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 Becoming_Me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 229
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I have to admit that the idea of seeing my man with another man does intrigue me some. I’ve thought about it, but I would have to be involved it what was going on too, more than just being a spectator.
 pinkhaireddoggy
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 230
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 2/26/2012 9:50:15 AM
About 10 years ago I had a girlfriend hinting in that direction. It started with her saying she liked the idea of using a strap-on then grew form there. I never really thought she was serious and we weren't together long after that (other issues). She never did come out and said "Hey honey, would you pleas blow our neighbour for me" so I just figured it was pillow talk. Maybe not.

If she was serious, I would have said no. However, I think that if someone has something they want to try then just ask. In the long run it's going to be either no or yes.

My main issue with inviting another person(s) in is not morality but mortality. Nothings worth having your wiener fall off of dying for.

However, ask me in 6 months because if my luck doesn't improve here I'll be looking for males, females, dogs, cats gerbils and God help me, even politicians
 pinkhaireddoggy
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 231
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 2/26/2012 10:43:04 AM
One more thing, If it meant I could wangle a boat and motorcycle from doing this for my wife: Pass the mouthwash!
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 232
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 2/26/2012 3:31:18 PM

B) How many men would do this with/for your woman (assuming she'd do the same for you with another woman)?


No chance in hell.
 longtermlady
Joined: 11/25/2008
Msg: 234
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/8/2012 2:37:07 PM
It seems to me that women don't have as much interest in watching two guys as much as guys have interest in watching to women. I would be more than willing to do it myself. If I am with a woman and she wants to watch me with another guy, why not? Women do like to be more of the center of attention and I think that might have something to do with it.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 235
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Posted: 3/10/2012 4:41:18 AM
longtermlady You do realise theres a possibility you get the "mike tyson" treatment - a punch in the "ring" so to speak.
your liver shifted
shirt lifted
a poke in the chocolate starfish
 Jazzfan3000
Joined: 2/15/2012
Msg: 237
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/10/2012 5:51:40 AM
It might just be me but I dont find the idea of some dude running my guy in appealing...
 cckch
Joined: 5/13/2010
Msg: 238
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Posted: 3/10/2012 7:43:40 AM
I'm with you, Grove... My gosh.. Is this really what it's come to?

Homophobia is just a made up word... I have several homosexual/bisexual friends.. I certainly do not agree with their lifestyles, and I'm sad that I'll have to attend the funerals of those infected with AIDS...

Why any woman would want to see her guy with another man is beyond me... It's just downright sick.. I would never agree to be with another woman.. The thought of it stirs up bile in my throat.. The world has gone mad...
 3rd4both
Joined: 2/18/2012
Msg: 239
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Posted: 3/30/2012 9:02:24 PM
I think it is a very rare phenomena to have a woman desire her man play with another man. That being said, I did know a woman who had this desire and I helped them with this desire. It turned into a several year exploration for all of us. But this was a one-in-a-million situation.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 240
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/30/2012 10:01:41 PM
I threw up in my mouth. NEVER. not with another woman, let a lone ANOTHER MAN. geezus
 Chico_Sweet07
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 241
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Posted: 1/9/2013 8:57:16 AM
U need to b if man ;)
 Smurph1129
Joined: 12/10/2012
Msg: 242
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Posted: 1/9/2013 10:23:15 AM
Never in a million years and considering i'm only into straight women I would never fantasize about someone I was in a relationship with being with another woman.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 243
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Posted: 1/9/2013 4:43:30 PM
i have had that experince and i love it live porn and it lets the man have a new wild sex night that he will realy like
 257815
Joined: 3/29/2013
Msg: 245
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Posted: 1/18/2014 3:55:20 PM
I would do it for her if it was her fantacy!!!
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 246
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Posted: 1/19/2014 3:12:10 PM

Not to be offensive, Only gay man do that, not the regular heterosexual man . Heterosexual man only fantasize about woman, woman and woman....................

Or bi men. Yep. Hetero/Homo/Bi is about attraction -- not about whether they execute it or not. If a guy has fantasies or positive thoughts about porking another guy, he's not fully heterosexual. Nothing "wrong" with that... just sayin'.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 247
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 1/19/2014 3:34:10 PM
I guess I have come across a lot of people over the years from all over the place; and have been surprised by how many people who seem rigid straight and conservative, who actually, in past relationships, had a ton of guy on guy, threesomes with another woman or threesomes with another guy, and in most cases they SAID it was their SO who was directing it; not them.

A ton of people have had a woman approach them and invite them over, only to have the husband be there wanting to watch. One person turned them down, another ten did it.

