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 beachdancer
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 209
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?Page 7 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)

I pay no attention to the roses. Seeing that someone has used all their roses is a pretty flimsy excuse to not contact someone. Some people have made assumptions on why someone sent one or all of them. Who cares? I have received some digital gifts. It's nice that they took the time to hit a couple extra buttons but that's about it. Mostly I've received them as a thank you for writing.

I do admit to looking at how many favorites are listed and I'm guilty of making assumptions if it's a high number but it doesn't stop me from contacting them if I wish to. One man in my age range has 305 people who have him on their favorites. I have to admit that it makes me wonder on how very particular he must be. But then again, he has nothing to do with who chooses him to put on their favorite lists. And I did write to him.
*starstuff* who is apparently not on this site anymore

Roses, favorites. How can you know why they send them? Maybe he or she knows someone struggling with and illness and sends them to that person every day. Maybe we should judge the person who never sends roses. Same for favorites, most people I know of with a large favorites number, play on the forums, "meeting" people from all over and liking what they said on one forum or another. As I have said before, my favorites list has as many women as men on it. Mainly I want to know who the person is, can they articulate who they are and are they who they say they are. I don't even look or notice roses or favorites.
 thecheekychick
Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 210
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 9/11/2010 12:26:41 AM
hahaha... if a guy sends out e-roses it means he is a tool and you should not contact him!
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 211
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 9/11/2010 11:04:38 PM
is sending out electronic jpg of roses the new standard for player ?

weee ha
 RealisticRomantic
Joined: 7/19/2010
Msg: 212
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 9/12/2010 4:27:03 AM
This is only an issue for those who wish to continue justifying being alone in their divine splendor. Roses are only significant to frigid old bags who send them to each other. Anybody of any worth doesn't care.
 readthedamnprofile
Joined: 5/5/2010
Msg: 213
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 9/12/2010 4:50:26 AM
I never even check that. I also have no idea if anyone has added me to their favorites and I add no one to my favorites because it reeks of either cyber stalking or, junior high popularity contests.

If someone likes you they will find a way to express that in the real world.
 starofgaia
Joined: 4/11/2012
Msg: 214
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 3:24:22 AM

For some reason whenever I view someone's profile and I notice that they've sent out all of their roses, I hesitate to contact the person. I'm not quite sure why, I guess it makes me feel like they've got their heart set on someone else. After all, sending out an electronic rose is kind of a BIG DEAL


No - it means they either "accidentally" dispatched one ...or it means they worked a little extra harder at grabbing that person's attention. I tend to stay away from these profiles.


Does the rose thing make any difference to you?


Yes. It does. On the other hand, what somebody sends to somebody else in this medium should remain private. There is some PoF "logic" behind it - I guess. :/
 katty1981
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 215
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 6:07:12 AM
omg! is this thread a joke? wtf
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 216
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 8:06:27 AM
Dear God, 3 year old thread...but hey, I'll respond to this one.
I'll respond with....>WHO GIVE A &^#)! ???
 excessivemayhem
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 217
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 3:47:39 PM
i agree with capn_america. who gives a crap about roses? a serious conversation with the other person telling them that you actuall LIKE them beats sending electronic roses any day of the week
 Meems919
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 218
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 6:39:59 PM
what a waste of typing
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 219
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 6:47:33 PM
I dont know what they are or the meaning of them is.
I dont think many people are aware of that feature?
Doesn't matter to me
 Confuzzled4ever
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 220
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 7:07:14 PM
What's a rose?? LOL
 Ocee
Joined: 3/5/2012
Msg: 221
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Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/16/2012 10:06:38 PM
It's seems a bit like going into a bar and complaining about people drinking.


I'm a bit unsure why someone looking that hard for reasons not to talk to people

would bother with a dating site at all.
 briargate
Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 222
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/17/2012 7:36:16 AM
This whole thread is a good example of why I don't actually use this site to meet women to date.


Electronic roses?


HUH?

I have seen them, but I didn't even know what they were for. I assumed they were some stupid thing like winking or what have you.
 SONNI100
Joined: 12/24/2010
Msg: 223
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 4/17/2012 9:47:35 AM
Are we really talking about this?? Okay, I'll bite.....thread should have been deleted.
 1Petite4u
Joined: 2/8/2012
Msg: 224
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 6/16/2012 5:08:42 AM
When I receive a virtual rose it's always from someone who shows a lot more interest than most of the others I'm communicating with. So I figure two roses gone? His attention span for the month is already being spent elsewhere. Pass.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 225
Yup.
Posted: 6/16/2012 11:12:07 PM
I never even look. Who cares. They don't really mean anything. Ivevreveived them with messages that just say hello
 Debyduz_
Joined: 5/4/2012
Msg: 226
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 6/17/2012 9:49:53 AM
I do not value cyber roses or point gifts in any way. They are not real. I think it is freaky that people are putting a value of something that is not real.
 newstart1949
Joined: 6/16/2010
Msg: 227
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Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/11/2012 10:25:13 AM
its kind of a weird issue....

it turn me off if someone send me a rose too quickly, and I would probably be telling them to Slow Down...

So I guess that means the virual rose means something in my book....

Thus if a man or woman has no roses left to say be mine...Wouldn't that kind of mean that they are either playing around willy nilly or are so desperate they are giving them to everyone they talk to.

I would say that yes it would bug me that I had someone talking to me who had no roses in their account, especially someone that says they are not daing right now....
 Serephena
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 228
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/11/2012 11:32:53 AM
Initially not a big deal if they sent out all their roses. Now, if we had been talking, and or dating and I notice a rose is gone and he didn't send it to me, now THAT would be a problem.
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 230
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/12/2012 8:52:36 AM
I think I sent out one rose. The woman was rather put off "why do you think I'd want a virtual, cyber rose"?

There is a weird cheese factor that seems odd. Sending a cyber rose is a few steps below getting a spray painted one from a vendor in a night club.

I think I'll save my rose giving for actual human beings.
 1fishinabigC
Joined: 3/23/2010
Msg: 231
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/13/2012 6:41:58 PM
Roses, we don't need no stinkin' roses! Seriously though, I didn't even know I had any to send. Never paid any attention to it.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 232
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/13/2012 6:51:27 PM
So that explains it. I have these imaginary scratches on my arms and hands and I had no idea where they came from. It's from the imaginary roses I've been hanging onto. I better send them to my imaginary girlfriend.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 233
Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/13/2012 7:15:13 PM
So if you send out 2 roses and have none left, is there any way to get more?
 newstart1949
Joined: 6/16/2010
Msg: 234
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Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left?
Posted: 8/14/2012 8:32:39 AM
the roses refresh every 30 days....

Interesting one person had of putting it to me....

If they not committed to you yet then its like a Valentine's party in grade school.

Yet if they been telling you different, or trying make you think they the only one they talking to...It might be a question one would want to bring up....
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