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 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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I once got into a real big verbal broo ha ha with this one woman..... we were in the process of getting to know each other, and I didn't know she was hard of hearing.

I asked her if she was into fishing.............. well I got slapped in the face!!! She was all flustered, shocked, huffing and puffing.... and stormed out of the coffee shop where we were.

I guess she misunderstood me huh.



I think I just pissed my pants laughing!!!
 swtcarolinej
Joined: 11/11/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 9:02:50 PM
Straight-Up said it best..took the words right out of my mouth....Ive said things on these forums that they have kicked me off for.... how does some of this stuff get through???wondering..or "Just saying"
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 5/9/2009 5:57:33 AM

First of all, it is beyond my comprehension how any woman would get pleasure out of having a fist placed or should i say (jammed) into her twat

Well, StraightUp & SwtCaroline, I think its about time you expanded your comprehension! Surely you can understand that women like having something inside of them, getting that 'full' feeling. Some even like something in (gasp!) both holes to feel extra 'full'. And some like a fist inserted, after some careful practice of course.

As far as being 'less tight' - you do understand that the vagina was MADE to stretch right? A babies head is much bigger than a fist and after recovery it goes back to normal. Unless you think every woman that gave birth is now permanently 'less tight'...?

Maybe there should be a Vanilla Sex Forum where the horrified masses can talk about missionary sex and maybe having oral after being married. And this forum could be for open-minded folk who say "To each their own" and keep in mind that while something doesnt get off everyone, everthing will get off someone.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:22:00 AM

it is beyond my comprehension how any woman would get pleasure out of having a fist placed or should i say (jammed) into her twat.

And you should have stopped after comprehension. I don't offend easily.. but that one word (twat.. gah, I need to go wash my hands now) pretty much does it for me. *rolls eyes*

As has been pointed out already.. the vagina is a muscle.. it's been designed to stretch and *bounce back*.. altho that will depend on many factors. Genetics, muscle tone (Kegels people, Kegels!!), time..
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/9/2009 8:56:52 AM
There are many things that trigger the release of hormones that assist in fisting as well as many other things. Since you have no abillity to conceptualize the pleasure that the people that do this feel, and since you have no desire to attempt or participate in this.. why don't you stop lecturing everyone on how stretched out and abused their bodies are going to be. How do you know you wouldn't enjoy it if you've never tried it?? How do you know you wouldn't orgasm like mad? Seriously? Did you like food or exercise the first time you tried them? One of the main attractions to doing this, or so I've been told, is the sensation of feeling full.. not to mention that the knuckles are in position to stimulate the g-spot with a simple side to side motion. Imagine having that intense a stimulation right exactly where you want it most?

Fisting isn't just a sexual act. Keep in mind there's a level of intimacy and trust that goes into this. Because it's not as simple as penis-in-vagina sex, it takes time and lots and lots of communication to accomplish. Not really something that can be done in under 10 min. Not something you'd WANT to be done in under 10 min!!

If you can't be open minded enough to recognize that some people enjoy this and want it, perhaps you have made your last post here on the topic and would like to take your attention elsewhere. No one said you need to accept or want it. We get it. You don't understand the concept and have no desire to participate. *pat pat pat* Go away now so those who ARE interested can learn a few things.
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 63
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Posted: 5/9/2009 9:16:08 AM
Exactly right no_1_bby! I hate how people say "I would never enjoy that" when they havent ever tried it. And if they are too scared to try, thats fine, but dont lecture everyone on how impossible it is for anyone to cum from a certain act.


I would love to see a man insert his penis in a vagina directly after having a fist slide in and out

StraightUp - OK, yes, you are probably right - immediately after fisting the vagina will probably be stretched as to make PiV sex less stimulating. But... are you aware that there are OTHER forms of sex that do not include PiV??? It might be a shock to you that people can get off in other ways. Maybe they did PiV first where he came and then they went into fisting. Or maybe she blew him or they had anal sex? Maybe he got a hand job? Or maybe this fisting scene was just for her?? If she's enjoying it and cuming 3, 4 or 5 times, she might be too exhausted for anything else. Sex doesnt always have to lead to orgasm for both parties you know...

Open your mind a little... Geez...
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 5/9/2009 9:54:08 AM
OMG...For anyone who's overlooked this video that TruthinessIncorporate posted you just have to see it...it makes getting fisted a walk in the park compared to this


In case anyone was looking for the video in question...

http://www.uselessjunk.com/article_full.php?id=13359
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 5/9/2009 11:13:35 AM
OMG

I think....I think I'm scarred...forever...I couldn't get past the first 10 seconds..
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 5/9/2009 11:49:16 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^

Azalea!!!!!

