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 Ahappygal
Joined: 10/29/2009
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Some people may look younger than others' same ages but never younger than their own ages. They can't find ways to prove that they look younger than their own ages by themselves.
 Mr. Happy, PE
Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 11/2/2009 12:19:24 PM

Isnt "sexy older women" a misnomer? Same as a misnomer for a sexy older man.


Not for me. I know some very sexy women in their 50's, even a few in their 60's!
 slumpy
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 353
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Posted: 11/2/2009 2:23:19 PM
OP,

Just know when she reaches 60, you have to trade her in for 3 20 year olds
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:53:12 PM
Personally, I don't think sexy older women are intimidating to older men. What is a turn off is if she knows it and and is stuck on herself. I would assume the same goes for a man that women think is sexy. If he is stuck on himself it's a turn off to women. It goes both ways.
 ~Azul Ojos~
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 355
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:59:01 PM

Just know when she reaches 60, you have to trade her in for 3 20 year olds


That is greedy, you could have said 2 - 30 year olds....
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
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Posted: 11/2/2009 10:47:31 PM
A couple, sixty, decides to take separate vacations, and do.

When they return home, they compare notes. He found a twenty year old and the two of them had a grand time. She found a twenty year old and the two of them had a grand time. Still, he insisted he had more fun. . . . She said nope -- it's a matter of math. Math? How do you figure? Well, everybody knows that twenty goes into sixty more times than sixty goes into twenty. . . .

 Blue-Eyes-Shine
Joined: 11/26/2008
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Posted: 11/2/2009 11:53:34 PM
^ So true! *messages this short may not be posted*
 FluffyBrain
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 358
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Posted: 11/3/2009 1:07:41 AM
well, i think that's what older woman are hoping lol hun, if you're a hot mamcita, try a toy boy for a while. why am i dwelling on this? hmmmm lol
 GrandmaBooBoo
Joined: 12/30/2006
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Posted: 11/3/2009 6:03:00 PM

I have often felt that older men are slow to respond because they think they are not still sexy and desirable. To me, that denotes a lack of self confidence. If an older woman appears to be sexy, why is it that mostly young men are attracted to her?
Ummmm, not sure I can agree with that assessment at all. I don't think it's because they lack self-confidence as much a I think they've been brainwashed by their....EX wives and mothers!!!! LOL!


why is it that mostly young men are attracted to her?
Because they have the good sense NOT to listen to their ex wives! LOL!


Isnt "sexy older women" a misnomer? Same as a misnomer for a sexy older man.
Noooopppeeee!!! I've seen some damned sexy older men.....and some damned sexy younger ones who think I'm still hotter than a lot of women their own age. LOL! who am I to argue!
 pitbull pete
Joined: 9/4/2009
Msg: 360
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Posted: 11/3/2009 7:26:04 PM
I would be of some of them. Have seen a few in the mid to upper 50's and they really look great. Problem is they are so damn****, act as if they "know it all" and did I mention so damn****? They are well educated but so am I. To me they are unapproachable.
 daffie
Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 361
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Posted: 11/3/2009 8:51:56 PM
geeez guys...
are we having lots of fun pointing those fingers?...
so much generalizing been going on...

as for all the crappy, ageist attitudes being displayed here?...
no matter our age there's surely always going to be someone either younger or older than us...
personally,
i'm very happy to be a "sexy older woman"...
actually,
you can call me whatever you like because i don't really give a damn...

surely our lifestyles, attitudes and luck...or otherwise...with our genes reveals more about us than the number of years we have "been around"...

btw..."people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"...

viva la differences!...
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 362
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Posted: 11/3/2009 9:44:30 PM
I am a realist. I dont see any older men or women as being sexy.
 leglover
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:36:42 AM
Attitude is everything!! Sexy comes in all ages just like ugly. I don`t care if a woman is 108, if she is smart and still looks great mission accomplished. By look great i don`t mean perfect but i do mean not letting herself go. I don`t have the patience for young girls so bring on the sexy older babes!!
 rearguard*2
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:00:23 AM
Sexy is being willing to participate in the mating game. It has nothing to do with age, looks, condition or anything but that interest in being a participant in that aspect of life.

Is it intimidating? Only if you don't want to get caught.
 clockwork lime
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 365
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:58:56 AM

I am a realist. I dont see any older men or women as being sexy.


I would have to agree 100% with this.


Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.


from Desiderata

Beyond a certain age, striving to be "sexy" is just silly. It reminds me of the 40+ yr old women who describe themselves as "hot". It's a real turn-off. Overgrown boys and girls who just can't let go of the past.
Some of the women posting in the over 45 threads are pretty. None are "sexy".
As for the men, I don't look at their profiles, but I doubt any are sexy.
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:37:50 AM

As for the men, I don't look at their profiles, but I doubt any are sexy.


