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 wings on my butt
Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 215
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My ex husband asked me for a three some once.I said "sure but I get to pick the guy".He didn't like that very much.The only three some I would be interested in would be man,man and woman.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 216
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Posted: 5/26/2010 7:07:13 AM
If my gf had that fantasy, she would have to be satisfied with leaving it unfulfilled.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 217
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Posted: 5/26/2010 11:30:54 AM
I just had a conversation about the whole MMF thing yesterday. He and I both agreed that the logistics are not of interest to either of us. I do have an ex who thought it was the IChing of intimacy ~ notice the "ex" in there. Nope, can't say I fantasize about that. Then again, I don't have any interest in sharing the man in my life with women other than me, either. I guess I'm an equal opportunity discriminator when it comes to sexual fantasies ~ they don't include more than two people (no midgets or farm animals either.)
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 219
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Posted: 5/26/2010 11:54:58 AM

A) How many of you women have fantasized about your man this way?


I would not want my partner with another man (nor another woman for that matter). I don't share my man.................
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 220
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Posted: 5/26/2010 8:45:41 PM
I've done the MFM thing and the FFM ...but have no interest in MMF

In case anyone's wondering;

MFM= two straight males with one female...no sexual male/male contact.
FFM= Two bisexual females and a male
MMF= Two bisexual males with a female


Just because a male or a female isn't interested in same sex encounters or is turned off by it...doesn't make them homophobic or in denial or anything else...and just because someone has had thoughts of doing something doesn't mean they WANT to actually do it.

Heck I thought of bungie jumping a few times but there's no way in hell I'd ever do it!
Those that enjoy it have every right to ...just don't try and get me to do it...I like safer things like drag racing and target shooting!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 221
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Posted: 5/29/2010 8:22:38 AM
any fantasy is better then no fantasy,great sex requires an open mind, hopefully a dirty mind lol, open lines of communication and an overwhelming need to make each other happy, in and out of the bedroom
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 223
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Posted: 5/29/2010 10:15:07 AM
the above poster is hot, super hot,how is the weather there
 sortanice12009
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 225
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Posted: 6/5/2010 1:29:22 PM
Yes he means you, and I second the notion ;)
 riverman7677
Joined: 2/5/2012
Msg: 227
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Posted: 2/25/2012 12:27:33 PM
That's funny!!! Reminds me of the guy who goes to prison. The first night his roommate asks him if he wants to be the husband or the wife. "I'll be the husband," he says. His roommate says "OK, come over here and suck your wife's d**k!"
 iron_fist10
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 228
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Posted: 2/25/2012 1:36:40 PM
Well this whole thing seems to have turned into a bit of a war (can I join?). I can say that I've ran into many women that are into male on male, generally involving them in some form or another (some just like the porn). I have also been with women that would only do FFM(sometimes FFFFM), but felt as though two men touching each other was not sexy in any way. I've also been with women that found that the idea of having two men that focused on her (no MM touching) to be degrading and completely out of the question, and the opposite as well. Hell, I've met women that like non-human partners (use your imagination). If you don't like any of it than great. If you do than great, if you like to pick and choose than great. What you need to make sure of is that you are open about these things from the get go, so you and your partner are on the same page.

As far as gays being weak or wimpy (hints of this idea have been thrown in during this thread), that comes down to the individual man. Hell, I know a lot of straight men that are very "prissy". In my experiences of war, mountaineering, survival training, and just general adventure I would say that most men in America in comparison are "prissy" (unless coming home from work and watching sports isn't, oh and can't forget playing sports which is a sure sign your tough, and the gym rats, and the guys that go hiking with their cell phones, the hunter, etc.. lol). Plus a history lesson would allow us to realize that Alexander The Great was homosexual, and generally only took on wives for political reasons (and he put men's head on pikes and conquered a vast empire, we are not as cool as him). Also, the Spartans of early Greece (think 300, the movie you probably saw it and fantasized about how tough you were eating buttered popcorn) trained their soldiers to be lovers, this made them fight harder as a unit. So I hope we can get rid of the thought that being a homosexual makes you prissy, because us modern techno-industrial men are all "prissy", in comparison to the paleolithic and neolithic man.

I can see why OP is offended because many of you respond to the question with things like, "repulsive, gross, and yuck". I would argue that this non-civil approach to describing your opinion was meant to be offensive (if you have to say your not a homophobe than you probably are). Clearly this guy is gay and you are describing his lifestyle in a round about way as "repulsive". If I was him I would take offense to that too. An adult and civil way to respond to the question would be, "No, this isn't a turn on for me", or just don't post?? But several of you have responded to the OP's attempt at justification for his responses with civil comments, and that is refreshing. OP from what I've read of this, you would have been better off to have just not responded to the people who said things like "yuck". I would think that by this point you would be able to allow such things to not bother you. In all honesty the only reason I've responded to this post is because I'm bored out of my mind right now.

