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Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 75
Blowjob buddyPage 3 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)

I'd say that you're FWBJB Friends With Blow Job Benefits!

Or FWLB - Friends With Limited Benefits.

(The bj only thing actually seems a little strange. I like bj's but I like them as part of the whole package. A bj by itself is great as an occassional, pleasant surprise, but it's no substitute for the whole 9 yards.)
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 77
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 9:28:05 AM
Cripes, who cares? Free bj's? why complain?
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 78
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 10:21:12 AM it reciprocated? Do you take care of her as well???

I don't see why you need to label her as a slut or not..whatever you label her as, slap that on yourself as well.

I would talk to her..if you don't care enough to do that, I'd say forgo the bjs (yeah , right ,I know =) Serously..she may be doing this for approval or thinking it will cause you to want to start something more of a relationship. You really don't want to hurt someone by leading her on.'s just kinda creepy if she never wants anything back sexually? That's fine sometimes..but always..nah, that's off. I would definitely talk to her.
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 79
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 10:22:53 AM

Cripes, who cares? Free bj's? why complain?

Nothing is free and price often involves more than money. Most of the time, you'd be better off spending the money and avoiding hidden costs.
Joined: 4/13/2010
Msg: 80
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 11:50:28 AM

Ok, is there the male version of the BJ buddy? You know... a guy that just wants to go down on a woman with nothing in return

FarScape - yes.. that would be ME! Although I don't know how I'd ever get into a friendship like that, but I wouldn't mind it. I really love giving oral and as long as I liked the woman, I'd get down there any time I could.
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 82
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 2:00:21 PM
That does not sound much or any better than using a toy to please yourself Sounds sort of like a porn set run down. Or even perhaps "The hooker routine". Apperently, that's what many of them do, show up, get your $$$, wrap you, suck, try and get out of actual sex and then **** off! Call me old fashioned if you will, but I thought sex to be any fun should be somewhat open and without routine, sort of spontaneous. And ofcourse should include some intimacy.
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 83
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 4:01:36 PM
Being this is hypothetical....I doubt there are too many women who engage in this for long, for free.

Does this make your BJ friend a slut?

Which one are we talking about? him or her?
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 84
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 7:32:11 PM
Why would anyone want to give oral without receiving it as well?
To me I would wonder what was wrong with such a person.Why do
they want to get another person off yet not have that person get them
off as well?I have no problem with FWB and have in the past engaged in
a few of these relationships but never would I give to someone who did
not reciprocate.
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 85
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Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/13/2010 10:08:08 PM
Maybe she's just very frugal and see's it as a free source of protein. Off topic, but has anyone noticed that the screen has changed to where you have to scroll to read the posting....or is something wrong with my computer?
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 86
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/14/2010 4:58:09 AM
^^^^^^if this is the case...and I thought about that too...a protein diet....does this mean that because of the tough times in this economy, we might see more "blow job buddies" on the prowle for a free meal on a regular basis.

Meaning if us guys put out a profile that states we eat well on a regular basis, and that our cum has been certified clean and STD free, and if full of nutrients......and most important of all, we accept food stamps.

That we might get responces from potential "blow job buddies" ? (women of course)

As for seeing the recent change in the format of questions and having to scroll...yes...I see it to....and on another site I was on, this was an occasional glitch. But here....not so sure. A little while back you had to get on the forums from a different angle than originally, now this....maybe they just don't want to have the forum anymore and are trying to just get rid of us.
Joined: 8/23/2009
Msg: 87
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/14/2010 9:59:44 AM
I'm a fan of intimacy not physical gratification. I like the deep connection that comes with a relationship. I'd rather be alone than settle for less. It would be too shallow and it would not make me happy or satisfied, but that's just me. Don't get me wrong, I'm a huge fan of oral sex but with someone I love.