I am I guess more traditional and conservative; and what i know in real life may be a whole lot more sheltered (don't like stds and do like a connection emotionally rather than the rutting strangers so many people seem to want), but I have been extremely surprised by the secret life of people who you'd NEVER know in a million years they had that side to them. I now when I see certain code words in profiles, frequently DO assume they are sexually meant, as they were used frequently by the people who did have a more alternative or "flexible" or "open" lifestyle. (and I learned ages ago to not put my love of swinging, as they did not assume i meant the wooden glider kind you watch the moonrise on in the middle of the night)

I personally don't think I'd want to watch a guy I started seeing go at it with another guy. I am not judging people who do, but it's just not my thing. Nor do I want to go at it with another woman for a guy, or go with another guy in front of said guy.

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality. And besides, there is a whole lot of fantasy that is one on one that can be pretty spectacular. One common theme with the people I heard about it with? There ended up being jealousy from one or the other partner, because the stranger introduced ended up liking one or the other of the couple or were more into them. Emotions and messiness crept in. But there is a TON of that lifestyle up here in minneapolis, I am surprised by how much I have come across. Not for me though. My fantasies all involve the person themselves and me, not them with someone else :)
 Crystal_Planet
Joined: 10/30/2013
Msg: 248
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Posted: 2/22/2014 7:44:53 PM

Gays are friendlier than normal people.

Did you really just write that? Wow.

On so many levels.
 BrianfromBurgh
Joined: 12/11/2013
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Posted: 3/4/2014 3:59:47 AM
Shared my ex with another male to fulfill her fantasy, with no idea how it would thrill me totally. I got WAY past where I thought I would go, she was in orbit, and I couldn't lie about my excitement because it was obvious.

Would I do it again? With the right woman, yes I would. Getting warm in here.....
 kerrysub4u
Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 250
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Posted: 6/9/2017 6:17:34 PM
I'm bi and enjoy sex with both men and women. I would love to bring a guy into our bed and share him with my wife. I think that would be so hot.
 NoxzemaWA
Joined: 2/19/2017
Msg: 251
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Posted: 7/1/2017 11:43:29 AM

Gays are friendlier than normal people.


WHOA! I know this post was written years ago but damn....thanks for the laughs! LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!

As far as the original question, No, I do not. I once had an ex who wanted me to fist him, **** him in the ass with a strap-on and then **** him with dildos not attached to me. Anyway....right before we broke up, he told me he was "bi-curious". I considered myself open-minded with this particular fellow but I had no desire to watch him and another man get it on.

A guy at a house party asked me to watch him suck his friend's****and I did. It was more for the spectacle aspect. I was in no way turned on by the situation.
 Laidbackguy1964
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 252
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 7/1/2017 2:00:09 PM
^OMG were the Dildos bigger than his? did he let you keep them and what happened to the strapon? LMAO. I bet you touched yourself all over, while watching your friend;)...You're a very naughty minx lol
Nah, I'm just not used to women on here talking about sex, it seems to be a no go subject, but you are different and be proud of that
 NoxzemaWA
Joined: 2/19/2017
Msg: 253
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Posted: 7/1/2017 9:49:13 PM
^ LOL @ your curiosity. The dildos were all bigger than my ex's**** He still has them and the strap-on. They were all in his naughty duffel bag.

Re: the house party. Nah lol, I was not touching myself. I only watched the guys for 2 minutes. The suckee had snorted some blow beforehand so he was super limp. Who wants to suck, or watch someone suck, a flaccid**** hahaha....that was an interesting night. I doubt I'll ever attend another party like that in my life.
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
Msg: 254
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Posted: 7/2/2017 6:20:59 AM
^^^ Yes there used to be an underground club in Jax. I went once with an ex. It really wasn't sexy. It was mostly gross. We sat at the bar for a bit and had a drink and then went dancing which turned out to be far sexier. Probably because it was about us, being in tune to one another.
 NoxzemaWA
Joined: 2/19/2017
Msg: 255
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Posted: 7/3/2017 9:36:59 AM

We sat at the bar for a bit and had a drink and then went dancing which turned out to be far sexier. Probably because it was about us, being in tune to one another.


Yes, I agree. It's so much sexier to be in tune with your person rather than strangers.
 starrysky417
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 256
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Posted: 7/11/2017 9:38:32 AM
Nope. Never! Even when i have fantasized about being with 2 men at once, they don't even touch! I am not homophobic, but i am not interested in seeing their sexual exploits, beyond hugging and kissing in a movie or whatever.
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