked, but it NEVER escapes the evaluation process.
Further, the HOOK is GUARANTEED if the bait has SUFFICIENT appeal.



Msg: 71 -- "won't know if I will that fast, but in 10 seconds, I'll
definitely know if I won't EVER" LOL!


ANY woman I have EVER encountered has ALWAYS decided in LESS than one
minute whether she will or will NOT. Since you seem to have
DELIBERATELY focused on the "will NOT", an encounter with me will most
likely result in a "will NOT" decision on your part. Your negative
decision has no more effect on me than to change my target.
 StarreGazer
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 23
Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted: 7/11/2009 2:05:39 PM


Msg: 72 -- 1) Always look your best


Not even worth mentioning, but it DOES go without SAYING. One MUST
look one's best REGARDLESS of one's endeavor.



2) Keep your mouth shut until asked, and then keep it brief.


This is what MANY women PREFER you to believe. Personally, I keep MY
desires up front and FOREMOST. I am, of course, willing to compromise,
but I REFUSE to sacrifice. If one finds a need to sacrifice in a given
relationship, then one has found a parasite to shed.



3) Get the hell out of her sight so she can think about that brief
encounter.


If she senses the need for me to get out of HER sight for ANY reason,
she is INCOMPATIBLE with me and deserves no further concern from me.



New words to live by, I guess.


The only WORD to live by is COMPATIBILITY. Most important, do YOU make
HER happy? If not, the relationship is a LOST CAUSE.

Second, does SHE make YOU happy? There again, if not, find someone
ELSE. The both of you can only HARM each other emotionally.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 24
Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted: 7/11/2009 2:47:16 PM
I think it'd be better put that for the MOST part, within the first 10 seconds, she knows if she is and will be attracted to you, by raw physical attributes. That's not to say there can't a gray area that may extend the shot clock... but in that case, she's not ga-ga over you, and uncommon situations would have to occur to later make her be really attracted.

If they're attracted to you (not ruined by a deal-breaking personality), that means they're willing to sleep with you. Doesn't mean right then and there, but when "her time is right", whenever that is.

The angst against single guys & sexuality, and single girls & sexuality is equal, and all stems from this:
Single guys are "dogs" or "pigs" if they are horny.
Single girls are "sluts" or "skanks" if they are horny.

It's tradition's way to prevent people from sleeping around, aided by natural jealousy and suspicion, too. Women tend to call other women out on it with angst. A majority of guys do not do that with their gender.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/12/2009 7:45:59 PM
I don't know anymore. As I have gotten older I am a lot more hesitant to have sex with a women. I know right away if I would have sex with her based on that level of attraction. Soon after that I start thinking about her and all the cons that may come with a night with her or even a few nights or more. There seems to only me one PRO but always many CONS!

Besides here are so many other fun things to do than having sex!
 BubblyGalSmiles
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/12/2009 10:09:15 PM
Only if you kiss me in 10 seconds...it's all in the first kiss for me! Mess it up, and you're out. If you're a great kisser, I can be persuaded/seduced...uhm-m-m-m-m!! To answer your question directly though,...of course not!...I'm not that shallow (but...if you have bad teeth, bad bad breathe or BO...the answer is YES! never, never, never!! I'd know in 2 seconds.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
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Posted: 7/13/2009 7:23:21 AM
kit: Actually attraction DOES grow on people. I would never have had my best relationships if it required me to be physically attracted to them instantly. I've started with zero physical attraction and over time found those same people to be the most beautiful I've ever seen. This is how I know that making snap judgements about someone based on the physical aspect in is both stupid and short sighted.
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