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 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 19
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How and When to Tell a Girl/Boy about a Sexual Fantasy?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
Fantasies should be disclosed depending how quickly you want to see them come to furition! If you don't actually want to bring them into your relationship - keep them to yourself and use them for those private moments on your own!
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
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How and When to Tell a Girl/Boy about a Sexual Fantasy?
Posted: 4/10/2009 6:18:43 PM
First off, a fantasy should never be told to a BOY or GIRL, but it may be told to a man or woman.

Second, we all know this is about your bunny. If its a joke, give it up already. If its not, please go get some professional help - you have a problem.
 spitfire6844
Joined: 6/30/2007
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How and When to Tell a Girl/Boy about a Sexual Fantasy?
Posted: 4/10/2009 7:21:23 PM

If its bizarre (considered by the majority at least), would you even tell your mate? how would you say it and when?


Yes, you should tell her. Whether she initially wants to do it or not, she will appreciate you sharing your thoughts and fantasies with her. More often then not, once she thinks about it a little and gets used to the idea, she will likely be willing to try it. I like roleplaying and women love new ideas for sex-play. I also like using anal beads and ben-wa balls on women, and they usually warm up to the idea after pondering it for awhile.

If she likes you, she'll be likely to try any idea you have sooner or later. Don't press her; but just put it out there and then focus on regular lovemaking while she thinks about it.
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