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 CrestaRoca
Joined: 9/1/2012
Msg: 123
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Does it matter if he spits or swallows? What if the shoe was on the other foot? I am not sure how I would react to a man spitting away after doin the deed...but it would be an interesting conundrum indeed.

I'm sure if you were to ask the man you were with he would happily give you his take on what he cares or doesn't care about. What is the point in polling the masses? I would bank you could get a hundred different reasons for preferences in here, and at least a hundred messages asking you to expand on the many compliments you get on your expertise. Slow day in the mailroom?
 OneMilkshakeTwoStraws
Joined: 7/31/2010
Msg: 124
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/25/2012 11:41:10 AM
Saying that you don't understand why a man would want to be deep throated, is like me saying that I don't understand why a woman would want me to put my penis all the way inside of her instead of just the tip.
 traveler4368
Joined: 7/30/2012
Msg: 125
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/25/2012 2:17:57 PM
Its very pleasureable; because, of the errogenous zones that are involved. I hope you appreciate my 2 cents.
 sexguy2012
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 126
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/26/2012 4:55:09 AM
Some guys probably feel offended if a woman doesn't like their semen but for statistics sake, I don't care if she spits after.
For those who are afraid to let a guy finish in the mouth, the things that turn a guy on is seeng the woman go all the way pleasing, seeing as we feel this great orgasm, and of course the sensations received.

I was lucky to experience deepthroat as not all women can do it I believe.
It's a HUGE turn on to see a gal swallow my entire**** and feeling her lips at the very base of the shaft.
It's a different orgasm than a regular BJ, both are awesome for sure, but for deepthroat it's the feeling on the base of the shaft and also the head rubbing in the throat. The positive is a woman doesn't get to taste it that way if she's not too crazy about it.
 oldman3964
Joined: 9/10/2009
Msg: 127
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/27/2012 12:02:00 AM
Once I give it to her I don't care what she does with it !!! My opinion!
 sassyscorpiochick
Joined: 9/29/2010
Msg: 128
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/27/2012 12:29:30 AM

1) The best part about a woman swallowing (in my opinion) is the continuation of the blow job. After she swallows she'll continue to give me oral for a few minutes longer. It's kind of like running.... you warm up, go do your workout, then cool down. Blowjobs shouldn't just END because I climaxed. There needs to be a slowing down process. So yes, I prefer the woman to swallow.


I've always said it's the gift that keeps on giving. I love to keep licking and sucking until he can't take it anymore. After he gets off, if I continue, his pleasure is just multiplied. He does this uncontrollable twitching that I just love, until he asks me to stop.
 messybutfun
Joined: 8/2/2012
Msg: 129
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/27/2012 1:51:27 AM
No it is not a big deal but what makes a big thing is the media and movies. They show it as something so wild that anything else is not worth it. A woman who offers to please a man in that manner is giving him a pleasure and he should complain about spitting or swallowing and just enjoy the moment.
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 130
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/27/2012 3:29:32 AM
vicxstar: I just think it is rude and disrespectful to not swallow. If you like the guy enough to fvck him, one would think if you care about him--you would. Ejaculate is not a gross thing. It is a life creation thing and wonderful part of him. Maybe it is the degree of emotional involvement you have with the person. Just mho.


I never considered myself a spitter (but then again I never realized the true definition of what one was)...I mean I always let the guy cum in my mouth, but because my gag reflex is very strong, my throat closes and the cum will just sit in my mouth...there are times I can then...eventually...swallow it, but usually I let it dribble it back on him and play with it and never had any complaints...I also never stop using my mouth while this is all happening as I don't think him ejaculating is a gross thing...
I do agree that both partners needs to finish to full completion...when a guy cums they shouldn't run to the bathroom or use a tissue or however they do it to spit it out...I don't think what I do falls under the 'spitter' category but because I don't swallow I guess it does...

Oh, and to answer your question...to me, it has nothing to do with 'emotional involvement.'
 Love.Notes
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 131
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/27/2012 11:23:32 AM
OP... You have to have strong lungs and the ability to hold your breath for a long time to perform deep throat. You hold your breath while going deep down on a man. The muscles in the back of your throat will tighten around him the deeper he goes. This is where you feel like you are gagging but really it's the muscles that will tighten then release, tighten then release. This is where holding your breath becomes important as you can get approximately 6 to 8 deep long thrusts before you have to come up for air! It's when his movements are too fast, too hard and too quick for you to time your breathing that you will run into problems with gagging.

It sounds like to me that you really do not enjoy giving head! You will have to work on the mental attitude before you can really prepare yourself to fully give him what kind of pleasure he asks of you. If you don’t like swallowing, and like to spit it out each time, stop trying to figure out why it’s so important to a man. Just realize that you are not the type of woman that fully enjoys giving head to a man and swallowing. It’s ok not to like it! Not everybody does. You don’t have to perform the duties if you really don’t want to. Figuring out why a man loves deep throat or why he wants his woman to swallow will not change your mindset as to why you dislike doing it in the first place. You have set your limits to what you enjoy and don’t enjoy and that’s all there is to it! Find someone that doesn’t care if you swallow or deep throat. You will never be able to please someone who does enjoy that if you find it disgusting or pointless.

