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 Alabamamam
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 2
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Yes I am ESL. My point is that he is at war and doesn't need this sort of false info. Venues of communication are limited. He is very vonurable now physically and mentally. I bet he heard about a proper share of "dear john letter".
How to comfort him? It is not a regular situaton when we can meet and the man is all clear.
 metagod
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 3
I was accused of false cheating.....
Posted: 4/1/2009 5:42:45 PM
The best thing you can do is try to assure him that the email was untrue and that when he gets home you can talk about it.

~Tyler
 agenteightysix
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 4
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I was accused of false cheating.....
Posted: 4/1/2009 5:50:34 PM
Be clear, and direct. tell him he is the only man you want! Your confidence will carry him through.
 Alabamamam
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 5
I was accused of false cheating.....
Posted: 4/1/2009 8:00:23 PM
The same man who didn't want to give me address as well as to other family members because he just didn't need anything from other people. I am thankful that his sister explained it to me.
Yes it is HIM who is talking about marrige and kids due to the fact that he generated some life-changing experinces by now.
He has space and I am pleased with him very much so. However, there was the false accusation and I do not know how to comfort him.
 Alabamamam
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 6
I was accused of false cheating.....
Posted: 4/1/2009 8:09:00 PM
It would stink enough for me if someone would do so when he was home. But because he is at war I see it as the hit below the waist. E-mail communication is not effective as face to face. I know how tireds he is physically and mentally. I know most of us heard about "dear john letter". When he was deployed first time his frined got one and it just destroyed him on the spot.....
 Rushâ„¢
Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 7
I was accused of false cheating.....
Posted: 4/1/2009 9:14:35 PM
I'm just curious to know, who sent him that email. Perhaps, it was somebody you know.
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 8
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I was accused of false cheating.....
Posted: 4/2/2009 8:11:43 PM
I guess nobody reads the postings previous to their own. They just read the OP and then give their opinion.

Folks, go to posting #14 by Herding Cats!! She explains who the OP is.
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