OMG some of them are very sexy indeed.. There is one man that is 61 that is probably the sexiest man I have ever laid my little beady eyes on.

thecatsmeoww
 Ahappygal
Joined: 10/29/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:51:50 PM

I dont see any older men or women as being sexy.

Yeah...a turkey neck with quite a few chins and a big belly...
 blueyesrsmiling
Joined: 6/25/2008
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:08:46 PM

Some of the women posting in the over 45 threads are pretty. None are "sexy".
As for the men, I don't look at their profiles, but I doubt any are sexy.

Just a thought that is kind of mind boggling.....something is just bothering me with your postings on here just a weee little bit.......
Your posting in the over 45 age group.......and your 43 yrs old.....
So are you to old for your age group? Or won't they play with you?
But my friend just to let you know.....since you aren't as old as most of us...you too will be this age. And you to are closing the gap as not being sexy.....just you wait and see. Now go home and play nicely with others.....and they might let you back in.....
 FORCAS
Joined: 10/9/2009
Msg: 369
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:35:34 PM

Your posting in the over 45 age group.......and your 43 yrs old.....
So are you to old for your age group? Or won't they play with you?
But my friend just to let you know.....since you aren't as old as most of us...you too will be this age. And you to are closing the gap as not being sexy.....just you wait and see. Now go home and play nicely with others.....and they might let you back in.....
My Dear Sweet Ms blueyesrsmiling ,
I concur and affirm your post..
Isn't it amazing how the "perfect" people,
the "wanna-be's", etc... all seem to "know it all"..??
But ONLY when they think the REAL "bad-boys" are away....
Jeepers...
bet if some of these "folks" keep it up...
a LOT of "closets" will be opened..
As for me...
I am fine and doing well..
and I know.. I KNOW..!
(that my "photo" looks like a "heavily altered David Bowie")
What did ya expect..?? General Westmorland..??...
I'm outta here..
--- ? ---
 Just-a-Regular-Guy
Joined: 10/9/2009
Msg: 370
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:41:07 PM
[Quote][My Dear Sweet Ms blueyesrsmiling ,

I ALSO concur and affirm both my alter/ego above
AND your post..

Isn't it amazing how the "perfect" people,
the "wanna-be's", etc... all seem to "know it all"..??
But ONLY when they think the REAL "bad-boys" are away....
Jeepers...
bet if some of these "folks" keep it up...
a LOT of "closets" will be opened..
As for me...
I am fine and doing well..
and I know.. I KNOW..!
(that my "photo" looks like a "heavily altered David Bowie")
What did ya expect..?? General Westmorland..??...
I'm outta here..
--- ? ---
And CRIPES...
I likes MY wimmins like I likes my coffee...
HOT and sweeeeettt............
Now I'm outta here tooooooo.....
--- ?? ---
 Blues1963
Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 371
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:21:03 PM
I'm with Ismene and the others about some people being so stuck on themselves they're a turnoff. Whenever I see "I look so much younger than my real age" or "my freinds all tell my I don't look my age" I see some insecure as hell with their own aging process, and also someone that's liable to fault me for my own age.

Then there's the ones that look so good you can't understand why they're still not taken, until you finally see a truly current photo put up.

I'm not especially tall or classically handsome, but I'm fair looking, healthier than most men my age, and smarter than 90% of the people I meet. Intimidated? Never. Realistic about whether a woman will find me interesting? Very. Why waste my time with the estrogen producing Peter pans?
 Ahappygal
Joined: 10/29/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:40:10 PM

I see "I look so much younger than my real age" or "my freinds all tell my I don't look my age" I see some insecure as hell with their own aging process, and also someone that's liable to fault me for my own age.


I'm fair looking, healthier than most men my age, and smarter than 90% of the people I meet.

I can't find the difference between you and those who say they are younger than their ages.
 Blues1963
Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 373
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:50:42 PM
The difference is I can quantify it. I scored 1300 on my SAT my sophomore year of high school, I scored in the 98th percentile on the State of Oregon's placement tests for employment, and I'd say i can only get about one in 10 guys around my age to go on the full distance of the walk I take every day. I also eat healthier than anyone else I know my age.

If you look at my profile, I don't go into being smarter or healthier, I only talk about valuing health and intelligence. I don't go on about "My freinds all say I'm the smartest person they know" or "Only women with resting heart rates below 60 need apply".

That's a helluva lot different from some 42 year old woman that you just KNOW is at least 44 going on about how she looks 30......
 kari135
Joined: 9/1/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:01:44 PM
Blues, I meant to ask the other day and forgot - or got distracted - was 'home sweet home' a working troller or was she ever used as a puker boat? Just curious.
 Ahappygal
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 375
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:12:42 PM

The difference is I can quantify it.

Many guys say they are 10 years younger than their ages, which is also quantified.
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