Find someone that agrees with how you like to give and receive and go from there.
 Vik96
Joined: 12/24/2011
Msg: 132
Men receiving oral
Posted: 9/28/2012 2:56:18 AM
i m totally agree wid u, tongue works far better than deepthroat
 PosiREP
Joined: 6/8/2012
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Posted: 9/29/2012 12:48:14 PM
I really don't care what you do with the "result" of oral...lol

swallow, spit....at that points its the same for me unless you decide to spit it all over something that can get ruined...lol

While I don't really care I was intrigued by one girl who would finish the job and then get up, walk all the way to the bathroom and spit it out in the sink....I always figured it was a taste thing but it would seem getting up and walking into another room would take far longer to deal with the taste than to swallow. I just found it funny more than anything.
 easygoingforyou
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 134
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Posted: 9/29/2012 1:06:07 PM
sweety its the ultimate like you sqirtting by an orgasism from your gspot bb
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2012 9:51:45 AM
It doesn't ~Really~ matter....as long as you Both enjoy the experience.
Enjoyment is Everything!!
It's the same with Cunni-....
Even if I got no more than a good 2-fister in return....I'd Still want to go down on her....Several times a day!!
* G R I N *
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 136
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/3/2012 8:31:19 PM
When I was a virgin, the first woman I was with went down on me immediately. When I climaxed, it changed my life. When she went and spit and washed her mouth, it changed again. She told me she forgot to tell me, she didn't like the taste. But later on that day, she was back down there again. I didn't know what to do, she didn't believe I was a virgin and I left her after a week or two of this and didn't have sex again for 5 years.

Now, a woman who is obsessed with head is all I seem interested in. I am usually celibate for years due to this, also due to the fact I don't sleep around, I don't canvass drunk women for sex and I don't seem to be able to figure out how does one end up in a relationship with a Fellatrice or a woman with an oral fixation? I never found out how, and asked around a lot. Tons. Never found out how to find my compliment. I heard a lot of 'I am that kind of girl.' over the years but all posers.

It is a big deal if a woman loves what she does. If she doesn't, then don't do it. Period. I don't. If I don't want to or like to do something intimately, they know up front. I would like to also for no one is obligated and if you are with someone who doesn't, then you are with the wrong person.
 eattoplease55
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 137
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/4/2012 7:36:23 AM
LOL...alright she speaks!...love it and its all up too the woman....Ive said bfore if your lucky enough to recieve oral from her its up to her what she does at the end!....bravo!....you go girl!.....lol.....have a great holiday and be safe!
 Helloitsmeyourlookingfor
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 138
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/4/2012 9:24:56 AM
As far as swallowing.... Im on the same page a poker. If your not going to swallow, don't make an ordeal out of it. For me though, geeting deep is most important. Nothing like the sensation of her nose on my navel when I am deep inside. A lot of women use the hand wrapped around the shaft to make it seem like its deep, but I find that turns into a J/O session with her mouth as the receptacle. I prefer hands were not used.
 weekdaylover
Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 139
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:33:53 PM
I'm with you. As long as my lady partner firmly milks me until I am completely done climaxing, she has given me her all and can do as she wishes tastefully.
 69PickupLines
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 140
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/12/2012 4:50:10 PM
I'm gonna get back to this question, but I really want to know about the guy that has gone for 5 years at a time without sex because he prefers blowjobs. . .why would you let your masculine urges rot because of a preference? Or urges, period -- women aren't some alien creatures that don't desire the down-n-dirty. . .Anyways, I enjoy when a woman swallows, because my tongue is not at all shy. . .
 massman1
Joined: 5/15/2010
Msg: 141
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/12/2012 5:11:50 PM
having my girl swallow is the cherry on top. It's a form of love where she's willing o swallow a part of you.
don't u like it when a guy licks your ****??? well where do u think your juice's are going.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 142
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:21:42 PM
Read closer PickupLines. I said I don't sleep around, and I don't meet women like this and so on. It wasn't that I don't have sex for 5 years due to not getting head. Hooked on Comprehension worked for me.
 gofurguy
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 143
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/13/2012 7:31:16 AM
i have seen enough in videos on blow jobs and its like anything else in life ,everyone has their own take on whats good. i actually get turned off my women spitting it back .the idea is to bring me to a new level of expectation and release. if you get me off and i look up and smile , lets do again sometime.we arent making a video for sale, just be yourself
 Brandywine2012
Joined: 7/30/2012
Msg: 144
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/13/2012 5:04:52 PM
I never let good protein go to waste! hahahahaha
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 145
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/13/2012 6:04:53 PM
Videos are not real life. All that stuff is staged for 'erotica' or as we call it. Porn. Why would I want to see someone else? I will never understand that.
I want to see HER enjoy herself. I want to KNOW she is enjoying herself or loving it. If she doesn't. Why the heck am I there? lol
 benjameson68
Joined: 9/7/2012
Msg: 146
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/14/2012 7:35:32 AM
I dont care what my woman does with it after i blow it in her mouth. If she swallows great! if she spits great! if she lets me cum all over her face and tits great too
 junkfoodjunkie79
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 147
Men receiving oral
Posted: 12/14/2012 1:46:23 PM
Doesn't make much difference to me. Most women I've met didn't know what they were doing. I'm only concerned if she takes care of herself and lets me have sex with her. One turn on though is when you pull out and she sucks it. Most women don't like that either.
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