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 Mr-Amazing
Joined: 2/21/2009
Msg: 51
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newblue1970

Well that's just how Millions of years of evolution has shaped the Human Body.

Just like at Birds their ancestors bodies formed after millions of years from certain types of dinosaurs to have ONLY “1” opening for waste/reproduction.

That is why you never see a bird “wiz” or squat.

This is also why some mutation gene caused all of us humans to have a deficiency where we require direct vitamin C. We can’t process it from other food sources. Us and Guinea Pigs.


But back to Butt hole licking. Ewwwww gross. I always wonder if people who have this desire either hit their heads or have some sort of mental illness. Why would people want to put their tongues, wieners or fingers up an area with putrid smelling substances come out?

Does anyone here, do like some of those nasty German Videos and "Eat feces?" Seriously?
 ZenBeth
Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 52
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/11/2009 1:25:44 PM
Why do I think that people who are into this also have dogs that lick their butts and then kiss their owners?



~Beth~
 allthatglittersisnotgold
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 53
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/11/2009 1:35:46 PM
Message 45 is exacly what I am afraid of. Best for me to stay clear and enjoy other sensual pleasures.I don't think you can be clean enough with oral there, no matter if you scrubbed it for an hour for cripes sake. Anyway touching my butt hole is not sensual for me...it is bothersome so no need for contact there on my side or to reciprocate!
 r90sboxer
Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 4/11/2009 3:46:59 PM
So is Aer Lingus really an airline or just the act of practicing the lick...much like air guitar?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 55
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/11/2009 5:08:41 PM

an airline or just the act of practicing the lick...much like air guitar?


LMAO!! Nooo, far less movement than air guitar, and there IS another person in the room, and some actual touching. But unlike Trix, it's not for kids. Lol.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 4/11/2009 5:20:52 PM
Okay, you've been down there for a while, but then all of the sudden you want to kiss your mate. What do you do then? Go wash your teeth? Go for it, brown teeth and all. Maybe ask her to go down there you both have the same flavor?

Dunno.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 4/11/2009 5:29:18 PM

What do you do then? Go wash your teeth? Go for it, brown teeth and all. Maybe ask her to go down there you both have the same flavor?
Dunno.

You're right; unless you can recolor your shades, this concept is not for you.
 Hellodanny
Joined: 3/1/2009
Msg: 58
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/11/2009 10:50:12 PM
I think a woman's butthole is very sexy! (I'm a buttman;-) I love to lick it and around it when I'm eating her P*ssy, and it always gives her a great orgasm. And as I moan and make the vibrating mmmmmmmmmmm sound as I'm eating her out, she knows I'm loving it and I think it puts her at ease and takes away any anxiety she might have, so she can just lay back and enjoy and cummmm. OP, you sound sexy and fun :p
 ZenBeth
Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 59
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/11/2009 11:25:20 PM
Hellodanny: think a woman's butthole is very sexy! (I'm a buttman;-) I love to lick it and around it when I'm eating her P*ssy, and it always gives her a great orgasm. And as I moan and make the vibrating mmmmmmmmmmm sound as I'm eating her out, she knows I'm loving it and I think it puts her at ease and takes away any anxiety she might have, so she can just lay back and enjoy and cummmm. OP, you sound sexy and fun :p


Was that a BIG fart I just heard?????????????? Is it all the women or just your wife?


~Beth~
 Accidentally In Love
Joined: 6/28/2008
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Posted: 4/12/2009 1:21:34 AM

Chalk one up for not playing Butt games to get~!
You 'Crazy' Dirty!
I'll recieve...but give?
Not so much.
Call me closed 'mouthed' on that one! lol
I won't be playing tit for tat with that sh*t! lol


If you receive isn't that pretty much the same thing if you are kissing them after?


I read somewhere that the human mouth had .way more germs (potentially harmful germs) than the human anus ...do we demand that someone wash their mouth before we kiss them ???not me ...but I will demand that that other area be freshly washed if any play back there is desired... I have been known to take to big of a bite ...or drag my tongue a bit to far


I'd like to see where you got that information.

Public pools don't get closed in the summer time because someone spit in the water, but if there's a chocolate floater then people are pretty much running for their lives! Explain that.


shot your fat up


Now that's definitely not appetizing!


7 years later and more than 30 partners of all shades

wow, a new partner every 3 months......


Maybe she does PR work for the UN!


There are more toxic, noxious beasties in the human mouth than in the rectum. Shocking, huh!? Sooo, tonguing her anus could actually dirty up her ass. Lol.