Stop now...don't feed the kinky trolls. And be careful or whatshername will be back and allllllll over you......
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/9/2009 3:10:06 PM
Attention please: I anticipate (did not say participate) on taking myself and my tight little tunnel to funnel a beer at an anti-fisting party in order to cope with the decreased ability or lack of motivation to conceptualize others fisting fantasy. Other things i have difficulty conceptualizing are: those that enjoy urinating in and/or on eachother, child pornography, beastiality, STD sharing gang bangs, transsexual sex, and torture for pleasure. I'm sure you are open to this as well and should a post emerge about it, would be eager to try. Just don't try to hard to be liked now. I think i will pop a little Dixie Chicks into the CD player.....wide open spaces.
Sincerely yours,
Keepin it real, and real tight

Yup. Figured. If you look around the forums you will notice that I'm kind of vocal on lots of things.... those topics included. You have rather solid preconceptions about those things.. and are totally entitled to them. Too bad you aren't interested in educating yourself more on them. It truly is fascinating what you can learn if you are open to it.

As far as me trying too hard to be liked. I don't need to. I'm in a relationship and here mainly for the forums. Most like me 'cause I'm non-judgemental. That doesn't mean I agree with 100% of everything I come across.. but I've adopted a "whatever floats your boat" mentality. I don't agree with or accept child porn/pedophilia or beastiality. Let's just get that straight. What two consenting adults do in the privacy of thier bedroom is totally up to them. I know a few transexuals.. I know people into just about everything you mentioned (the exceptions being kids and animals).. and many more things you didn't.

For the record... in case you missed reading it in my previous posts.. I've never been fisted. My current won't do it as 1) I'm not interested in it (there's other things I wanna do instead.. like well.. you wouldn't like it if I said it) and 2) I'm too tight/small to take his ham hock fists.


*decides not to mention anal fisting*

I might have beaten you to that point.. If I didn't mention it.. I'm sure I was thinking it.


BTW.. that video of the guy and the head insertion.. I'm pretty sure it's a fake. She'd have to not have a pubic bone for him to insert himself on the angle and at the height on her genetalia that he does. I wasn't able to find any concrete source for my theory tho... and there were plenty of comments that said basically the same thing.
 sassy_grneyes
Joined: 6/12/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 5/10/2009 1:46:38 PM
I'd check out some forums on some of the bdsm sites,they should have some answers there.You just need to go very slow,it may not even happen the first time you try it.Latex gloves and lots and lots of lube.
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 73
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Posted: 5/10/2009 3:51:31 PM
Thank you LesYeuxBleues... Its nice to hear from someone who says its not for them, but is not judging others nor disbelieving that others can find something pleasurable. But don't completely close your mind to it... you never know!

Personally I have never done it, nor tried to with anyone, but I'd love to try anything that a woman is interested in.
 Joeld49
Joined: 8/12/2005
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Posted: 5/10/2009 5:08:48 PM
no_1_bby (Msg 87):

...... BTW.. that video of the guy and the head insertion.. I'm pretty sure it's a fake. She'd have to not have a pubic bone for him to insert himself on the angle and at the height on her genetalia that he does......


I don't agree. I think if the man were a Republican his head would be small enough to fit.
 *topchef*
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 77
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Posted: 5/10/2009 5:39:38 PM
I think it is encouraging to see someone of a mature age exploring their fantasies and trying new things. Dont give up on the dream OP.

As for the few noted here who fail to understand or appreciate the sexual smorgasbord, make sure you amend your interests in your profiles to specify lights out, missionary sex only. You wouldnt want to attract any deviants.
 Freeak
Joined: 3/13/2009
Msg: 78
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Posted: 5/10/2009 5:55:29 PM
I have actually fisted a few women and I don't do it for my pleasure! And whoever this woman is that says pedophiles written all over them is just very closed minded who probably doesn't own a sex toy. I have fisted two women who have never done it before and they absolutely loved it. I am very well endowed so they obviously appreciate size. In advice to the posting fantasy I would listen to the advice you were given. Take it slow, don't force it, and if it hurts stop. And don't make it the first thing you do either! Orally serve her, penetrate with your penis first and try to bring her to orgasm. That fills her up with naturaul lubrication already.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/10/2009 8:05:52 PM
SUO.. I doubt I would bat a single eyelash at what you have in your toybox. Mine on the other hand might make you run.

