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 Accabella
Joined: 10/13/2012
Msg: 101
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Women who enjoy anal enjoy it for pleasing their men, if the man is really into it, and the woman is accepting of anal she will enjoy seeing her man enjoy it... It has nothing to do with physical pleasure.


Wrong, grasshopper... so very, very wrong. :)

It has everything to do with physical pleasure for many women. No, we do not have a prostate up our butts to be stimulated during anal, but for many of us it feels absolutely amazing and can trigger very intense orgasms. Anal orgasms (at least for me) are full-body orgasms... the tingles are everywhere as soon as he enters and builds from there! Add in the naughtiness of anal... wow. Very, very hot.


The partner receiving should only eat light fluid foods like soups and such hours before actually receiving anal.


*coughcoughbullsh1tcoughcough* It might help, but never once have I thought, "Gee... I'd like to do anal tonight so I think I'll eat only chicken broth for the next 8 hours."

Condoms: yes. Both parties to be prepared for the slight possibility of feces: yes. Lots of lube: yes.

There are times when the desire to share anal sex with my partner is there but my body just laughs and says, "Oh honey... now you KNOW that ain't gonna happen tonight!" and then laughs some more... lol... it's a matter of listening to your body and knowing if that moment is the right moment. Communication between partners is essential.


 LuvDemGloWorms
Joined: 1/24/2013
Msg: 102
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/10/2013 4:22:06 PM

Wrong, grasshopper... so very, very wrong. :)


No.. right grasshopper right...

you just proved my point regardless of how you feel during anal or not... PHYSICALLY women can't get stimulated like men can with anal... that isn't to say women can't get stimulated... but i've never heard of a woman having a full body orgasm from anal... ever... so I think this is just your experience... I can tell because you base a lot of what you say on personal experience...


*coughcoughbullsh1tcoughcough*


maybe if your comment wasn't so outrageously asinine... I might have taken you seriously... but I really can't...
believe it or not... lots of couples plan when to have sex... bet that blew your mind didn't it??? But then again not everyone has tingling butt jiggles like you on spur of the moment with a little fecal matter thrown in now do they??

Anal is scary your first time... for anyone... guy, giving it to the girl... or guy guy... whatever...
eating soups DO help as soups make it easier to digest and come out easier in stools so there is less fecal matter... but I guess what you are telling people... Its ok to get a brown eye...

WRONG... not everyone, like I said, enjoys seeing, smelling, or for one matter... seeing their private area covered with it... ITS NOT EXACTLY ENJOYABLE...

So do what you want with your poop chute... but for first timers... cleaning your anus and eating light foods help with your first time.

References:
Laci Green
yourtango
medhelp.com

Don't listen to Accabella ... she is literally talking out of her ass...
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 103
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/10/2013 5:11:38 PM

It has everything to do with physical pleasure for many women. No, we do not have a prostate up our butts to be stimulated during anal, but for many of us it feels absolutely amazing and can trigger very intense orgasms. Anal orgasms (at least for me) are full-body orgasms... the tingles are everywhere as soon as he enters and builds from there! Add in the naughtiness of anal... wow. Very, very hot


All my life, I've thought it was searing hawt to sink my dyk into a woman's upturned ass, and more recently, a woman showed me just how hawt it can be to exchange places/roles.

As for this less heated dispute between Acca and the GloWorm guy, there is a little reliabe truth on both sides, imho. All sex is at least three-fourths mental (the connecting to partner stuff, choice of partner, and, uh, "deepseated" responsiveness to various stimuli, like anal sensations), but in my experience, no sexual act I've done, repeatedly, is nearly as intensely personal as anal penetration, her ass or mine. I've reached that plateau, or level, where the personal connection reigns; if the "partner" is not one of my choosing, one I have connected with, I feel little or nothing.
 UK_Matt
Joined: 1/9/2013
Msg: 104
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/11/2013 12:35:24 AM
lol too funny lady, guess u have the lights out too lmao
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 105
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Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/11/2013 10:34:50 AM
40% of Gay men will not have anal sex so why will women like it.
 SambaDeUmaNotaSo
Joined: 11/6/2012
Msg: 106
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/11/2013 11:07:33 AM
I don't understand why there is conflict here.

