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 medchick911
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 76
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I've recently undertaken that notion. Up until a month ago , I felt I had to be in a relationship in order to be intimate with a person, something even as simple as a kiss or back rub. But then I was asked, "you had a relationship with your past partners, and how great did that go?!" . which really made me open up my mind a bit. I've been casual with a friend , and I'm taking a new page out of their book, and simply "doing what I want, when I want to" ofcourse not hurting them as well. but I no longer worry how it comes across, if it makes me look slutty or something like that. As long the person I am with has a mutual understanding, that is all that matters. In terms of blowjobs, I do enjoy it, and do it for me, as well as my partner.
 milklover
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 77
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 7/2/2009 3:27:32 PM
There are plenty of women out there like this. I've had many offers and have let a few, and that's all they wanted. They asked for nothing in return, and said i want to do this for you. I'm not sure why really. Maybe they get satisfaction out of knowing they can make a man feel good?
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 78
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 7/11/2009 2:40:16 PM
It takes me to long to cum that way for it to be casual. I love the way it feels and all, but some times I just can't get a nut that way.
 LadyNomad
Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 79
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Posted: 7/11/2009 4:25:09 PM
I am perfectly ok giving them in a FWB relationship or a more intimate monogamous relationship. I like doing it, as well as it puts me in the mood and usually gets him there faster (if that is an issue)
 *topchef*
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 80
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:10:53 PM
^^^^OR.....maybe you have just made a few bad choices in your life. But I understand...it is much easier on your ego if you can blame every woman on the planet for your problems. How's that workin' for ya!!!??
 BOT TAK
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 81
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:19:41 PM

No matter a great majority of them are fat, ugly, old, on relationship number 40, 000 and still single raising some other guys kids.
I guess, somebody didn't get laid recently
sooo bitter
 prettybird74
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 82
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/9/2009 2:17:31 PM
it happens. sometimes there is guilt and sometimes...you feel empowered.

**** social norms.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 83
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/9/2009 8:53:27 PM
Now I know what to do on the subway when I'm bored!
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 84
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/9/2009 9:04:22 PM
you mean like, oh , hi my name is xx...pleased to meet you , may I blow you???


lmfao

Right.



edit..lmao el mariachi...haha, yeah maybe I'll start taking the trax instead of my bike , hahaha....oh myyyyyyy

Oh. And ftr. I never do anything I feel guilty for. I just don't. I did have sex once (like almost 30 years ago) that I felt very guilty for. First and last. I'm usually a quick learner.
 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 85
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/10/2009 8:41:14 AM
I can not imagine a situation where a woman would not sleep with a man but would let him stick his d1ck in her mouth and fvck her throat. I take that back, I did that ONCE when I was twentysomething, and never again.

There is nothing casual about a blow job. If it is done in a casual setting it is demeaning to a woman. She is being used.

In a committed relationship it is a loving gift of oneself to a partner who cares about you. It is a selfless act, endearing to the recipient, and can bond a relationship together.
 wild heart
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 86
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/10/2009 8:55:06 AM

Marcus, seriously, you must add a barf icon.


 ndulj
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 87
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/10/2009 3:01:19 PM
Baby, I hate to tell you that there is no such thing as a casual BJ. In some ways they are more personal than intercourse. If they are given with joy and abandon, they are a gift.

Have you considered an escort.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 88
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/10/2009 3:13:24 PM
I am looking at my commute with so much glee now!

Maybe casual just means that it's cool to ignore the guy afterwards. You know.. no cuddling, no small talk, etc.
 Bikeman_
Joined: 10/8/2005
Msg: 89
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 9/11/2009 12:44:17 PM
Marcus, seriously, you must add a barf icon.
There is one, : 38 : (take out the spaces)

Methinks the OP has been watching too many porno films.
 noavailablenames
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 90
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/9/2009 8:35:06 AM
Yes, I have given casual cunnilingus. Does that make me a bad person; I would like to think not. What is wrong with wanting a beautiful woman to get off and to know that you want nothing in return, except the knowledge that you provided her with an orgasm? If anything it would make me a narcissus, but then again its not my ego that is involved. Now that I am older, I think that I just prefer to give that pleasure to the woman in my life. Plus, younger women are pretty damn aggressive these days.
 sxyvirgo
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 91
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/9/2009 5:42:13 PM
I think it's interesting that some guy is trying to encourage women to do what they've always done (to give without getting much of anything in return) by giving out casual blowjobs. Oral is great, but with somebody who's gonna return the favor! Otherwise, get lost!

 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 92
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/9/2009 5:46:05 PM

most here have never heard of a rainbow.......it is common in the schools......


Never heard of this......a new course they're giving now?
 friendlyfin
Joined: 4/28/2009
Msg: 93
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/9/2009 8:19:29 PM
Many many moons and summers ago I was with a gal I met at a seaside bar and we wound up down on the beach. And with drunken elegance I requested a “ blow job ” from my new friend. She declined with a wince... but then offered me oral sex. She thought “blow job” was too vulgar a term. I fell asleep through it anyway.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 94
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:45:01 PM
okay, where do I sign up?
 friendofcanine
Joined: 3/11/2009
Msg: 95
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:59:13 AM
A rainbow??

I had to check urban dictionary for this one.


A game where a group of girls use different coloured lipstick to make rings along the length of a boy's penis with their lips. Usually done by girls too young to give head.

After they gave the boy a rainbow, his penis looked like a candy cane!



Heh.
 older_luvs_younger
Joined: 8/30/2009
Msg: 96
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/10/2009 5:44:22 PM
just to put a different spin on this ... i am a bisexual male who at the moment prefers gay sex only ... i absolutely love getting down on my knees for a guy who i think is hot ... the pleasure in giving oral is as much fun as the pleasure in getting it ... i absolutely love the feel of his****in my mouth, i love to hear him moan, and in a very large sense, by my actions, it is i who is in control, not the other way around.

have given lots of casual oral to strangers, have given lots of non-casual? oral to friends, and hope to give lots more ... and get lots more too ... totally turns me on like you wouldn't believe...... mmmmmmmmm

however, two rules:
1) you must be friendly and gentle ... no grabbing of my hair or shoving down of my head ... i do the work, you lie back and enjoy and i will control when YOU get to cum...... got it?

2) i will never never never knowingly suck off or be sucked off by a guy who is either married or in a relationship ... sorry, you owe your spouse/partner 100% loyalty.

oh and by the way, in case you are wondering... i don't either spit or swallow ... i LOVE to take it on the face and LOVE it when the other guy takes it on the face ... in fact cum facials are absolutely my favorite form of porn, either gay or straight

i guess that makes me one or either a perv, a slut, or a fun-loving guy (sam)

oh and p.s. if you are a hot single guy, and you have a need, you might consider sending me a message
 *pisceseyes
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 97
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/10/2009 5:52:54 PM
^^^ TMI :/













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 hennylo69
Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 98
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 11/11/2009 5:10:58 PM
I love those kind of women, here in florida women do it as a hobby.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 99
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 1/16/2010 1:54:21 PM
I mean of COURSE he would like to hear from ladies who have done it. This is a dating site and intimacy and intimate compatibility is part of the courtship ritual. So knowing who has done something one has a predisposition for is paramount to a successful relationship. I would like to know who has to and if they are interested in something more permanent.
 Cheryl A nn
Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 100
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 1/16/2010 4:08:04 PM
hi,
I can't answer that cause yes I did it and I enjoyed it at the time. But I regret it and will NEVER do it again except in a relationship. It was casual for him, I was in love with him, he knew it and used my feeling to get what he wanted. I didn't know this til almost a year later. So now I hugely regret it.
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