"""NEEDY""" is directly proportional to the inverse ratio of the person they are with and how uninterested they are in the NEEDY person...
You know what, I really like that. Very much fits with:
And it is also possible to create 'needy' behaviour in someone else by constantly pulling away from them emotionally so that they are always the one to do the chasing. In this case it probably ndicates a lack of real interest in the person and it would be kinder to end the relationship rather than let it drag on and then accuse them of neediness.
Everything above is a complete definition and cause of 'normal' neediness. Not mentally unbalanced 'be my world' but how a normal person can find themselves labeled as such. Or maybe I'm just rationalizing