Do women enjoy anal sex? Some do, and some don't. For those that do, perhaps it is the fabled g-spot being stroked from a different location, perhaps it is in the mind, perhaps it is the 70% more nerve tissue in that area. It doesn't matter why a woman enjoys it - what matters is that she finds pleasure in an additional sexual practice.

Lubrication and patience and orgasms before, for the woman, CAN help make the experience more pleasant.

However, each person is different, and for some people, lubrication, patience, and orgasms before, are NOT going to help.

On top of this, some people feel that the organs of the body are designed solely for one purpose, and for religious, moral, or sanitary reasons, cannot be allowed to "multi-task."

So why is anyone arguing about this?

For the women that enjoy anal sex (oral-anal, manual-anal, genital-anal), that is wonderful. For those that don't enjoy it - don't do it.

The only thing that matters here, in my opinion, is that we eventually find sexual partners that are compatible with our preferences. Multi-taskers belong with multi-taskers, and exit-only belongs with exit only.

Now we can quit arguing - and play nice :)
 love2laugh130
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 107
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Posted: 2/15/2013 1:33:46 PM
I like what SambuDeUm... said ... some like it and some don't. Why argue about it? In other words: Don't 'yuck' my 'yum' .... don't judge ... stop letting your ego get in the way.

As for me, I love anal sex. It takes trust, patience and lots of lube.

So kids, let be adults and play nice.
 SambaDeUmaNotaSo
Joined: 11/6/2012
Msg: 108
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/15/2013 2:12:00 PM
SambaDeUmaNotaSo = One Note Samba - a famous bossa nova song - the title was in Brazilian Portuguese. I'm an American living in Brasil. Yuck my yum - never heard THAT one before, kkkkkkkkkk (that's lol in Brasil) :)
 love2laugh130
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 109
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Posted: 2/15/2013 4:03:02 PM
Samba, I heard that on tv a couple of weeks ago, I liked it and have been using it where ever it fits :)

kkkkkk is LOL? ... kkkkkkk
How long have you been in Brasil? Do you like it there?
 SambaDeUmaNotaSo
Joined: 11/6/2012
Msg: 110
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Posted: 2/17/2013 2:59:13 AM
Bom dia Love2, tudo bem?

It's a very romantic song, and I think it references the inevitability of ending up with the person that you are meant to be with.

Lots of artists have done versions of this, song, but here is one (by Sergio Mendes) that I GUARANTEE you have never heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5H-wTuj2bCQ.

I have been living in Brasil for about 1.5 years. I totally love it here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abracos pra voce (hugs for you),

Sambadeumanotaso :)
 love2laugh130
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:18:24 PM
Yeah, I like those type of songs ... that's what I'm looking for, the one that I am suppose to be with.

No, I have never heard that song, it's nice.

Glad you love it there! I'm sure work is keeping you busy there. I hope you go home to see family and friends.

Hugs back to you my friend,
love2laugh
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 112
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Posted: 2/17/2013 8:32:04 PM
Yes I have had some anal sex that made me scream in ecstasy. The rest of the time I have anal I just orgasm & gush like crazy. If the guy isn't real experienced then I make sure I get positioned right and get the rhythm going. "Luvthemgloworms" or whatever his name is up above said women do it for the man & can't get pleasure from it. It are sooo wrong there. During anal the penis hits the gspot area and the engored clitoral tissue that is around the area. Plus the anus has lots of it's own nerve endings that make it feel really good. Get the position right & it can feel great.
 AngelofHonesty
Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 113
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/17/2013 9:25:12 PM
I love anal sex If it's done right!!!!! Yes it does hurt, but after you get over the threshold...it feels f.cking good. Hey it's not for everyone, to each their own. Also I don't like it with every guy, two thus far in my entire life, others got one shot at it and were never allowed to venture into the back door again. Hey it's all in the technique fellows, if I have said it once, I've said it a million times...entering the butt is like entering someones house....knock GENTLY on the door, WAIT for them to answer, Wait for them to invite you in, then proceed EASILY and PATIENTLY over the threshold, then once they invite you to make yourself AT HOME then and only then can you make yourself COMFORTABLE...keeping in mind it's someone else's domain so respond to their needs, respect it, and if asked to depart, do so as gently as you did coming in...hello that way you get invited in again!!!!!!
 PugDude1971
Joined: 2/13/2013
Msg: 114
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 4/8/2013 2:24:38 PM
My ex enjoyed it a lot, so there are women out there who like it. Best orgasm I ever had was this one time... oh, nevermind.
 RTMomof3
Joined: 4/3/2013
Msg: 116
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 4/8/2013 7:20:25 PM
sometimes but it is something I have to prep for!
 RTMomof3
Joined: 4/3/2013
Msg: 117
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 4/9/2013 8:45:54 AM

