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 kissmekindsir
Joined: 11/16/2008
Msg: 66
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from post #73:


...... I will give you that..and not that there is anything wrong with it. Afterall, isnt it legal where you live to be a hooker?


Look shallow apology, ethics and a state's laws can be miles apart.

Or didn't you notice:

A) Slavery was legal despite Jefferson's document, "...all men are created equal", prior to the Civil War

B) one can sell Illegal Drugs in California and only get a ticket for some quanitys of some substances yet you will go to prison if you sell Bear or Cougar claws in CA.

C) It was illegal for a white man to vote who didn't own property till Andrew Jackson's presidency in the 1840s

D) In some Scandinavian nations it's legal to do drugs...despite the high rate of addiction

It is still illegal to practice certain styles of Marriage in the US despite Biblical sanctions that are PRO regarding the type of marriage!

My point Darling, just because it is legal to practice either Prostitution or Stripping for foolish male sell-outs of manhood, is it Biblically endorced as ETHICAL behavior!


And yes sister, I know just like you do, that many if not most women in the USA have turned marriage into a 'covert' or shall I say camoflodged form of prostitution!
Just like these wimp excuse of males who are stupid enough to pay a woman to strip and be his 'fantasy whore' looting his bankroll from him, when it should be spouses stripping for 'their partner's eyes only'!
 forumrum
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 67
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Posted: 11/3/2009 1:19:37 PM
kissmekindsir,

Why are you speaking of "biblically endorsed"? What does the bible have to do with law? What happened to separation of church and state?

It is 2009. The Bible is little more than an outdated fairy tale. It has nothing to do with what should or should not be the law of any land.

Your posts on this subject are beyond ridiculous. Do you actually believe what you are posting? The religious right in your country is truly frightening.
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 68
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Posted: 11/3/2009 1:43:34 PM

The religious right in your country is truly frightening.

They are, aren't they? Immersed in dogma, without pity, remorse or empathy, and armed to the teeth!
 forumrum
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 69
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:14:29 AM
aSydneyMale,

I still do not understand how a country like the U.S. can allow religious groups to define their politics. What century are we living in? The religious right in the U.S. are no better than the Taliban or fundamental Islamic groups that they rail against.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 70
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:18:22 AM
The religious right in the U.S. are no better than the Taliban or fundamental Islamic groups that they rail against.


The one begets the other, and the Jesus folks, if the Crusades were the first "incident", started the really ugly stuff. But I am at a loss to explain (any better than that) the genesis of the perspective offered by the the KissmekindSir's, lol). I suppose if, like her, I lived in Vegas, maybe I would rebel, too, although I suspect I'd wade right into the middle of all that "sin", and start feeling like the luckiest guy on earth. Lol


I still do not understand how a country like the U.S. can allow religious groups to define their politics.


We don't seem to know exactly what to do with religious groups since they started raising money on tv, like the politicians (any more than we know what to do with sex and sexuality, on either a national or personal level). Treat 'em all the same, I guess.
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 11/5/2009 1:50:02 PM

We don't seem to know exactly what to do with religious groups since they started raising money on tv,

And don't they just love the cash?

I saw this character called Benny Hinn some years ago and it was the greatest heap of crap, I thought I was watching a mockumentary! But, there they were, hundreds of people lining up to be 'cured' and this bloke dripping with expensive watches and trinkets.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 72
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Posted: 11/5/2009 4:18:31 PM
The real shame.........is people like "kissmekindsir"......
actually give true Christians a bad name!!
 lovinvixen
Joined: 9/10/2008
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/5/2009 6:25:10 PM
I'd like to think the 'tramp mentality' which exists so strong in Nevada and California was just an example of these two states with so many topless bars and brothels.

But in looking at the posts here and where people are from one can see that the 'tramp mentality' has infected the continent!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 75
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Posted: 11/5/2009 6:38:32 PM
^^^^ Nice screenname, Vixen.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 76
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Posted: 11/5/2009 6:52:18 PM


this is my favorite read of the day.....
taken from kissme's profile


If you read maybe we will have seed


maybe it's because I've been "infected" .....but isn't "seed" the term the Bible
uses for sperm!!
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 77
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Posted: 11/6/2009 12:22:47 AM

But in looking at the posts here and where people are from one can see that the 'tramp mentality' has infected the continent!

Don't forget to include yourself in that basket luv, with your profile pics leaving very little to the imagination.
 forumrum
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 78
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Posted: 11/6/2009 9:52:00 AM
No kidding aSydneyMale! Hey lovinvixen, I would like you to meet kettle.

LMFAO!!!!!!!! What's the difference between a topless bar and your profile pics? Gotta luv them Christians!
 StevenStille
Joined: 1/21/2010
Msg: 79
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Posted: 1/27/2010 7:48:47 AM
The bitter, controling, judgmental attitude is a complete turn off... I mean in life not just sexually. I'd bet she'd stab you In the arm with a fork for having your elbow on the table.
Her nose doesn't belong in other peoples' bedrooms and won't be in mine!
 StevenStille
Joined: 1/21/2010
Msg: 80
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Posted: 1/27/2010 8:11:25 AM
Everyone knows it's lies... (some for protection) From the name and age you use to telling them you're a schoolteacher and you like them.
I don't see it as much different than an actress playing a part in a movie except oviously they make more money... And actually have to suck someone elses tongue on FILM! At least a stripper doesn't get filmed and isn't supposed to get touched.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 1/28/2010 6:39:37 AM

The main reason a man will not want his wife or girlfriend to work in a strip club is because of the treatment strippers get. strippers/dancers get treaded like shit by other dancers, bouncers, waitresses, and customers. So, thats why a man would not want his real woman to be a worker in a club.


