Posted: 6/9/2009 10:57:54 AM
I think he is just bragging
Posted: 6/9/2009 12:09:23 PM
|Yes, you are a lucky guy to have a blow job buddy forget what other people say and sit back and enjoy the ride. it may end|
Posted: 6/9/2009 1:03:44 PM
(smiles) I think that poster meant he only knows women like this in his dreams..
Posted: 6/9/2009 1:29:18 PM
|awwww..poor poor js104c1.|
perhaps your penis isnt as fantastic as the O.P.'s penis....
Posted: 9/3/2009 6:02:08 PM
|OP: Can you clone her and send one copy to me ASAP, please? |
Posted: 9/3/2009 6:31:59 PM
|I just want to say - yes some women enjoy giving BJs (to a guy they like)... but if I was going to do that, I'd at LEAST want to kiss the guy first (as well as talk and everything obviously!). I do care about my own pleasure too though, so I'd want a guy to care about it too, but yeah it's not totally selfless if the girl enjoys it too. Oh, and I hate the word 'slut'. I don't like it when people judge people.|
Posted: 9/3/2009 7:13:59 PM
|JUST a BJ with no touching, caressing, etc. whatsoever? Gee, there's so much more to even just a BJ than just her mouth and my shaft. Wouldn't be fulfilling. I'd want to be massaging her hair, the back of her neck, and tickling her earlobes with my fingers while she performs oral on me. Would stimulate my pleasure and hers. I'd want her to know that I REALLY, REALLY appreciate this lol...|
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:41:56 PM
|welcome to my world |
just remember to never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever ever never ever ever ever question it
oh yeah and dont think you're the only one
Posted: 9/4/2009 1:17:15 PM
|I had one for a while a number of years back. We met on a telephone chat line. She said she loved to give head,so whenever I was in town I'd give her a call and go over for a blowjob. It was fun for the first few times,but after a while there was something unsatisfying about it. Her technique wasn't that good;she'd wrap her lips around it and go up and down as fast as she could until I came. Then I found out her true intentions when the frequent phone calls started to come asking me for money,for medication,some new shoes for work,and finally a $100 for a birthday present for her ex-husband. I stopped going to blowjobs after that.|
Posted: 9/4/2009 1:19:45 PM
Are you sure "she" doesn't have a penis?
Posted: 9/4/2009 2:06:52 PM
|I think she wants more from you than just friendship, and hopes she can win you over with sexual favors. (Pathetic, if that's the case.) Taking advantage makes you a heel. Allowing her to perform oral gives her the false impression that you might be attracted to her beyond friendship. |
At least you're getting free and clear head. Right?
Posted: 9/4/2009 2:24:42 PM
|No reciprocation ever? Let’s say you ask me out and you buy me dinner. The next night you take me out and buy me dinner. The next night we go out and you buy me dinner. This goes on for weeks and weeks. Wow, look at all these free dinners for lucky old me! All I have to do is show up and I get free dinners. My friends are envious. I even get the pleasure of calling you a fool on an internet site! What does that make me?|
Posted: 9/4/2009 3:10:22 PM
nothing get's me off more than getting a man off with my lips.....it helps if he appreciates it though.
Closer2u for president!
And yes.... Yes.... YES ... it is MOST appreciated!
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:10:58 PM
|You've got a good thing going. Don't blow it!|
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:19:31 PM
|------And to be honest I hate the word slut from males who readily accept the easy sex!!! Why is it a woman is a slut to you and others who want sex but you and other men aren't sluts because you accept easy sex?-------|
the good ol double standard woman has many guys lined up for her every beck an call getting money & sex when ever she needs or wants it, she gets the label golddigger an ho/whore award.. man has many women lined up for his every beck an call getting money & sex when ever he needs or wants it..he gets the player of year award an points for being SUCH da "LADIES man"
if any man wants to fuss nag an b itch about how much a woman is a slut ho or gold digger then he/you turn right around an have sex with her an anybody who has a warm hole an heart beat or are giving ur money away like water in the hopes of sex then of course he/you/the guy is just as big of a HO/whore an slutty buddy as he/you wants to call the lady or ladies themselves an also an in some cases the biggest "TRICK" of the year..
in the meantime its the complant of if they/the person so bad an so dam nasty an so this an that miserable an horriable,,why ya doing it for in the first place? why you f uckin wit them? an why you still keep going back..??
i guess men got they own reasons for the s hit they do...
i read a sign that cracked me up an it said
like a prostitute BUT only smarter"
i anit mad at them i got respect for the ladies of the evening an "gold diggers" hell they gotta get paid like the next person does they just going about it the exstra easy way..
Posted: 11/19/2009 11:58:53 PM
|It doesn't make her a slut. However, it may make the man involved into some kind of exploiter. I have to think a woman willing to give oral to platonic male freinds just for the heck of it might have some issues. Maybe not--maybe she just gets a thrill out of it. But I'd be careful.|
Posted: 11/20/2009 6:23:13 AM
|i'm sure this type of relationship exists somewhere in the world but i heavily doubt that it is very common. |
in fact i'd say it was so rare as to be indiscernable.
a mere drop in the ocean.
and i'm sure the woman involved doesn't come close to looking like Kate Beckinsale but more like Ruth Buzzy or Cloris Leachman.
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:26:00 AM
|I noticed the OP nevered answered notjesus' question under msg: 6: |
"Are you sure "she" doesn't have a penis?" How do we know "she" is not a "he." Did I miss something, eh? I have never met a women as he has described. I'm not saying they aren't out there, but this thread makes me suspicious that "she" is a "he."
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:52:04 AM
Let's say you have a friend whom you met recently. Apart from a fairly normal friendship, you engage in receptive oral sex with her without reciprocation. No touching, no intimacy really, not even kissing. What kind of relationship is that?
Sounds like a new best friend for LIFE!
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:52:51 AM
More to the question - what does it make him?
Lucky? Blessed? Relaxed?
Posted: 11/20/2009 1:44:26 PM
I myself wouldn't mind having a blowjob buddy. Now calling her anytime during the day and then having her come over at a moments notice for my pleasure...would be so awesome..lol
It's so wild doing it in a moment of spontaneity, on the tennis court early on a Sunday morning, in the dark at the cinema, in a car anytime, at work in the audio booth, at the beach.
Love to reciprocate too. The playful attitude is the key here, if you have no hang-ups and just accept pleasure for pleasure's sake, then go for it.
Posted: 2/14/2010 7:55:10 PM
|Ok, is there the male version of the BJ buddy? You know... a guy that just wants to go down on a woman with nothing in return. Is this a new category to dating: FB, FWB, BJ Buddy? |
Learn something new every day on these forums.
Posted: 5/13/2010 6:09:49 AM
|I'd say that you're FWBJB Friends With Blow Job Benefits!|