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 CAMPBELL MAN
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 265
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There's nothing sexier than a woman who's confident enough to make the first move; as long as it's clearly a first move and not just a polite gesture.
 kickingfate
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 266
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Posted: 9/26/2007 4:25:21 PM
for gods sake yes...approach me...its extremely sexy and a huge turn on when a woman approaches me.
 inkogneato
Joined: 10/24/2006
Msg: 267
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Posted: 9/26/2007 5:05:22 PM
Do it. I like a confident woman.

*checks email*

*waits*

...

...

...

...damn.
 Mrwrong37
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 268
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Posted: 3/22/2008 6:23:45 AM
women alreday KNOW the answer to this post. They KNOW we'd love to be emailed and approached
 East Coast Hospitality
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 269
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/22/2008 7:20:14 AM
I would love it, honestly i can be shy when it comes to going up to a women and breaking the ice...................

I like a women who is confident and jumps right in there and goes after what she wants even when it is going after her man. I find it sexy. Bring it on ladies lol
 Clarke96623
Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 270
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/22/2008 9:11:14 AM
I prefer she does the approaching. The hundreds of emails most women here get, make the average schmoe get lost in the shuffle. I've stopped initiating contact altogether. If she's interested, then she can contact me. I'm not lazy, just done trying to say the perfect thing against 100's of other guys.

As for any woman who up and pinched my ass, stuck her tongue down my throat or fondled me elsewhere, if she was a stranger, then I'd automatically think slut. If we had seen each other off and on from afar but had interested glances, maybe something subtle. If we're dating.....just say the word.
 Argentum Crinis Philogus
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 271
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/22/2008 11:18:51 AM
I love aggressive and self-confident women! Nothing better! Well, unless there are two aggressive and self-confident women!

ACP
 MeereKat
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 272
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Posted: 3/22/2008 2:08:36 PM
I don't mind at all . .
I just feel a bit guilty if I feel the need to decline her - just on the 'attraction factor' -.
Since my sent/received ratio is about 100:1 . . I don't like declining someones interest...
..but..
we all know that there needs to be some form of attraction, initially . .
 HDynasty81
Joined: 3/10/2008
Msg: 273
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/22/2008 2:25:45 PM
I quite like it and had it happen to me a couple of times, a big turn-on is a woman with confidence to talk to a person that she has interest in.

Especially after sending a great deal of emails and having them unanswered, it's quite flattering to see even if it ends up you're not compatible.
 Ddc758
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 274
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/22/2008 3:09:02 PM
I'm all for women's equal rights, and if it means initiating contact GO FOR IT
 drd1961
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 275
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Posted: 3/22/2008 3:52:20 PM
WoW! Are you kidding me? I have been approched as you describe it in a bar by a gal who shy but confident enough to get it done... It was so flattering and refreshing,, do it girl,, I don't think you understand,, in a club,, guys aren't thinking with their heads,, not that one anyway... If oyu get shot down,, his date must be on the way back from the restroom,, don't let it slow you down,, life is to damn short!
 Mrwrong37
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 276
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 5:52:06 AM
uglybetty you are 99 percent right. everything you said was right on, EXCEPT the 2 out of 10 remark...itll be more like 9 out of 10...because women dont actually have to do any work
 JoeSlokum
Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 277
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Posted: 3/23/2008 8:37:51 AM
may be 2008 but guys still get slapped with sexual harass charges. so we tend to flirt below the radar, but yes it'd be our dream come true if someone we were eyeing made the first move. doesn't have to be skanky or slutty, just a graze or a brush as she walks by, maybe a light kiss on the cheek/neck. that will do wonders for a guy.
 Mrwrong37
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 278
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 9:34:58 AM
women arent paying one bit of attentin to any of this. It's going in one ear and out the other
 davidsahn22
Joined: 3/14/2008
Msg: 279
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Posted: 5/21/2008 2:15:27 PM
I never been approached by a girl I would love it depends on if I am attracted or not! I dont want to sound shallow....
 AGeekyGuy
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 280
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Posted: 5/21/2008 4:04:31 PM

I think women should start approaching men since women seem to hate or get annoyed by men who approach them.

Based on their behavior patterns, I'd have to agree wholeheartedly.
 jerrysix4
Joined: 5/25/2008
Msg: 281
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 6/8/2008 1:04:02 AM
I totally dig when a girl hits on me..........if she's hot.
 borntoski683
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 282
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Posted: 6/14/2008 9:54:53 PM
Its always flattering and there is at least a 10% chance that it might work, which let me tell you is at least 10x better odds than guys have approaching women, so bring it!
 John_Mon
Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 283
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Posted: 6/14/2008 9:56:31 PM
As long as it wasn't way to aggressive, and her intentions were honest, I'm totally for it.
 rockinchris
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 284
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Posted: 6/15/2008 2:18:28 PM
Go ahead, I don't think any guy is gonna be sad because a woman took away the nerves and stress of asking for a number or making a move!
 FluffyBrain
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 286
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Posted: 6/21/2008 1:37:11 AM
If the guy is attracted to you, he'll like and welcome it. If he's not attracted to you, he might be flattered, but he'll give you the brush off.
 SpiritGael1
Joined: 4/2/2007
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Posted: 6/21/2008 2:08:21 AM
Just fine , thank you very much. But I'm not "men" - just a man.
 mustbpatient
Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 288
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Posted: 6/21/2008 2:15:19 AM

How do guys really feel about being approached by women?


When women write me, I usually feel like their main motivation for writing is just to see if I'll bite... especially if the girl writing, happens to be very attractive. I guess it takes a little more for me to see that someone has a sincere interest.
 trbopwr80
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 289
How do guys really feel about being approached by women?
Posted: 6/22/2008 8:33:48 AM
I don't know about pinching his ass or planting a kiss on him, that might be too much. He might be involved with someone. If I were you I'd stick with striking up a conversation with him, finding out if he's single. If you just pinch his ass I guarantee you all he's gonna do is turn around and smile. Thats what I'd do.
 cuddlebun
Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/22/2008 11:06:23 AM
as i women that has gone up to a man. let me tell you i pulled a guy by the arm and took him outside and landed a big kiss on him. on we deated for three years. do not let anything stand in your way make the first move it is okay. but please make sure it is someone you want to get to know first.
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