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 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 51
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Eschec mat :


Geez, why is it wrong for her and her friends not to enjoy it?

Its not, but it IS wrong to say NO woman likes it or that anyone who says they do are lying.


Crap does happen and one chance in hell is too many.

All of life is a risk. Eating, driving, having sex. Those who want to enjoy life still take the risk, but are smart and careful about it.


Perhaps they have tried and said, to hell with getting crap on your**** it is gross.

I've been doing it for over 20 yrs in a few LTRs and have never had a messy incident, and never had to 'prep' any woman. But even if it did happen, oh well, thats what soap and showers are for. Sex is supposed to be a little dirty with lots of bodily fluids if its done right!


I like for it to go in the hole it is meant to go in where the actual nerves are that cause the orgasms.

So I guess no oral for your man? And what about women who like clitoral play? I've heard there are orgasmic nerves there and they dont get much from penetration.


Yeah, the only nerves that can cause a reaction in the bung hole are really high up the poop shoot.

So you are a human physiologist? The anus has TONS of nerves, and the Gspot can be reached anally as well and its not 'high up.'


Not every man enjoys blow jobs, not every woman enjoys oral, every one is different. It doesn't make them wrong or you wrong.

Yes, you are correct. But just because you dont like it doesnt mean you should try to scare others to agree with you.


... can tell you horror stories about older people in hospitals.

So, all these old people with incontinance problems - you've asked them all how much anal sex they've had? You've got a study that links anal sex to problems later in life? Older women seem to have bladder control problems. Does that come from too much vaginal sex? Or maybe they engaged in pee-hole sex?
 DinosaursEatLettuce
Joined: 3/31/2009
Msg: 52
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 2:52:07 PM
I, personally, am not a fan but I have a lot of female friends that swear by it. They can't get enough of it.
 Yankee_Girl
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 53
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No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 3:33:00 PM

But she believes the women on here who claim they enjoy anal sex and said something like, "There are people who are into pain and humiliation, so sure, i believe they like it." I tried to explain to her that there were women who were NOT into pain and humiliation that liked it, and she shook her head and then her phone rang. Oh well...I tried!


I have never found anal sex to be painful or humiliating. I happen to like it. If you find it to be painful and humiliating, it's either not for you (which is a perfectly valid reason not to do it) or you're doing it wrong.

If your friend and her friends, which I seriously doubt represent an accurate cross section of all women, don't like it, that's fine. I bet some of the like something I don't like.

As far as it being "dangerous", since I've never been in a gay bar full of men with colostomy bags, I'm willing to take my chances.

The world would be a boring place if we all ate the same flavor of ice cream.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/1/2009 4:39:42 PM

Okay Jaqi, you care to enlighten us on how to properly prepare the female so she will find pleasure in it?


OMG if I was to tell you that on here it would probably open up a whole new thread and heaven forbid what pretaporter would think of me then


I already posted it on one of the other thousands of anal threads here.
 eschec mat
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 55
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 5:11:57 PM

So you are a human physiologist? The anus has TONS of nerves, and the Gspot can be reached anally as well and its not 'high up.'

Not every man enjoys blow jobs, not every woman enjoys oral, every one is different. It doesn't make them wrong or you wrong.

Yes, you are correct. But just because you dont like it doesnt mean you should try to scare others to agree with you.

The area that contracts is pretty high up, google it. There is a thread about anal on here that I am pretty sure already has the description about how the anus operates with its pushing out.

No, the G spot is located toward the front of the woman, not toward the anus the other side of the vagina. It is not located in the same place in every woman. Perhaps some women have something inserted in their vaginas that contact the G spot when they have something in their butt. I couldn't tell you. I am not them.

I'm stating facts, scare people into agreeing with me, no but know that many won't post they aren't into it. I won't stop telling people what can and does happen. I know and have seen and read about it. These are facts not myths. If you think my bringing up anal sex can cause problems and will scare your butt f^cks off, that is truly funny. I will also leave it up to someone else to bring up how easy it is to contract STD's etc. if you aren't protected. Not to mention all the bacteria contained in poop, I love to get hot and dirty with my man, but not with crap. The other areas don't contain bacteria. And honey, I'm sure not going to let you know what goes on in our bedroom, none of your business, but I know most people couldn't keep up, put up, and deal with real sex as it was done by those that practiced Kama Sutra of Vatsayana. Yes it seems on POF too much porno is watched, too little imagination is used and too many toys.

I know men that have sex with women that have small vaginas and never ask about another opening. Of course some men have awfully small penises and I guess they have problems finding a tight fit no matter what they do.

And Kathy you are right, some women do enjoy it and some women don't have problems. His friend is exaggerating because she is probably young. I can only speak of what I know.
 Uncle Fist
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 56
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 5:46:40 PM
It's admirable to want to educate people on potential risks. But just because something can and does happen at times does not mean it is the majority outcome. And to continue pushing as if that is the case is misleading. It's on par with proclaiming that marijuana is a gateway drug that ultimately leads people down a path of crack and heroin fuled self destruction. Yes, this certainly can happen. But it does not happen to most people.

