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 nappy001
Joined: 10/25/2008
Msg: 72
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I can't speak for any other man out there, but I can tell you how I like it.

If you can deepthroat without gagging or being uncomfortable, I say go for it. I've had it done to me and it feels amazing. Different techniques in one session stimulates me. When I have sex, I like to go deep. Deepthroating is a simulation of the deep penetration of sex.

Think of it this way. If you have sex and the guy is doing one motion over and over again, it gets boring.

As for the swallowing part, that's completely up to her. If she likes it, what am I going to say..."wait, let me shoot somewhere else quick!" That's if I can get that statement out at the point of orgasm.

With me, it's all about comfort and willingness. If you can and want to do those things, I wont stop you.
 DaveLM1964
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 73
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:14:22 PM
I've never had a blowjob and never will but I wouldn't have cared how she finished.
I wouldn't want her to do something she doesn't want to do.
 TheToefactor
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 74
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Posted: 5/31/2009 1:29:55 PM

I have been complimented many a time and I don't swallow or deep throat.


Just think about the possibilities ?

You could have been a "Legend" had you swallowed.
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 77
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Posted: 8/16/2009 9:57:05 PM
I think ..as in all things; different men like different things..and to varying degrees...my experience..most men prefer quite a few other things to deep throat....I've never spit..it seems distasteful (lol, no pun intended) to me...but I can't imagine how it would matter & honestly I have done oral where I wouldn't swallow either..I don't do what I'm not comfortable with; not sure exactly what my issue was, I think I know ..but regardless, if I'm not into it, it's not going to happen-and side-rant on that.. ladies life is too f*ing short to fake orgasms..wtf does that even come from??
Anyway,...some even prefer neither...no details, two you've heard of and one well, idk...I'll just say I'd never heard of it ;-) before or since.

Point is...if you're having fun, chances are he is , too. And there is a lot more to a bj than deep throat or swallowing. imhe.
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 78
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Posted: 8/17/2009 12:10:27 AM
LOL, sorry but I have to say this.

My southern born and bred mother raised me right.

"Ladies don't spit"

LMFAO

Beth

Don't think she was talking about giving head, but I'll apply the rules where I see fit!
 CrumblePie
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 79
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Posted: 8/29/2009 1:52:46 AM
to me swallowing is a form of accepting, that might sound weird, but t shows me she accepts me if we're in a relationship, other than that i don;t care,and i've never asked anyone to swallow, nor do i plan on it.
 Chiwrtr72
Joined: 6/15/2006
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Posted: 8/29/2009 5:03:35 AM
It doesn't matter to me... as long as she likes going down on me and does it on a regular basis.
 flipchuck
Joined: 8/16/2009
Msg: 81
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Posted: 8/29/2009 6:48:37 PM
Spite or swollow. Doesn't matter to me. I'm just happy getting some oral from a woman. Of course it would be a bit of a turn off if she spit. Usally it's just as good to finish the oral with it out of her mouth and just stroking it until I have an "O". A woman allowing me to squirt on her is just as good as her swollowing .
 BumbleLove
Joined: 10/25/2009
Msg: 83
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Posted: 10/30/2009 11:11:46 AM
I agree southern girls don't spit. LMAO. Eating pineapple does help.

I think its all in your mindset. If you want to satisfy your man as much as he does for you why not. I have done deepthroat and choking it was more into what he wanted too. As long as I am not dead at the end of the session I am good. I don't mean being down graded by a man. I don't want to be calling a whore and playing that role in a porno. Not what I am saying!

 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 84
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Posted: 10/30/2009 12:07:58 PM
I want a man to swallow mine so fair is fair... then again I can squirt a load myself...
 scottmcfish
Joined: 8/20/2009
Msg: 86
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Posted: 10/30/2009 9:46:30 PM

Eating pineapple does help.
- BumbleLove.

How much do you think it helps? I've read that diet can make the difference between tasting throughly bad and tasting just like erotic awesomeness but I haven't experimented or heard any first hand accounts.

Really, if we could sort out a way to make men's spunk taste like chocolate cake (or something as good), we could be taking a step towards world peace here.
 djsamdotbiz
Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 11/3/2009 9:58:12 AM
kayliecat....when are you publising your book ?....save me a copy.
 CM1027
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 91
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:39:48 AM
I prefer a woman know how to use her tongue rather than deep throat. Deep throat is good to look at but a mouth feels better. I'm a weird one though, I prefer the buildup and the tease rather than the end result.

I do like the aggression of gagging sometimes though. I like knowing the woman is excited enough to do that that she would gag herself.

