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 FatallyWandering
Joined: 4/20/2009
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Use what you got for what you got and work it!

I totally agree. Great advice!!!
 ilovetoshop
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 77
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 6:48:01 AM
my answer to this dude above me ^^^^^^..i wont ever use ass**** to trap a guy ...
 erica05
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 78
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 8:35:49 AM
i think it is freakin gross!! Never have never will! Thats me though. As for other girls obviously just reading this post there are some who like it, or at least tried it. Why the heck would anyone like it?? IDK. leave anal for gay guys. I wouldnt even try it once.
 Trishinwi2009
Joined: 2/24/2009
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No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 10:47:18 AM
I do not work in the adult industry, I'm not desperate to get a man in my life (I'm openly dating without commitment), I don't lie, and I've done it....so here is my take on this subject:

It can be a very erotic experience with the RIGHT individual, and a real woman (not a desperate one) is going to do things to make her man happy...

Not something I wanna do every day - but not unenjoyable either...but then again I'm not an anal retentive, narrow minded individual either.
 Uncle Fist
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 80
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 5:02:59 PM

^^^^would it be better if I clearly state what I experienced, what I live with, what I have felt? Guess you would say this is a pretty darn good reason why I know about it and found out more information. I have never said just what I saw and what I read. I think I said been there done that and have the bloody tee shirt.


That's entirely up to you how much you choose to disclose about your personal life, and I would obviously not advise sharing anything you are not comfortable with. But as with anything, first had accounts do add credibility to an argument.

It's up to you.
 eschec mat
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 81
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 5:19:00 PM
Jeepers, check the bend over thread. My first fiance, rip, even explored having items put in him...ewww...yeah, tmi I know. I'm not 19 any more. I'm not a virgin. I'm not sweet and innocent. Oh heck, I was even married for about 19 years. I try not to speak of those things I do not know.
 613jewel
Joined: 2/18/2009
Msg: 82
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 7:17:46 PM
I am not a porn star.
I am not desperate to get a man in my life or willing to lie about it.

What I believe about anal sex:
1. It is a highly erotic dance with you and your partners soul
2. This is an area that most women should try before they judge it.
3. With the right person, it is magical.
 *Sassy Redhead*
Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 83
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/3/2009 8:55:13 PM
I don't think that your friend is entirely right. I have only had one guy in my life that I have enjoyed having anal sex with because he was gentle and caring when penetrating me. He was able to get me to relax based on his interactions with me while doing that. He is the only one I have enjoyed that experience with. I can assure you that I'm not a porn star and not desperate to have him in my life ao I'm not lying about it.
 lil-tall-rascal
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 84
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 9:26:52 AM
Ok I'm just curious the woman who said that anal is just gross has photos of her ass. Now wait a second think about it don't you think there is something primal in our nature that prompts us to get stimulated by looking at someones ass? Yes there are men out there who are just as uncouth in their sexual acts as they are in their everyday lives. Forcing anything upon anyone is evasive and can hurt but the right stimulation and gentleness can be extreemly stimulating. I guess some people haven't had their basic anatomy lessons but the perenium seperates the front and back "sexual" organs and even a man can be stimulated in having a more intense orgasm if a finger is inserted into his rectum just before orgasm by the woman if she does it right so why wouldn't someone believe that women couldn't have more intense orgasms with anal sex. Those who don't try it are in my opinon extreemly introverted and are hindered by their own lack of imagionation and are not yet comfortable in their own bodies.
 druminky
Joined: 4/9/2008
Msg: 85
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:49:16 AM
Alas, my friend will have nothing more to do with this thread, but I sure am learning a lot. Anal sex is not too different than other acts, I suppose - there are women who hate oral as well. To each their own.
It wasn't that long ago that people thought oral sex was perverted and disgusting. It just wasn't done.
There is a reason they say to steer clear of three topics in conversation: religion, politics, and sex.....because those conversations go downhill rapidly, and people rarely change their minds about those subjects because someone else thinks they should. I ran into the same thing with my friend = she hasn't changed her position, despite what she read here.
 blowmydoorsoff
Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 86
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:58:10 AM
She's outta her frecking mind, to put it bluntly. Not that Im hardcore into anal, but have known a few women who liked it, they liked it alot. So next time she starts running her head, about the likes and dislikes of all womenkind. Do us all a favor and tell her to stfu, lol.
 curiousnow247
Joined: 4/9/2009
Msg: 87
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 7:01:33 PM
as if...i love it cant get enough cant get it hard enough my partner of seven years prefers ****in my **** i love either but i want anal more than he wants to give it ....thats why i have a vibrater and yes it does hurt if he goes jammin it in there if he does it slowly and the women relaxes it doesnt take long than you will be screamin 4 it to be harder trust me i used to hate it now ohhhhhhhhhhhhh i want it now lol
 dannyebreeze
Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 88
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 7:50:51 PM
she sounds really anal to me haahah
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
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No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 8:31:07 PM
many seem to enjoy it. Hope a real big, hard, strong fvcker doesn't wreck your rectum in his urge to ejaculate. Shite happens, it's all fun until you have to call 911. I don't fvck azz, cause I don't want shite to happen.
 mlt71
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 90
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/5/2009 6:48:29 AM
No woman really enjoys anal sex.
That's a lie

