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 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 54
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LOL Don't give out your email, and d--k shots cannot be sent out. Biggest reason a rude male wants your email is for private pic sending otherwise he would communicate here where it is relatively safe. LOL yes, if one shows too much cleavage, or too much pecs/package, others will get the idea that this person is interested in sex. sorry, but this world is not run by hope. I wish it were, too. I have had a chest since the 4th grade, and had to hide, too.
 Liliana_LC
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/8/2009 9:34:39 PM
I can't believe some of the replies on this thread!!!

I can almost guarantee many of the guys trying to justify this type of disrespectful action are the ones that do most of the sending !!

I don't have any " boob shots" or whatever everyone is saying provoked this "normal" behavior and I still get sent these UNSOLICITED shots.

And not in any way shape or form do I think it's acceptable to blame the OP for "provoking" this behavior no matter how revealing her pictures were, she definitely wasn't NUDE!! Like a previous post stated: "What would the difference be then when a girl is on a beach"??

This type of mentality is so common around the world today when a girl gets raped, or in other religions, when they're showing too much skin...it's always her fault for being too sexy, or too revealing...

The type of guys who do this are sick, deranged and PATHETIC. Period
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/9/2009 2:57:15 AM
Now I do not believe that whether a woman is wearing a skimpy outfit or a guy is weaker than his attacker, any1 should be raped/sodomized. I do believe in the immortal words of 1 comedian, Dave Chappelle:

If a man dresses like a cop in a cop's uniform, and someone races over to him "Excuse me Mr Officer, I need help!" He then says to unknown person "Excuse you, but just because I am wearing an officer's uniform does not make me an officer!"

D.C. than exchanges this reference to a woman dressing like a whore:

A guy comes over to her, and says "Hey babe, how much?" The lady is horrified and retorts "Just because I am wearing a whore's uniform does not make me a whore!"

Well, D.C. looks at the audience and says "It is damn confusing, ain't it, though?"

I do not blame a victim for being assaulted, but most people who have grown up in a modern civilization know that dressing a certain way associates that person with a certain stigma. It is unfair, but that is life.
 drashell21
Joined: 12/3/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 7/12/2009 3:53:43 PM
I have sent out dirty pics before and regretted it, its like once they get their whatever with my pics they are done. meanwhile im home horny as all get out and left with no help but some porn! guys suck!
 AnAriesMan
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:31:31 PM

It comes down to pride, respect and honor. Something that seems to be missing with any man who does this kind of thing. It applies to women too who openly flaunt their sexuality in the face of those who are respectable. That kind of women will ALWAYS get ATTENTION, but rarely the ATTENTION she would be hoping for. She may, unfortunately, get even more than she bargained for.


Not everyone equates being openly sexual, with shame. Same goes with nudity. Now, sending Un-Solicted naked pictures to people is rude... but so is calling people names on a message board, I guess it just depends on how flexible your moral compass needle is. Personally I have never shown anyone my private bits that has not asked to see them.. or to everyone that has. There are a lot of well balanced adults, that acknowledge that sexuality is a big part of who they are, and should be in who they are looking for in a mate. I don't think it makes them children, just self-aware and not afraid of being judged by those who seem to get off on doing so.
 TragicallyHip
Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 61
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Posted: 7/13/2009 4:12:54 AM

Sometimes, we as men, can be a little thick. Maybe it's their interpretation of " hang out".


Toe in Water (sounds like a Native American name!): That sh*t is funny.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 64
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:47:13 AM

Many men value themselves by their financial means, their genitalia or both. They don't realize that they are defacing themselves when they do this.


Both genders promote whatever they think the other is hot to buy. Many women measure men by their financial means, the size, durability or cut of their genitalia, or both. And, yeah, they deface, objectify, and cheapen, when they do it.jmho
 wideband
Joined: 4/6/2009
Msg: 65
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Posted: 7/13/2009 2:59:24 PM
While I agree that posting pictures of yourself half dressed showing off the goods is not an invitation to be sent nude pictures of male genitals, it does make you every bit the attention whore that promotes this type of behavior. This is not blaming the victim, and it's a far cry from the woman wearing a short skirt asking to be raped scenario. It is consensual conversation to in which in order for you to view the picture, you have to accept it first. I do not understand how anyone one can accept photos from strangers online and be shocked by what they are receiving. It should be presumed that without knowing someone the information they are sending you can be anything at all.

I'm guessing that these conversations aren't innocuous, innocent ones either. There's probably some flirtatious behavior on both parties preceding the pictures being sent. But I can also see the scenario where a normal conversation without any flirting or sexual overtones where a guy would be so completely f*cking stupid as to pull this kind of stunt, usually for shock value in hopes of having his ego rewarded. Well in that scenario, I think the first responses had it best where she should respond by sending him a photo of another man's genitals or something else he probably would not enjoy.
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