Women have more sensitivity than men though a blowjob is often the best a man can feel, that's why we make such a big deal about it. The best orgasms I've ever had is inside a woman's mouth.
 sonofabiscuit2
Joined: 4/6/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:57:38 AM
Once I've reached orgasm I honestly don't care what happens with the semen as long as it doesn't end up on my pillow I'm good. As for deep throat, well it doesn't really matter either, it's the tip that's the most sensitive. My best orgasm hasn't come from a blowjob though, or anal or vaginal sex either, nor was it by myself, I'll leave it up to your imagination though as to what it might have been.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 12:04:26 PM
^^^ Sheep?

Sorry, I couldn't resist since you left it open to guesses.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 94
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Posted: 11/4/2009 1:43:31 PM

^^^ Sheep?
Sorry, I couldn't resist since you left it open to guesses.


Whew!! Since you brought it up, I had to check his profile, and sure 'nough, he's a Texan. Great guess!!
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 95
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Posted: 11/4/2009 2:04:36 PM

I think the swallowing indicates that the experience of giving head was an enjoyable one. The vision of a woman spitting cum from her mouth, is not an appealing sight. To me, it indicates that giving head was disdainful to her, and that she was not enthusiastic about what she was doing.

This is how I feel as well. I love performing oral sex on a woman and revel in every sensation, including the taste of her juices. I would hope I'd be into everything about the woman in question to get to that point, and I would hope she'd feel the same way about me.

I've been told my semen tastes nice by more than a few of the women I've known and it helps to know you're appreciated. If I knew my partner wasn't enjoying performing oral sex on me or in any way found it disgusting, she's not the girl for me.
 Chitownguy40
Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 97
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Posted: 11/17/2009 9:33:17 PM
Not at all. Having a woman refuse to give oral is a deal-breaker for sure. But there's no reason she needs to swallow if she really doesn't want to.
 tarheel7676
Joined: 11/12/2009
Msg: 100
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Posted: 11/18/2009 7:03:13 AM
The answer to both questions is that all men are at home scientists. When one man tells us we can't do something, we try anyway, whether its putting a turbo engine on a recliner, or feeding women tube steak in hopes that the protein will cause them to lose weight and attain a healthier glow. We are gonna try......and try......and try.......and try......and you get the picture. And of course we can never have just one test subject. If we buy a wal mart recliner the first time and it blows up, we're just gonna get a nicer one
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 102
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Posted: 11/18/2009 7:26:51 AM

i ate a whole jar of strawberry jam to make it taste better, but she still wouldnt swallow it!!!


 Countryboy_toronto
Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 105
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Posted: 12/6/2009 1:21:36 PM
Haha,

This is a good one. I know a ton of women who love to give head and swallow. In fact most of the women I've dated have been more than into giving head and swallowing. It is a big deal to me, when a women is giving head and really into sex in general it's a huge turn on. Knowing that she likes making me feel good makes me want to return the favour all that much more. It ups the intensity of the entire experience because we are both focused on getting each other off. Knowing that she is willing to 'swallow me' I am certainly willing to do pretty much whatever she asks (mind you I lead a pretty healthy lifestyle so I'm reasonably confident from what I've been told that I don't taste terrible).

When a women isn't into it I know that our level of attraction will never be high enough for me to date her. I usually give this a few weeks to see if she's into giving me head, turning me on and whether or not she's into it when I'm working on her. If she isn't I end things right there. I also think that it's a bit of a power play at the end of the day when a woman won't give head or swallow (e.g., you expect me to go down on you and deal with your business regardless of the taste but you don't deal with mine? Sorry, but there isn't anyway around tasting your natural self while I'm down there)

Sex is supposed to be a fun and enjoyable experience that allows you to explore and be close with your partner. When people put artificial boundaries on their relationship (I won't do this, that or that) it seems a bit contrived to me. I've certainly done some things with gf's before that I would have never thought would turn me on in a million years but they did.

Countryboy's sex tip of the day: If she's worried about swallowing and the taste get her to pop in an altoid about a minute before you cum. It massively ups the sensation in your****and all she'll taste when you blow your load is minty freshness. Win-win.
 emcmorris
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 106
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Posted: 12/7/2009 3:47:18 AM
yes swallow its an intamacy thing deep throating feels amazing but as long as the "light" explodes from the end of the tunnel u did finelol but swallow damnit
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 12/7/2009 7:49:25 AM
I had a girl that could deep throat once...no big deal,other stuff feels better. For me it's much more about the lips tongue and proper hand action. The swallowing thing...yeah I guess it's OK, but not a must. I was in a LTR with a woman that did not "catch"as they say, but was so good otherwise that it didn't matter to me. But yeah, I prefer it if I can pop it off in her mouth, swallowing optional at her discretion. I'm good with whatever.
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 108
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Posted: 12/8/2009 9:35:12 PM
I like when the woman swallows.I just find it more erotic she's willing to do that for me.
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