Again, show me some proof.

Why are we as women taught to wipe from front to back (to avoid infection) and never the opposite then?


Why do I think that people who are into this also have dogs that lick their butts and then kiss their owners?


I don't know if there is a direct correlation BUTT that is equally repulsive!

 buttgirl2X
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 61
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Posted: 4/12/2009 8:39:30 AM
They do it in porn so it can't be that bad!
 r90sboxer
Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 4/12/2009 8:51:03 AM
Public pools don't get closed in the summer time because someone spit in the water, but if there's a chocolate floater then people are pretty much running for their lives! Explain that.


But there is also that occasional entry of a woman menstruating and we think nothing of that......a little hygiene goes a long way....not an issue between consenting adults with a little common sense.

And OP....why the hypocrisy??Message me and I will explain!
 OjosAzules777
Joined: 1/23/2009
Msg: 63
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Posted: 4/12/2009 9:33:41 AM
That's a lot of tossed salad buttgirl. :) It's cool but some people just absolutely detest it. The back door is never going to become more popular than the front.
 koolfundad
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 64
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:07:57 AM
Actually its a new partner in 2.8 months. sorry just the accounatant in me..
 satx78218
Joined: 10/30/2007
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:25:46 AM
As with pubic shaving, ass-to-mouth and anal licking are contrivances by porn producers to try to sell more porn, to be more outrageous, shocking, titillating.

If you let porn dictate your sex activity, if you fancy yourself as a porn star, then have at it. :)
 jimmie64
Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:31:59 AM
Dont knock it if you aint tried it
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 67
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Posted: 4/12/2009 12:02:25 PM

As with pubic shaving, ass-to-mouth and anal licking are contrivances by porn producers


The porn guys invented these practices?!! LOL! Kinda like Al Gore invented the internet, right?
 NoQuarterGiven
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 68
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Posted: 4/12/2009 1:54:42 PM
To the people who are so against ass sex but i perfectly ok with oral sex, I should remind you that there are some very dirty penises and vulvas out there. I think cleanliness is important whereever you are putting your mouth.

I'll try anything once, but she better be just out of a shower and I personnally see the cleaning being done. Otherwise, no thanks.
 NoQuarterGiven
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 69
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Posted: 4/12/2009 2:50:04 PM

that's is the third post you made here...so i thought i would take the time to let you know... i did not find any of your comments informative or funny... but just in case you are are wondering why i took the trouble to post....


Are you just talking to yourself or someone else?
 Uncle Fist
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 70
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/12/2009 4:32:40 PM

I read somewhere that the human mouth had .way more germs (potentially harmful germs) than the human anus


I don't know about that, but it is true that the average person has more germs underneath their fingernails than in their ass. So licking a chocolate starfish is technically more hygenic and less dirty than biting your fingernails.

Makes me wonder how many people that were grossed out by this thread are cool with biting their nails.


As for the question, I'd say it's certainly becoming more mainstream. When references to it are being made on hip hop albums, I'd say that says something.
 MandaKay
Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 71
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/12/2009 4:49:35 PM
I don't bite my nailes either. I find that gross too. I was my hands constantly because of where I work.

If you want to lick things, and the person you're trying to lick is okay with it, then fine. Just don't be licking me.
 Funky1420
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 72
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Posted: 4/12/2009 4:51:08 PM
Well said! It's another erogenous zone right? If you're up on hygiene, it shouldn't be a big deal!
 j0e0717
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 73
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Posted: 4/12/2009 5:05:16 PM
I for one certainly hope not :p
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 4/12/2009 6:37:17 PM
While this isn't about giving rim-jobs, it is an article that appeared in GQ about Anal Sex on the first date is now NORMAL!

Is Anal Sex the New Deal-Breaker?

Backdoor entry is now so mainstream, some guys request it on the first date. So, what's your take on the once-taboo act? Open up and give us your comments.

With all due respect to Salt-N-Pepa, let's talk about Todd. Todd (not his real name) is a friend of a friend. He's a rare breed—a finance guy who lives in L.A. He's been dating the same ladylike woman for three years. They are the picture of late-twentysomething, Amstel Light—drinking America. The very first time they slept together, they had anal sex. Miss Ladylike had never tried it before. For the next five months, anal was the only kind of sex they had. Supposedly, Todd had intimacy issues, and penetrating Miss Ladylike's rectum was less emotionally intense than venturing into the vagina. Eventually, Todd did the deed with Miss Ladylike in the usual way, and continues to, but they still have a whole lot of anal sex.

