i find it interesting that not one woman has shared what makes HER a good lover, this is indicative of the general attitude north american women have towards sex in general, they dont think it up to them to have a great sexual experience
and I find it interesting that you read every post here and assumed all of us women were only referring to men.
I say, reread those posts.......and you will see that many of the women, myself included, responded with no gender specific notions at all.
its time for 'it ti be ok' for women to be sexual, creative and imaginative
be alot easier to do that if men would actually pay attention to what we're saying