In threads like these, it always seems to be the people that do not partake who act as the experts and are eager to share what they've "seen" and "read." But the experience of the people that endulge often seems to conflict not with the nature of the information but with the frequency at which it occurs.
 eschec mat
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 57
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Posted: 5/1/2009 5:55:44 PM
^^^^would it be better if I clearly state what I experienced, what I live with, what I have felt? Guess you would say this is a pretty darn good reason why I know about it and found out more information. I have never said just what I saw and what I read. I think I said been there done that and have the bloody tee shirt.
 VikingMistress
Joined: 1/29/2009
Msg: 58
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:11:07 PM
I like anal if I am inebriated. Not so much sober, though. I also had a bad experience with it one time.

But I won't let that stop me. I just tend to have a lot of stomach problems so I can't really do anal often
 SweetSmartNSassy2
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 59
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:16:54 PM
Anal isn't for me; tried it once, never again! My butt is one-way only.

I'm sure there are lots of women out there who enjoy it. Different strokes for different folks!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 60
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:28:48 PM
Your female friend is wrong. The women I've been with who wanted anal sex wanted it or else I would have never done it. To me, it doesn't matter either way, so it's not something I'd ask a woman to do for my benefit.
 ilovetoshop
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 61
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 10:51:57 PM
personally ..i think its gross...
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 62
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/1/2009 11:35:07 PM

Anal isn't for me; tried it once, never again! My butt is one-way only.

Well that's one way of putting it.

I've never been there myself and haven't really had a lover who wanted to. I have friends who love it and some who don't. I've heard a lot of repair surgery stories and am not sure I want to, butt (pun intended) to each their own.
 Some random name
Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 63
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 12:42:09 AM
Actually have dated a few who did love it and asked for it.One in particular actually prefered it. From my point, it doesnt do a whole lot for me and wont ask to do it.....guess I will on request
 1984,loveis
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 64
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 12:46:03 AM
love to have my chicks held but not sex it sucks it is not real and it is phony unrealistic some what ...I WOULD try anything but not...
 AnglFlynToCloseToGround
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 65
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 7:18:16 AM
A Nice that works in a hospital taking x-rays and she says that she has seem a lot of ppl that have had to get repair surgery for doing anal sex ...

It makes my b*tt hurt just thinking about it ... ...


AnglFlyn
 ilovetoshop
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 66
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:28:32 AM
most of my male friends thinks ass****..is gr8!!!for me its gross but im willing to try 1 day .....hahaha

SHUD I ....??TELL ME...
 MaybeSquirrel
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 67
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:50:02 AM
If I ever get a tatoo, it's gonna be one of those REALLY cool ass tats....

EXIT ONLY

And believe me, it's been tried. I just don't prefer it.
I'm so thankful for free choice!!

That said, I have a sister that loves it and I don't judge her or
anyone else that does enjoy this form of sexual play.
To each his own. You don't force your beliefs or preferences
on me, and I won't force mine on you!
 jaqi
Joined: 2/2/2008
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Posted: 5/2/2009 9:38:53 AM

I already posted it on one of the other thousands of anal threads here


I would be interested to find out if it is the same way I do ?
 Peter1110
Joined: 4/6/2009
Msg: 69
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 10:39:32 AM
Yes they do...

they enjoy the feeling of full filling their Lovers Sexual needs
-that's what make it happy...think about it.

...Love Hurts
 majiczone
Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 70
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 2:46:29 PM
[Control FREAKS...tend to draw lines closer to the 'VIRGIN' side of things than some of us.To each thier own HANG UPS! ]

very well said
 Adderall_Junky
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 71
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 4:24:33 PM
Thats gross.. I have never done it and do not plan on it!
 IllinoisBrunette
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 72
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 4:58:17 PM
My thoughts are.... she might not like for one of a few reasons... or maybe all...

a) she is an exit only kind of girl
b) she is too chicken to try it
c) she has tried and the guy wasn't...well...gentle
d) or she is speaking for a whole lotta people she shouldn't be

lemme guess she doesn't like giving head either and she has a not even half-ass argument for that too and oh yeah porn perpetuates that too...and she just isn't that desperate...

There are women out there that thoroughly enjoy it, aren't desperate, nor are they in the porn industry. It sounds like a cold fish chick to keep as a"female friend" if you ask me ESPECIALLY if you approached the conversation hoping she'd let you in her back door.
 kalllz12
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 73
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:08:01 PM
yea they do enjoy it
 privat33r
Joined: 2/8/2009
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Posted: 5/2/2009 8:22:33 PM
Now no one tell -- but anal sex isn't my fave, but its a key part of how many women experience sex now..
A few hears back my babe who was a bit of a lez complained aloud to her girlfriends how I'd not got the point of the order, "hey its a least three fingers to start".
A female friend shook her head in quiet dismay after I admitted I drove home when a friend of ours suggested this twice when I was tired.
My long term from last year was adamant that regular sex was okay, she only needed the other when she wanted a quick orgasm.
I don't think we're in Kansas anymore Toto.
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 5/2/2009 9:40:07 PM

I was talking with a female friend of mine today, and we got on to this subject. She has insisted for a long time that the vast majority of women really do not care for anal sex

Your friend sounds anal-retentive
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