So, apparently, do a lot of other people. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimated that in 2002, 38 percent of men ages 18 to 59 had entered a woman's back door. Thirty-five percent of women ages 25 to 44 had invited men in. Ten years before, only 26 percent of men and 20 percent of women reported having had anal sex.

"Anal is the new oral," says syndicated sex columnist Dan Savage. "I used to get letters from women about giving head. Those letters are now dwarfed by letters from women asking how to take it up the butt." Okay. But pronouncements and statistics that indicate the rising popularity of rearguard action don't address some nagging questions—the biggest one being how, presuming they haven't had their own rectums messed with, can so many guys justify asking women to let them take the service elevator?

Phillip, an engineer in Chicago, says he and his friends request a ride in the back seat because it's a harder-to-reach goal than old-fashioned intercourse. "Once a guy has anal sex, he's put on a pedestal by his peers," he says. He claims he hasn't had much trouble getting women to agree to it. "I only had to persuade two girls. [I asked] 'Can I put it in your butt?' At first they were like, 'No, it will hurt.' Then time after time of having sex with them they finally said okay. It hurt them the first time, but after that they always said they enjoyed it—if not a little, then a lot."

For other men, the appeal of anal penetration is less the novelty—and the fact that it gives them a good story to tell over beers—and more the psychology. "For most of my friends, it's sort of a domination thing," says John (not his real name), 30, a writer in New York. "[It's] basically getting someone in a position where they're most vulnerable. My friends enjoy that and they tell their friends they did it. But it's not like girls are ready for it—it's something they do when they're really drunk."

"There's an erotic undercurrent about being in control of a situation," says Edward Ratush, a psychiatrist and sex therapist in New York. "It's a very ego-focused thing for the guy."

Albert (his middle name), a good-looking 29-year-old who's fairly well-known in the music industry, says he asks the women he dates to have anal sex with him because it raises the level of intimacy in the relationship. He doesn't demand anal sex—especially not if it's a one-time hookup—but he won't commit to a woman who refuses to grant him a backstage pass. "I had a girlfriend who I was with for a long time and she wasn't into it," Albert says. "There was definitely a thing in the back of my head like, 'I can't marry her.' How can I, knowing I can't go to all the places I can go with her? The physicality of it, being painful or whatever, shows how comfortable the girl is with you." Here, he pointedly stops short of romanticizing screwing a woman rectally. "Ideally, every girl is a disgusting pig who wants it," he says. "But only with you."

There's evidence that some women do like anal sex, and that they're as into having it as some men. The dating website Lavalife recently polled 20,083 members in its "Intimates" section. Thirty-five percent of female respondents claimed to enjoy anal sex. "It's a myth that every straight man wants it and the women who give it up do just that," says Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women.

Dawn (her middle name), a 34-year-old married woman who lives in Ohio, first tried anal sex at her husband's suggestion, only to discover that she was much more into it than he was. "It's better," she says. She'd like to have it more often, but it's currently off the table. "He's got more hang-ups about it than I do," Dawn says.

After the forbidden territory has been conquered, some men find they have psychological issues with the act. Even Albert, the one who won't tie the knot without a key to the back door, admits that. "You're thinking, 'I don't want to hurt her, and I don't want shit to squirt out at me,'" he says.

So if you can't be certain whether the woman's enjoying herself or just submitting to peer pressure, and the act itself can be unpleasant, what's the motivation for demanding it? For Todd, so his friend says, it was about maintaining emotional distance. Albert says it's about enhancing the intimacy between two people. But the more plausible explanation is that it's about accessibility—and instant gratification. Now that anal sex has been propelled higher on the mainstream menu by a hypersexualized culture and the proliferation of porn (see Ass-Hole O Mio and the Anal Excursions series), some men can't help but order it. And some women feel the need to offer it.

A few years ago, Albert says, he was hosting a party at a New York nightclub. A girl in attendance began hitting on him aggressively, and after the party they headed uptown to her Columbia dorm. "I'll never forget it," he says. "She went down on me immediately, in the kitchen, then came up and said, 'I want you to **** me in the ass.' That's some porno shit that most guys dream about." And when he told his friends about it later, he brought down the house.
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 4/12/2009 8:44:47 PM
He is directing it to ZenBeth and I'm glad someone finally did...


that's is the third post you made here...so i thought i would take the time to let you know... i did not find any of your comments informative or funny... but just in case you are are wondering why i took the trouble to post....


Are you just talking to yourself or someone else?
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