I gotta think it's that a woman stripping, on a stage, or anywhere else, bending over, caressing, or swinging on, a pole- all gives the impression that she's offering it to the audience, any one or more of them. Yeah, they trade on that impression, however false, to milk money from the patrons. Hey, a guy has a beer, or two, he's gonna give it a reach, take a stab at it.
Nobody wants his SO getting stabbed by somebody else.jmho
 DarkCrimson
Joined: 7/6/2009
Msg: 85
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Posted: 1/28/2010 10:13:39 AM
kissmekindsir : As far as a Christian woman in a bathing suit that was latter overlaid with lace as on my profile, it just goes to show how decanant America is and how 'gutter-oreinted' most mindsets have become.

That bathing suit must have been spray-painted on to be that low on the chest.

translationgal: what you do in the end is your business; irrespective of the comments of others. From the articles I have read; it is not a happy lifestyle. Though, you should ask yourself what you would say if your child finds out someday. Curiosity is one thing, but please consider the long-term ramifications of doing it. Good luck.
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 87
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Posted: 9/9/2011 5:38:06 PM
Hello and thanks for your post, I agree with you. I live in the real world not a dream world in my head. I personally don't go to strip bars, The women there are well "exactly what you said" And your right I would prefer my intimate times be spent with the woman I'm dating, and spend my money and time building that relationship!!!!!!!!
 Bucketlist099
Joined: 8/6/2011
Msg: 88
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Posted: 9/9/2011 6:11:22 PM
Look, some couples have open marriages. Stripping involves erotic activity but is not having sex with someone else in the sense of physical intimacy. If stripping is something that you enjoy and better yet, it gets you a little horny, I would bet when you came home you would be a very nice ride in bed. Maybe I'm wrong headed about this but if it is something you enjoy, you have a right to do it. You deserve to be with a guy that accepts you for who you are and is not jealous if you give a little erotic pleasure to other guys.
 1776or1984
Joined: 12/25/2009
Msg: 89
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Posted: 9/9/2011 10:20:46 PM
I've been in a strip club twice, once to pick up a check for remodeling their restrooms (working before they opened) and the second time picking up a set of house keys from a friend's ex boyfriend. But a lot of strippers used to hang out at this country and western dance club I went to about 10 years ago and I knew guys that dated strippers. Very, very messed up women without exception.

Strippers do more than wiggle on a stage, they do lap dances. Who in their right mind would want to dry hump a guy for a living? Who in their right mind would trust a woman that thought so little of herself that she sold herself for a few bucks? Most of the strippers would have stories about hustling guys, keeping a dozen losers on a string and sucking the cash out of their pockets. Both deserved the other.
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 90
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Posted: 9/10/2011 8:24:49 AM
I argee with Kissmekindsirs post #43 "You proved it when you paid her" Most of these women strippers and prostitutes, are self obsorbed and narcissistic, they have no education or skills so ofcourse they're good maninulators, that's they're only survival technique, feeding off those looking for a quick fix. If you ask me these women and the customers deserve eachother. Self obsorbed people remind me of those mindless annoying seaguls in that movie Finding Nemo "Mine mine mine"..........LOL
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 91
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Posted: 9/10/2011 8:47:29 AM
I'd date a stripper.....
 tonycarman
Joined: 9/4/2011
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Posted: 9/10/2011 8:59:37 AM
if you manipulate men for the sake of taking their money then you lose respect for men. This translates later in issues with your own man.... if he is ok with it then he is a dog and he doesn't respect for woman either. I worked as a door man for almost 9 years and found that every woman had a hang up with men they cared about. They were often two faced and constantly lied to cover up things and would ask me to vouch for them. I would because I was there for them and didn't want them to suffer any more than most of them are already were. Only one out ten girls would keep it real and professional... ie they would make the least money.
 Laughs_Hugs_Smiles
Joined: 12/19/2009
Msg: 93
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Posted: 10/23/2011 4:21:55 PM
I have no issues with the woman I am with stripping. It is like flirting and talking with others. My only issue would ever be, if the woman I were with who was a stripper, did anything to break my heart and trust. In this case, doing more than stripping and not coming home with me. It's like when you are with someone at a party or a bar, and she is talking and having a good time with other people there., if there is trust, I have no issues, as long as, as I said, we go home together. And some things, are only for me and no one else. I see the women at the casinos who dance and wear sexy things while dealing blackjack at a casino not as sex objects, but as women working making a living. I am more amazed at the drunking guys who would get slammed drunk and lose their money, thinking the more they lose the better chance of getting into her knickers or panties... UH NOPE. So, I have respect for people who strip for a living. And think of the wife of the breast implant doctor or the wife of a GYN who examines women nude for a living... no one makes an issue about those professions. And how many of these doctors who examine a nude beautiful woman doesn't get aroused? But yet no one says anything derogative about a male doctor who intimately examines a nude woman patient and does more with her than any man with a stripper can ever do.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 94
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Posted: 11/1/2011 1:31:01 PM
LOVE WOMEN THAT DANCE
but then again I love women that show off
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 95
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Posted: 11/1/2011 3:21:23 PM
strippers basically are a fantasy type of thing for dudes...


its not real...


they are selling the fantasy of their naked nubile body for money to random dudes, any and all comers.


not sure that bodes well for a serious committed loyal relationship for a guy to have his gf doing that...or for a girl to really respect her man for being with a girl like her while she is doing such things.
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