Note: I am not trying to change your opinions, I don't care. I care little about the plight of homosexuals or heterosexuals or Jews or blacks or Indians (to include Native American) or whites or abortion or breast cancer or any illness or Christians or Muslims or China or HIV/AID's. Do what you want, within 100 years you and I will all be dead. lol
 Becoming_Me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 229
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Posted: 2/25/2012 11:29:10 PM
I have to admit that the idea of seeing my man with another man does intrigue me some. I’ve thought about it, but I would have to be involved it what was going on too, more than just being a spectator.
 pinkhaireddoggy
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 230
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Posted: 2/26/2012 9:50:15 AM
About 10 years ago I had a girlfriend hinting in that direction. It started with her saying she liked the idea of using a strap-on then grew form there. I never really thought she was serious and we weren't together long after that (other issues). She never did come out and said "Hey honey, would you pleas blow our neighbour for me" so I just figured it was pillow talk. Maybe not.

If she was serious, I would have said no. However, I think that if someone has something they want to try then just ask. In the long run it's going to be either no or yes.

My main issue with inviting another person(s) in is not morality but mortality. Nothings worth having your wiener fall off of dying for.

However, ask me in 6 months because if my luck doesn't improve here I'll be looking for males, females, dogs, cats gerbils and God help me, even politicians
 pinkhaireddoggy
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 231
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Posted: 2/26/2012 10:43:04 AM
One more thing, If it meant I could wangle a boat and motorcycle from doing this for my wife: Pass the mouthwash!
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 232
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Posted: 2/26/2012 3:31:18 PM

B) How many men would do this with/for your woman (assuming she'd do the same for you with another woman)?


No chance in hell.
 longtermlady
Joined: 11/25/2008
Msg: 234
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Posted: 3/8/2012 2:37:07 PM
It seems to me that women don't have as much interest in watching two guys as much as guys have interest in watching to women. I would be more than willing to do it myself. If I am with a woman and she wants to watch me with another guy, why not? Women do like to be more of the center of attention and I think that might have something to do with it.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 235
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Posted: 3/10/2012 4:41:18 AM
longtermlady You do realise theres a possibility you get the "mike tyson" treatment - a punch in the "ring" so to speak.
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 Jazzfan3000
Joined: 2/15/2012
Msg: 237
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Posted: 3/10/2012 5:51:40 AM
It might just be me but I dont find the idea of some dude running my guy in appealing...
 cckch
Joined: 5/13/2010
Msg: 238
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Posted: 3/10/2012 7:43:40 AM
I'm with you, Grove... My gosh.. Is this really what it's come to?

Homophobia is just a made up word... I have several homosexual/bisexual friends.. I certainly do not agree with their lifestyles, and I'm sad that I'll have to attend the funerals of those infected with AIDS...

Why any woman would want to see her guy with another man is beyond me... It's just downright sick.. I would never agree to be with another woman.. The thought of it stirs up bile in my throat.. The world has gone mad...
 3rd4both
Joined: 2/18/2012
Msg: 239
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Posted: 3/30/2012 9:02:24 PM
I think it is a very rare phenomena to have a woman desire her man play with another man. That being said, I did know a woman who had this desire and I helped them with this desire. It turned into a several year exploration for all of us. But this was a one-in-a-million situation.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 240
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Posted: 3/30/2012 10:01:41 PM
I threw up in my mouth. NEVER. not with another woman, let a lone ANOTHER MAN. geezus
 Chico_Sweet07
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 241
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Posted: 1/9/2013 8:57:16 AM
U need to b if man ;)
 Smurph1129
Joined: 12/10/2012
Msg: 242
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Posted: 1/9/2013 10:23:15 AM
Never in a million years and considering i'm only into straight women I would never fantasize about someone I was in a relationship with being with another woman.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 243
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Posted: 1/9/2013 4:43:30 PM
i have had that experince and i love it live porn and it lets the man have a new wild sex night that he will realy like
 257815
Joined: 3/29/2013
Msg: 245
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Posted: 1/18/2014 3:55:20 PM
I would do it for her if it was her fantacy!!!
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 246
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Posted: 1/19/2014 3:12:10 PM

Not to be offensive, Only gay man do that, not the regular heterosexual man . Heterosexual man only fantasize about woman, woman and woman....................

Or bi men. Yep. Hetero/Homo/Bi is about attraction -- not about whether they execute it or not. If a guy has fantasies or positive thoughts about porking another guy, he's not fully heterosexual. Nothing "wrong" with that... just sayin'.
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