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 Steele66
Joined: 5/28/2009
Msg: 98
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I just have to say something. I enjoy fisting. My partner likes doing it to me. It's not an everyday thing, just like anal. It's a "when the mood hits" thing. As far as the woman being damaged goes, I asked my man and he said he was been with women who were pretty loose yet he could not fit. I am tight and so was one other woman he fisted in the past. Just my two cents worth.
 Copperskins
Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 99
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A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:34:03 AM
In regards to the "SpecialHeartedLady says"....I've not a clue where being a pedophile comes into the pic. What are YOU thinking? You need to 'google' pedophile. It had nothing to do with what this man is asking...at all!
I agree, as far as the question goes....go easy....go slow..... lol
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 100
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 1:04:34 AM
LOL just hope you know that once you get fisted, there is no penis in the world gonna make that thang fill up nice and tight again!

Now, would you rather fill some fantasy about having some man shove his hand up there, or would you rather enjoy good sex with a normal sized man? If you get fisted too much, you will be required to have vaginal rejeuvination after a while to get things back to a normal size, where regular sex is pleasurable again.
Beth
 t-razz
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 101
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:55:14 AM
I just have to say that having started reading this thread out of curiousity, I never dreamed I would have laughed so hard. Wow. Thanks for the abs workout.
 Tokolosh1
Joined: 6/14/2009
Msg: 102
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:19:12 AM
...but I do wish the mods would delete her posts.


j!dub, that's pretty selfish of you. SpecialHearted is performing a community service right here, and we're all benefitting. The more I read her posts the more normal I realise how normal the rest of us are.
 Tokolosh1
Joined: 6/14/2009
Msg: 103
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:22:55 PM
The more I read her posts the more normal I realise how normal the rest of us are.


If only I'd paid attention in English lessons. All that money on my education... wasted.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 104
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A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/25/2009 4:48:48 AM
Nooooo.......not all women can enjoy fisting.......and
No......not every woman can stretch that much

and the pedophile comment........friggin classic!
no wonder men complain about uptight women on here all the time w/
examples like that running around!
 SFX Group
Joined: 2/20/2008
Msg: 106
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:43:30 AM

Please tell me if you can fist a lady who has not given birth.

yep, done it, quiet a few times as it happends...
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 107
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:59:33 AM
Fist are for punching, keep away from me! LOL Not my idea of enjoyment, but kudos to every1 else.
 Schumi_fan
Joined: 7/2/2009
Msg: 108
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:06:17 AM
Heck, I'm lucky if I can get my****in a woman without her being in pain, there is no way a fist is going in there. Most women are not able to take a fist nor do they want one. . Just because a woman gives birth to a baby doesn't mean she can take a fist in everyday life lol. A woman's body goes through lots of changes and help from doctor in order to be able to give birth and even then its unpleasant for them. Women sitting around watching tv arent able to take something the size of a fist in their twat, don't be so ridiculous. If she can she's a freak plain and simple.
 MIkeJ1904
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 109
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:43:44 AM
It's obviously not just women that are up tight on this forum.
 AnAriesMan
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 110
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:53:45 AM
I think that from a lot of responses in this thread, some folks need to work on "to each their own" mentality. Just because you are not turned on or excited by something, does not mean that other normal and well adjusted people are not as well. With a lot of off the beaten path sexual activities there is a lot of mis-information out there and people treat it like gospel. I think it is called mythical knowledge. There is a scene from the Simpsons that sums it up..
"Homer: Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. Lisa, honey, are you saying you're never going to eat any animal again? What about bacon?
Lisa: No.
Homer: Ham?
Lisa: No.
Homer: Pork chops?
Lisa: Dad! Those all come from the same animal!
Homer: [Chuckles] Yeah, right Lisa. A wonderful, magical animal."

People "know" something the have assumed, or heard, and then treat it as fact. I think with fisting in particular, it suffers from a really bad name, with all sorts of negative feelings. The word Fist reminds people of real violence, which has no place in a healthy sexual relationship. I would like to make a motion that the name be changed to "Whole Hand Insertion" or WHI for short.. Fun to say.. reminds people of a video game, or the noise you make on a roller coaster.
WHI may not be for every woman, but for those it is for.. the sound is appropriate. :)
 TheArmyLife
Joined: 10/17/2008
Msg: 112
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 1:52:19 PM

Fighting on the internet is like competing in the special olympics Even if you win your still retrated.


This post is full of win.
 sweetb2006
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 113
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 2:08:36 PM

LOL just hope you know that once you get fisted, there is no penis in the world gonna make that thang fill up nice and tight again!

Now, would you rather fill some fantasy about having some man shove his hand up there, or would you rather enjoy good sex with a normal sized man? If you get fisted too much, you will be required to have vaginal rejeuvination after a while to get things back to a normal size, where regular sex is pleasurable again.
Beth


You know this from experience do ya'?


or the noise you make on a roller coaster.
WHI may not be for every woman, but for those it is for.. the sound is appropriate. :)
laugh:
anariesman:
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 114
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:23:45 PM
j!dub: SpecialHearted~...what disturbs me most about your rants is not the stupidity of what you are writing...God knows there are enough fools with access to the Internet and a belief they have something to say.