I was talking to a woman
about sex
she wants to do anal
and lick my ass
I didn't even ask
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
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No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/5/2009 9:45:53 AM
Boy, you sure wouldn't know it from the number of posts I've read-! A lot of women are certainly "curious" about it, if they haven't already done it-! And a lot of women think it feels fantastic. The general consensus, from what I've read, is that the anus has to be entered softly, with LOTS of lube, to get it loosened up. Can't just JAM it in there.

Anal isn't for every woman. The anus is tighter than the vay jay, doesn't lubricate itself, like the vay jay, and it "hurts" a lot of women to have something long and hard put in there. Then again, some women ENJOY pain, so to each their own-!

Anal isn't my first choice, but if traditional vay jay sex has lost its fizzle (for both of us) and she wants to try something different, I'll definitely "get into" her anus!
 jaqi
Joined: 2/2/2008
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Posted: 5/5/2009 10:46:26 AM

The anus is tighter than the vay jay, doesn't lubricate itself, like the vay jay, and it "hurts" a lot of women to have something long and hard put in there. Then again, some women ENJOY pain, so to each their own-!


Not being a woman... and guessing you haven't had it done to you... I don't think you qualify to make that statement! To those women who are experienced in this act then it is very pleasurable and not at all painful....and for some there is no need for KY ... a little saliva is sufficient.
 blowmydoorsoff
Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 93
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Posted: 5/5/2009 12:29:38 PM
Is it hot in here, or iz it all these smoking hotties in this thread ? Its ridiculous. Ummmm thatz all I wanted to say, lol.

Oh yeah I meant to amend my last post here, it was kinda harsh, but I waz in a bad mood when I posted it. So dont tell your lady friend to stfu, tell her to sthu, its a much nicer way to tell someone to shut it.
 1inAJ
Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 94
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/6/2009 12:21:44 PM
Everone has their own ideas about what feels good and what is proper with sex just like everything else and no amount of convincing is going to change anyone's mind.

One of the first ladies I tried it with thought it was too nasty yet she enjoyed a good fingering whenever I was having kippered snacks. One day she decided to try it out. We did everything right and she climaxed violently. Then she began to cry and wanted me to leave. ??? Next day I went over to see what was wrong. Turns out despite being married for 7yrs she had never had a orgasm that strong before and she just didn't know how to handle it.

As closer2you said -
"Between the intensity of nerve endings in an anus...added to the intensity of clit stimulation created by my own fingers...,and the feeling that it's a little "taboo" to like it up the A$$, and the sense of surrender to a man who controls your pain/pleasure threshold..and the TRUST factor..and VIOLA...

IN- TENSE!"

For me that pretty much sums it up!
 RAWRRR
Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 95
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/8/2009 4:39:39 AM
She is clueless or isn't talking to girls that like to experiment then.
I've been with girls that don't LOVE it but like it enough to do it occasionally and its not just to satisfy me since on a few occasions it has been the womans idea.
 unique30s_couple
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 96
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/8/2009 5:39:07 AM
Perhaps everyones missing a simple idea.... and it's that different people like different things (not such a novel idea??). Many people are incapable of comprehending the simple fact that just because they dont enjoy something, others can. Modern people need to spend a little more time listening to and learning about people outside of their lbubble before speaking on behalf of "all women" or "all men". Has empathy vanished from our dictionaries permanently? Most opinionated comments in here sure seem to follow the "me me me" theme.
 MissSweetie4u
Joined: 5/5/2009
Msg: 97
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/8/2009 9:44:20 PM
Your friend is amusing and has no clue about what she speaks of.

Personally, I do enjoy anal when in a relationship occasionally and it's not painful if a guy is on the correct angle and lubbed up before entering my backside. For me I'm controlling a partner's pleasure, which is enjoyable.
 camaro396
Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 98
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:21:12 AM
I met a woman that lived in Birmuingham, she had a jar of vasoline uder her bed and loved anal sex. She was very popular well known in the neighborhood.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 99
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:06:45 AM
SHE actually doesn't have a clue about women.

Just like every other thing on the planet, some women love it and some hate it. Anyone who decides that they speak for an entire gender has a few screws loose anyway.
 NickKingsbury
Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 100
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:47:22 AM
That's PURE nonsense!

The ONLY way you could get ripped REGARDLESS OF THE SIZE OF THE GUY is if it was done improperly. The average woman can have bowel movements larger than most men's penis.

AND...even if you did rip...it's called stitches...NOT an ostomy bag.

Please don't tell me you're a nurse. If you are, you should know better.
I was a P.A. for almost 10 years in internal medicine.
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