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Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 176
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Lol sorry I had to laugh at this post. A women that enjoys just giving a blow job? Not me. I expect something in return or while I am doing it. Not something I enjoy doing all on it's own.
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 177
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/11/2012 12:39:41 PM
We are talking abt girls who do it to strangers or aquimtances.& get nothing in return. I never did because that was always foreplay to me. I. also noticed when I was younger morbidly obese ( I mean 300# or more) girls would do it just to be w a guy no matter he was using her. She would feel wanted & liked even if it were just for a short time. Just like the sad, desperate other girls. Nut, I also had cool friends, im still friend with since high school 30 yrs ago that just liked to do it & as word got around she became popular w the boys lol
She was cute but had self esteem & some other issues.
Joined: 2/10/2012
Msg: 178
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/11/2012 10:39:08 PM
Ahhhhh.......wellll......yesss, I DO EXIST and I HAVE GIVEN A 'CASUAL' BJ...... It was on a second date and it was just an 'in the moment' type thing and it reallly surprised him! Haa Ummm....yesss.......I am a bit of a nympho.......but I also enjoy giving pleasure just like receiving pleasure! I have had some other similar 'casual' experiences also. I am 44 and have always had a very high sex drive and realized it's not a bad thing to enjoy giving and receiving pleasure.
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 179
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/11/2012 11:43:17 PM
I think a lot of men would love a 'casual blowjob' from a woman that is so "cool with it". But women that do that are also very casual with other men they "casually blow off too". So ya it's totally cool if you don't mind zero connection it leaves you with other then that felt Not to say, that a woman that wants a relationship can give a blowjob any better, but the intimacy and connection that comes with that bj will never pass the casual loose cannon girl.
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 180
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/12/2012 7:22:06 AM
Yup!!!! I just had a lady contact me on here....(my profile isn't hidden all the time)....and she loves it..... theres nothing sweeter than a "lady" who shows up with cum stains on her t shirt"......Not!!!!
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 181
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/12/2012 10:02:04 AM
"Casual blow job?" Is that like walking through the mall and you pick out your victim and drag him into the restroom for a quickie?

I'm sorry, but there is no such thing as a "casual blow job." I wouldn't enjoy doing it at all just for the sake of doing it -- I'd have to have some sort of attachment and attraction to the guy -- and I'm not doing it at all unless I get something in return. Selfish men are not appealing.
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 182
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/15/2012 6:30:07 PM
I agree with Marie2107 and probably most women on here, the men branding women as sluts for giving bj's need to shut the f&ck up, first of all no guy is complaining while were getting one, and second if they feel like they're going to be why would they want to, and yeah like you said women enjoy intimacy too so why don't we let them. I'm happy with it during and after..........
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 183
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/15/2012 7:00:49 PM

There is absolutely NOTHING casual about my BJ's.

My sex is an expression of my affection for a man...not a commodity and not some pressure relief for single men with blue balls.

Now that is what I call a real woman.
Joined: 9/15/2011
Msg: 184
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Posted: 8/16/2012 11:05:40 AM
Haven't read through all the posts but hopefully someone is talking about STDs. My response is NO WAY to casual blowjobs or sex. Do you have any idea the prevalence of STDs? Ladies I was just reading about HPV and please be careful. There is no screening for men and it is estimated that almost by adulthood almost 80% of people will have some strain of it. HPV 16 is the leading cause of cervical cancer and does not produce warts. So men can be carriers of it, passing it around through oral, anal or vaginal sex and have no clue. Or maybe they do know and just don't give a shit.

I love oral sex but I love my health and life more.
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 185
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 8/16/2012 1:36:55 PM
^^^ Since there’s no screening for men and HPV 16 doesn’t cause warts, I'm not sure how a man would think he has it. Unless his female partner tested positive and told him he'd been exposed to the virus.
Joined: 1/9/2011
Msg: 186
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Posted: 8/25/2012 2:53:54 PM
I wish I could find an orally fixated woman
Joined: 7/26/2012
Msg: 187
Casual blowjobs - how to get one
Posted: 8/26/2012 5:10:07 PM
I love it. Like to meet you.
Joined: 10/9/2012
Msg: 188
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Posted: 10/27/2012 9:34:24 PM
Eat your heart put
they exsist

Some girls give several a week
And some of us just once in a blue moon
you just got to be nice about asking
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 189
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Posted: 10/28/2012 7:52:06 AM
I only opened this as I was wondering if there might be an example of a formal blow job compared to a casual one!!
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 190
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Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/28/2012 9:55:46 PM
Oh yes... I would... I would... I would. I'll be passing through Cape Breton soon...
Joined: 4/19/2012
Msg: 191
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Posted: 10/29/2012 4:54:42 AM
I am OK with receiving those from a woman.
Joined: 9/25/2012
Msg: 192
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/29/2012 5:10:39 AM
and I'm not doing it at all unless I get something in return.

So sex for you is like a business proposition? 'I'll give you something only if you give me something'?

And you worry about selfish men?? OK....
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 193
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/29/2012 6:42:17 AM
Casual blow jobs are fun and arousing, but like the other poster, I either want to be getting something back OR have it be my idea.

Manipulated, pressured or asked for oral sex (only) is just a chore and your woman probably secretly resents it. Sorry guys, but most women would agree.

Joined: 10/3/2012
Msg: 194
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/29/2012 8:39:01 AM
I have never come across a woman who was casual about sex. Where are they and how can I contact them?
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 195
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/29/2012 8:49:52 AM
lol at this thread..casual blowjob,,lol!!!
Joined: 10/30/2011
Msg: 196
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Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/29/2012 11:52:24 AM
oral sex is the best, both giving and receiving!
Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 197
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/29/2012 3:13:02 PM
A casual BJ is more like a really fun goodnight kiss in the driveway. A formal one is 'I love you so much. Look what I'm doing for you!'
Joined: 7/3/2012
Msg: 198
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/30/2012 4:04:01 PM
I know several women that are****worshipers and thats all they care about is sucking you then leaving. I like it alot, she gets her fix and I get mine and we both leave happy.
Joined: 9/11/2012
Msg: 199
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/30/2012 7:24:16 PM
Depends on the man and how everything plays out . Some women are not comfortable because they do not think they are skilled. Most men do not care if you are bad at it, they say there is no such thing as a bad blow job. I am so sick of men thinking that if we enjoy giving pleasure, we must be nymphs or whores. I am more like- I'll give him the most unforgetable BJ ever!!!
Joined: 10/12/2012
Msg: 200
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 10/30/2012 8:45:39 PM
I couldnt think of anything worse than giving a blow job to a guy I know only casually. He can pay for that and prossies get good money for doing it to strangers. Sometimes women regret what they have done when they are drinking or perhaps they do enjoy giving it. I dont know. We are all different. Of course you think they are cool as they are pleasuring you. Do you return the favour??
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