Nope...it is when I looked at your profile and found that you have a graduate degree and are beginning work as a counselor.

That blew me away. You had no grasp of the OP. You were completely off base on the pedophilia stuff. And then you went after your detractors like a pit bull wanting to hump a leg. You really need to rethink a career choice you can so easily sabotage by trashing people's life with your casual opinion delivered under the persona of being a professional counselor.

Just my $0.02 worth...but I do wish the mods would delete her posts.


I concur 1000%!!! In the time that I have been on POF, I don't think I've ever read such bitterness. Very disturbing, and to think this person is studying to be a counselor is even more disturbing.

For sure not only the posts should be deleted, but the member themselves.

P.S. Fisting - not my cup of tea. Sounds EXTREMELY PAINFUL!!! And not the "good" kinda of pain either.......lol
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 115
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/27/2010 2:09:14 PM
Ooohhhhh! danette! Your so sexy! And you sound like such a wild one (lol). I wish I could be back in Texas, with you there and hopefully more like you.
 sarniafairyboy
Joined: 6/19/2010
Msg: 116
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/7/2010 3:43:41 PM
^^

thanks for your openness -you sound really yummy
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 118
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Posted: 7/7/2010 11:04:18 PM

so every girl is physically able - just don't be so "uptight".


Good to know you know my pu$$y better than I do!!
We're all built different.....and I don't care what you shove up yours.....but mine
can't handle a fist.
And I'm about as far from "uptight" as one can get!!
 eastwood969
Joined: 12/21/2009
Msg: 119
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2010 5:40:03 AM
This is why I never eat chicken in front of women. She sees me getting my fingers sticky and licking them off. Then she suggest better things for me to do with my hands and mouth.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 120
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Posted: 7/9/2010 4:11:47 PM

Well, have you ever tried it, or just assuming it isn't possible? Just asking a simple question, no offense intended so no response full of exclamation marks required


I realize you're rather new to these forums...but one thing you'll learn about me....
If I say my body doesn't stretch to accomodate a fist.......it's because I know that
from experience.....not because I'm squeemish about trying it or assuming I can't do it.
I know my body.......I know what it is capable of or not capable of.
It is quite capable of multiple orgasms.......but it is not capable of accomodating a fist.
Even when drunk and on valiums!!!! (deal with the exclamation points!!!!)

You are more than welcome to tell us your sexual likes, how big a dik you like, how many orgasms you've had from certain activities, etc......
but please don't try to tell us we are "uptight" just because we either don't care for or can't handle a whole man's hand inside us!
 motown cowgirl
Joined: 6/30/2010
Msg: 121
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/9/2010 4:54:58 PM
@ # 157: i've never tried shoving a broom handle up my ass either but let's just say for the sake of argument it doesn't work for me. but hey i'm guessin there's a big ol' future for you in internet porn.
 *closer
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 122
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/10/2010 3:02:14 AM

but it is not capable of accomodating a fist.
Even when drunk and on valiums!!!! (deal with the exclamation points!!!!)


Oh come on Ms.Micki....don't be so 'uptight'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

I don't need to try it to know I can't "take it" just by looking at the size
of my guys fist.And really,what does being 98 lb's have to do with it?

Oh yeah....'chubby women' have 'loose puss*es'.

To each thier own.......I guess.

I'd rather skip the multiple orgasms than be WAY too accomodating to a
man whose dyck wouldn't suffice after that experience.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 123
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/10/2010 5:24:46 AM

I'd rather skip the multiple orgasms than be WAY too accomodating to a
man whose dyck wouldn't suffice after that experience.


The vagina is elastic and muscular. It doesn't actually get "loose" from something like fisting. Personally, I don't care whether anyone gets fisted or not, but the idea that fisting somehow means that you'll be "loose" or that nothing else will satisfy you again is pure fallacy.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 124
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/10/2010 6:18:11 AM
I don't think its so much an issue as can she, but does she want to? Is this her desire?

I would think if the answer to those questions are ..."yes"...then unless she is unusually tight....I imagine she can.

 *closer
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 125
A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/10/2010 12:23:25 PM

The vagina is elastic and muscular. It doesn't actually get "loose" from something like fisting. Personally, I don't care whether anyone gets fisted or not, but the idea that fisting somehow means that you'll be "loose" or that nothing else will satisfy you again is pure fallacy.


I'll clarify. I meant over time and multiple fistings it might become
an issue in terms of what was satisfying and can do damage!!!!
You most certainly can become too loose!

I just sat here for 20 minutes and checked out some pretty SICK photo's to make sure
I could say...No f*ckin WAY I am going down that road.

Shit...those sites just sent my hard drive into ALERT mode!
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