For those of you who watched the clip Truth posted.. here's the full length one... I found it while doing.. um.. research tonight.. yeah..that's it.. research.. http://www.efukt.com/1638_Biggest_****_Ever_.html ... and in case the censor gets it.. the starred out word is p*ssy...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 5/11/2009 6:22:33 AM
StraightUp - OK, yes, you are probably right - immediately after fisting the vagina will probably be stretched as to make PiV sex less stimulating. But... are you aware that there are OTHER forms of sex that do not include PiV??


as i explained my experience with fisting ....I had PiV sex immediately after the fisting and this woman was tight tighter than many that I have had

so i decided to talk to a woman who i know who is into this ...and she explained something that really hadn't occurred to me ...she said that the vagina is a muscle and fisting and stretching as well as kegals and any other exercise as with any muscle will actually make it more elastic and therefore tighter ... this makes sense to me .... so there goes the theory of wore out pvssy ... the more you use it and stretch it the tighter it gets .... and though I have heard people say " i bet her pvssy is as big as the grand canyon ..its had almost as many visitors " ... from my experience...thinking back... the women who use it the most have the tightest ....the more reserved and puritan women were the ones you needed to tie a 2x4 across your back to keep from falling in .....the damn thing was made to use .....I have also noticed that the women who I have been with who were basically a dead fvck were the loosest...the ones that just laid there had sloppy loose pvssy...but the wild ones who throw it back at you and really get into sex have the tightest ... I never correlated the sexual style to the tone of the pvssy but thinking back it holds true without exception ...and I have had a pretty large study sampling
then I called a friend of mine who is gynecologist and we discussed this and she said this is right the vagina is not a rubber band ...and the more you stretch it the more elastic it becomes ..first timer fisters may notice it being looser right after the fisting but the more you do it the less time it takes to recover to its original size ...and frequent fisters actually develop the tone of a rubber band ...any gymnast can tell you that the more you stretch your muscles the stronger and more elastic they become ...why do we not think this to be the case with a woman's love muscle
 DaisyGirlKY
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 5/11/2009 7:38:37 AM

For those of you who watched the clip Truth posted.. here's the full length one... I found it while doing.. um.. research tonight.. yeah..that's it.. research.. http://www.efukt.com/1638_Biggest_****_Ever_.html ... and in case the censor gets it.. the starred out word is p*ssy...

I can't believe I watched that entire train wreck of a video. That's one scary mutant p*ssy!

He lost his watch part way through too. Sure it was probably taken off... but it's more of a mental picture to imagine it being lost in that gaping hole when he shoved his arms up there.

FTR:... he didn't have his head IN her... it was more like he was wearing her p*ssy as a hat. Makes you think of Elmer Fudd and his hat with the ear flaps a bit differently.... The 'hat' covering that bald head has piss flaps instead.

Line up single file, on the right for the eye bleach please. If you prefer a sharp stick to poke out your mind's eye, form a line on the left.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/11/2009 12:28:29 PM

Dude, why would you even consider any type of sexual contact with a woman who has not had kids. She is just looking for someone to make a baby so she can take you for every dime you ever made and strip every inch of dignity from you.

Dude.. if you'd read the whole thread you'd have learned that the lady in question in 50 and never had children. While not impossible, it is unlikely at her age that having children is a priority.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 5/11/2009 1:12:23 PM
I prefer feasting than fisting.
 Sunflower1968
Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 92
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Posted: 5/12/2009 6:10:41 AM
Wow, maybe someone needs a chill pill!! Poor guy was just asking a question. If you don't like the subject don't read it! I on the other hand .......I love fist f*cking, especially when we fill 'em both. Want his fist in one and his c*ck in the other! Now that's an experience to be had!! Let your walls down honey and don't judge those that are different.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2009 9:00:30 AM

Nope. Gotta call BS on this one. No way anyone's gonna out-toy no_1_bby. She's got some stuff you can only get at a prosthetics dealer. Vibrating feet and hoppy floppy mechanized rubber toads. Clowns' heads you shoot with a stream of liquid blowing up balloons kinda stuff.

*SMOOCH!*
You're cute... I had to send the clown's head back tho. No one seemed to be able to hold their stream long enough... was just frustrating everyone.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 94
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Posted: 5/23/2009 10:42:16 AM

I understand it might be a turn on and orgasmic but I rather be with a girl who is tight and custom fit to me and not be able to fit an entire fist inside.


Um, EVERYONE with a vagina is able to fit an entire fist, at least if the pelvic floor muscles are healthy. The vagina is elastic, which also means that it tightens back up again. Unless there's some serious muscle damage, a woman who is fisted will be tight again shortly thereafter.


Yeah, women are sexual deviants too. Since when would pedophiles have to be only female. The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.


You do realize that not all women choose to bear children, right? I'm 30 and nulliparous. I know others older than I am who have never borne children, many of whom have no desire ever to do so. The fact that the OP is asking about fisting a nulliparous woman says nothing about the age of the woman in question.
 jacksondeville00
Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 6/19/2009 6:11:28 PM
Yes i can pic. that and would love to have some pics of that.
 Channybeans
Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 6/19/2009 6:52:08 PM
Special hearted lady, I think that maybe YOU need to grow up and relieze that it may not be your thing, but its someone else's. Consenting Adults DOES NOT equal pedafile. SO Learn your lesson and keep your mouth shut if you have nothign productive to contribute!!!!!!!!


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