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Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 76
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I can't really relate to this but...

Why do you care?
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 77
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/3/2009 9:41:35 PM
Hey Monkey, I know that 2 wrongs don't make a right! Ya know, I would have replied and asked her very directly, " I guess a blowjob and piece of ass are totally out of the question then?" I know being rude is not really acceptable, but there is not call to treat someone who is just trying to make contact with someone. I am sorry, but I believe in "An Eye for an Eye, Tooth for a Tooth!"
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 78
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/12/2009 7:22:55 AM
I personally never received a message like that yet. But I do believe if you have nothing positive to say about someone it's best to say nothing. It's just uncalled for trying to hurt another persons feelings.
Joined: 4/21/2009
Msg: 79
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/12/2009 10:11:09 AM

Oh you whiny baby! you!
Uncalled for my azz!

So what if she called you "ugly", you're ugly to her! End of story.
Next girl could think you're gorgeous. That's how it works.

Good for her! I am very happy that she was honest, instead of twisting words. I can't stand "over sensitive idiots" these days.
Oh don't hurt my feelings...touchy touchy .... or I'll cry...

Instead of "accepting" reality, we're trying to create a pollyanna world for people...Oh I am so beautiful, I am so handsome..I am fabulous, I am gorgeous ..... BullSht you're ! I mean we came to a point, now we call OBESE FAT PEOPLE , encouraging people to eat more.. WTF!

Wake the f UP!

 el lagarto
Joined: 4/29/2009
Msg: 80
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/16/2009 8:23:07 AM
She's being a cruel thoughtless **** . But let it be her problem .

You look just fine - try not to let it get to ya !
Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 81
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/17/2009 10:28:55 PM
You're actually a good looking man. And at 6'4", you have height that most guys would envy. Stand tall and be proud and happy!

Spread good things and good things will come back to you.
Joined: 5/13/2009
Msg: 82
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/18/2009 12:39:36 PM
i told this chick one time, "i am not ugly enough to put up with your shit!", she was really hot, but i liked saying it anyways.. hot chicks are never nice, guys will see them as a challenge and like them even more, so why be nice..
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 83
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 5/18/2009 2:27:07 PM
You are NOT fact you're cute. I would just consider the source...she sounds like an immature, self centered person. Just forget about it and keep fishing..good luck
Joined: 12/24/2008
Msg: 84
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/11/2009 1:35:02 AM

I know, horrific, isn't it? Just like we've gotten to the point where jerks like you are still considered people!

Just incredible!

:P I dunno about you, Sheeva. But I hate fat people. They should stop breathing up all of my air. (notices self in mirror) ..................... Aw hell.

lol of course I'm cracking jokes but how sad is it that this thread has gone on long enough for me to completely forget the name of the person who sent me the nasty message to begin with?

Ah well....

Ps: I seriously get a kick out of reading all the messages that tell me I'm a whiney little pansy man because I posted this on the forum. Cracks me up because those who did that are obviously not reading what I said at all or are just whiney themselves.

As for me, I must somehow evolve the ability to teleport so that I may visit all the lovely ladies that are saying nice things about me.
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 85
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/11/2009 1:46:50 AM
oh, boy OP! that made me laugh so hard I cried. Thanks for that. But mind I'm laughing with you not at you. Sheesh how shallow and insensitive can she be? But it is pretty funny. And good for you having a good enough attitude to just laugh it off. You seem like a nice guy, you'll find a good girl someday.
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 86
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/11/2009 3:03:17 AM
nah.. you're not ugly at all bro. A lot of women on here are what you call "attention whores".. They have a pretty twisted mind and actually "get off" by turning men down.
They don't get hit on much in public so they feel like 'queens' on here when they get 30-50 messages a day. I've seen it time and time again.

A beautiful women gets hit on everyday almost everywhere she goes.

That is just common.
It is a burden to "turn men down"

This women obviously has "issues" and probably gets a temporary self esteem boost by turning guys down in that manner.