I guess if its something you are both comfortable what makes you happy. What do they say.........two consenting adults.
Joined: 4/24/2010
Msg: 88
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/15/2010 8:36:58 AM
i am one of these women that always gets off on givn blow jobs..sometimes i dnt want the guy touchn me or anything i can orgasm quite well by just seein the look on there face..
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 90
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/18/2010 12:33:18 AM

Why would anyone want to give oral without receiving it as well?
To me I would wonder what was wrong with such a person.Why do
they want to get another person off yet not have that person get them
off as well?

maybe,,,because they are not narcissistic elitist's who aren't so self-absorbed they don't mind making another person happy and ,,for the moment,,forgoing there own selfish ,superficial existence?

Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 91
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Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/18/2010 7:27:07 PM
yes but Jen, what a time Red, or any man for that matter could have with those magnificent puppies while so engaged, and if you can cum from that kind of stimulation its all guuuuud
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 92
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/18/2010 7:55:05 PM
I like reciprocity. I don't mind giving at all but I also enjoy receiving. I do try and live by the Golden Rule.
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 93
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/18/2010 8:08:22 PM
Jamie9562 no normal human being wants to only and always be
the one giving and never receiving in a relationship.Wanting to
receiving back from the person you love does not make one narcissistic,
an elitist or self absorbed.

A good and healthy relationship is defined by
both giving and receiving. For example you are there for your
significant other in a tough situation,rightfully so.
You comfort them,coddle them,make them feel safe and loved,and
you do this because you love them.Now something happens
where you are in need of your partners love and compassion,
for example your father dies,and instead of comforting you,holding
you and just being there for you your partner tells you to suck it up
and goes on a vacation with their friends.This example is not a
relationship in which there is giving and receiving.

Giving and receiving needs to be in all areas of your relationship,
including sexually, or your relationship will eventually die.While giving
to those we love is a wonderful feeling if it is never reciprocated resentment
builds.Anyone who would put up with always being the giver in the relationship
has something mentally wrong with them.You need to give love to get love.

I am truly sorry you have never experienced a healthy,thriving and
loving relationship.I truly wish in your future that you can find that.
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 94
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/18/2010 9:09:25 PM
Dawn don't be intentionally thick.It does not look good on you.
You can see very well that I am responding to another posters rant
towards me.I know you already understand this but you have this need
to follow me on many different threads and single me out for whatever
reasons you have.

This is the last time I will be responding to you on any thread.
Joined: 11/30/2009
Msg: 95
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/18/2010 9:31:12 PM

OP: Apart from a fairly normal friendship, you engage in receptive oral sex with her without reciprocation… What kind of relationship is that?

It’s a fairly normal friendship, with non-reciprocal oral sex.
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 96
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/19/2010 8:56:29 AM
Why try to define what consenting adults do in private? If they are happy, more power to them.
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 97
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/21/2010 11:12:17 AM
ooooh, i just LOVE a good blowjob BUDDY!

With a screen name like cum guzzler,
I have to assume you love giving them too!

Nothing is free and price often involves more than money.
Most of the time, you'd be better off spending
the money and avoiding hidden costs.

Or just jerking off!~

Yeah...we woman can be so unreasonable for no reason!~ lol
Listen....if you just want head...least you can do is pay for it
instead of taking it and then talking sh*t about the giver afterwards.

Where are all the guys that are happy to get
down on thier knees to please without
asking for anything in return? lol

I love those SLUTS! lol
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 98
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 5/21/2010 11:57:22 AM
LOL.....good for you draw the line at women, is my only question.
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 99
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Blowjob buddy
Posted: 6/2/2010 1:07:42 AM
Is there a male equivalent? Guys who will just give oral sex to a woman and not need anything else?
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 100
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 6/2/2010 2:11:01 AM

Is there a male equivalent? Guys who will just give oral sex to a woman and not need anything else?

Yeah,! I don't care too much for getting bj's but love giving oral! I do still like oral attention once in awhile though...just not to completion!
Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 101
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 6/2/2010 11:13:11 AM

Is there a male equivalent? Guys who will just give oral sex to a woman and not need anything else?

Yes I think it is call a husband
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 102
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 6/2/2010 12:28:03 PM
^^^ Not in my dictionary... there is one poster sounding much better these days though.
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