Next time a man asks me about it I'll follow cornwalls advice and tell them I will if you will first


you'd be surprised by the number of men--and type of men--who will take you up on that! Blows the mind! (the thought, not the anal! lol)
 wolftxusa66
Joined: 3/13/2013
Msg: 118
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 4/9/2013 9:45:41 AM

I will if you will first

I'm getting really tired of this 'fairness' baloney. If he wants to have children with you, do you say the same thing? I don't think so, because it doesn't make sense.

Firstly, I don't think you really would. It's your way of saying no.
Secondly, what does this change about your expectation, attitude and possible pain when going second? Nothing.
Thirdly, the man feels good all the way along the penis. What does your strap-on feel? Try all you want, you are not really inserting yourself.
The only thing I concede is that you would like to share the feeling on the receiving side. Oddly, that is not a topic when it comes to vaginal sex.

So do yourself and others a favor by eliminating that phrase from your vocabulary. If y'all want to do the strap-on, fine. If you don't want to do anal, fine. But you are neither witty nor original using that phrase to mask your 'no'.
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 119
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 4/9/2013 3:26:14 PM
some do....some don't....but i assure you when she says NO...she means NO
 GJBrown
Joined: 9/12/2011
Msg: 120
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 1/12/2014 7:34:33 PM
for thoes who complain that putting a ding dong up the A-hole is gross because thats where poop comes from and its a turn off. I say putting your PeeNus where urine, blood, and babies come out of ist a huge turn on either. You are not meant to think about that part. Just lube up and enjoy! "anal isn't for everyone"
1 person's fetish is another person's reason to break up
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 121
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Posted: 1/23/2014 1:30:44 AM
Done right its not painful......its an added thing when do oral on a woman.....nothing like the feel of her heart beat quickening as she climaxes thru her anal cavity...great!
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 122
Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/1/2014 1:14:38 PM
I like it,but only because I rub one out while it's happening.
More women might enjoy it if they realized how huge orgasms can be if they
get themselves off during anal.

Anal for HIS sake alone hurts more and is not nearly as enjoyable and I am not into it at all.

But once I come......it's all about you'd better be done too!
 April1963
Joined: 6/7/2013
Msg: 123
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Posted: 2/1/2014 5:39:39 PM
Nope!, I do not enjoy it,That hurts,I tried it several times and could not do it,I get tense and nervous everytime I have tried to do it And now I am scared to try it again.I think that mine was designed for exit only.
I can say that I am still Virgin ...lol.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 124
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Posted: 2/2/2014 6:56:32 AM

I get tense and nervous everytime I have tried to do it And now I am scared to try it


And that's the whole problem.Unless you are relaxed,willing,lubed and with a man who's not HUGE
and whom you trust,it's not gonna happen.But let me tell you,if you do ever try again,don't do it for him
do it for you and take my advice.....do it laying down on your back,with him entering from laying on his side,your legs over his hip and get yourself off like you do alone and you will see just how intense an orgasm can be!!!

Did it the other night and DAYUM!

I've been having anal sex since I was 17.
First time,no lube,slight buzz,me on top so I could control it and DAMN!

Loved it ever since.But I have never been a fan of a man who considers my a$$hole no different
than my P*ssy when it comes to thrusting! DO NOT RAM INTO ME!

Go slow and let me adjust to the pain and once I do,phuck away.

Only wish I had a prostate in there to stimulate....lol
 SmellyOne
Joined: 10/6/2009
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Posted: 2/3/2014 3:39:27 PM
This question is somewhat based on the female and the (lack of) experience she has in this area. I've had women who were afraid of anal. Compared it to being gay as to discourage men from wanting it. Have had women tolerate it and met one who couldn't get enough of it. Anal is not a dealbreaker for me, but I really do enjoy it with a woman who even "kind of" likes it.
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