You should tell us who it is so we can judge for ourselves.. Hell, if she's so "hot", what does she have to hide??
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 87
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/11/2009 4:05:52 AM
She was cruel. You are NOT ugly. People that feel a need to insult have deep rooted problems that they need to address in therapy or maybe with he help of a family member or friend. I've seen this - often - I've been called horrible names - unjustly. Don't take this personally. It's her problem, not yours. She's lashing out at you - a stranger because she is angry at someone - in her past no doubt - who has hurt her so much that she cannot come to terms with this anger. Move on. Be positive. Don't let this experience stop you from seeking love and romance.
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 88
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:21:06 AM
OP - WHAT A B!TCH!!!! As for your looks, I think you're pretty darn cute. If I were younger, I'd be all over you.
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 90
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/20/2009 2:59:22 PM
Don't let that get to you. Some people just don't think before they write/speak. Your attractive to alot of people and unattractive to others. A small part of it is all about perspective. This is an online dating site; ignore it and move on, look at the name of the site.
Joined: 5/28/2008
Msg: 91
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/20/2009 4:00:23 PM
Be glad you found now rather than later how UGLY she is. Mean-spirited is right.

It made her feel better about herself to say that to you. Some people feel so bad about themselves they feel the need to spread it around.

I've found with men that some I'm not intially attracted to have become more attractive after I've gotten to know them. My ex is a prefect example. We met through a mutual friend at a bar and if we hadnt I wouldnt have even noticed him that night.

If you're ugly on the inside, you're ugly on the outside. It takes a lot more effort to be beautiful internally.
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 92
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 7/29/2009 1:49:18 PM
I had something similar,
I got a message once that simply stated
" You R the ugliest person on this website delete your profile and leave us beautiful people alone"
That made me laugh pretty good tho, I responded "Thank you for showing me the light oh perfect one, I am not worthy to view your pixelated visiage"
And my picture rates about a 3 also lol. Are you my brother from another mother???
Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 93
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/27/2009 1:56:37 AM
I've gotten that a few times, and always from women who frankly, are not ever going to be considered potential supermodels. I even had one, who had to ask how I could ever dream of considering myself "at her level." Later I noticed she posted a new pic, a full-length shot. She had to outweigh me by 100 pounds. I'm not complaining in the slightest that I didn't learn that in person, I'm glad I didn't. But still, I really don't understand the attitude. I've never sent an email that I could ever imagine someone taking as offensive.
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 94
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/27/2009 1:00:26 PM
What's wrong with being ugly?
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 95
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/27/2009 1:13:26 PM
I can think of worse things than being alone and living with cats.

Jeepers...How come some people seem to type one post right after
another without any problems and I'm only allowed 2 posts in
every 10?

Anyways...answer to post below me...yeah...I already have the
cat myself.

Good grief...I just read this post and I came up with a bunch of
wise arse comments I would have made if someone else wrote before you say it...I meant I have a kitty kat! (how come
kitten is spelled with a k but cat is spelled with a c)
Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 96
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:04:39 PM
haha.. that jokes dude.. .. i dont want to be butt hole but.. she doesnt even have a picture.. she might not be as hot or might even be a SHEMALE. and that not nice ladies that a TRICK when u got A Dic.. cuz that certify u as a MAN .. .. not nice. good luck man. give me her name im wanna msg her lol
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 97
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:53:25 PM
OP you look fine to me!
I love honesty and I dont have much in the way of tact but even I am not that much of an a$$hole.

Someone must have been having a really sh1ty day to respond like that!
Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 98
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Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:25:02 PM
WOW! That's never happened to me dude but you know don't stress it. This little chick probably young and has no business being on the site anyway. Be glad you found out she wasn't shit real quick. That's one less **** wasting your time. Don't let it affect how you view yourself. No matter what happens, always look at it like this, for a girl to date a man like you is a priviledge. Hope this helps.
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 99
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/31/2009 5:43:42 AM
{ I would have replied and asked her very directly, " I guess a blowjob and piece of ass are totally out of the question then?}

Deffinatly should have asked her that!! Too funny! Maybe you still should.
Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 100
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 8/31/2009 10:38:14 AM
personally, i would have messaged her back. with my words, i would have made her cry like the biatch she is.
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