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 TheJoeMan
Joined: 1/22/2009
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pcspeceric posted:
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this has absolutely nothing to do with anything even remotely related to the topic.


old men can't move around as well as young men, and old women have lower expectations of sex than young women.

NATURE WORKS ITSELF OUT YET AGAIN
 Mayonia
Joined: 1/20/2009
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/13/2009 12:52:35 AM

Of course younger men are better lovers.

Oh yeah and for you old dudes who are saying you're better lovers because you concentrate more on foreplay, of course that's the case because your viagra pills take an hour to kick in.


You just can't argue with the truth.....
 Mayonia
Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 6/13/2009 1:04:31 AM

An ex of mine once summed it up perfectly:

'At the end of the day, all men are equally mature, its just the younger ones are better looking!'

Something I've discovered in my experiences in the darker side of net dating is that when it comes down to immaturity, the older fellas are far and away the worst - and thats not my opinion folks, its that of the women I've encountered along my travels! You need to realise that experience doesnt come with age - experience comes with experience


This is also a great truism. Male or female, there are just some people that will NEVER be mature or 'experienced'. There are many 20 somethings who have more general and sexual sophistication than most people will ever have.

It's also sad that people tend to look to their partners for their satisfaction instead of seeing it as something mutual or even as something they alone can produce. You are responsible for your satisfaction with another person....from the act of selecting them to everything that goes on between you - or doesn't. The simple act of taking charge can give you all you need.....waiting for someone else to do it all and complaining when they don't is a poor alternative!
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
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Posted: 6/13/2009 4:17:05 AM
So is it just me or are the ego driven old women in here purposely trying to make sure that no men over the age of 35 EVER find a relationship or love? The people making these hateful generalizations about men yet at the same time spouting off about how "youthful" they are are not only bitter hypocrites (and not so youthful looking most of the time), they're a complete waste of life and REALLY sad. All this viagra nonsense is stupid. Guess what? Women DRY OUT as well. Women talk as if they like to have sex for 20 hours in a row. Guess what? Haven't met one young or old that liked to have sex as much as me. All this big talk and the put downs are for a couple of very sad reasons. It gives an illusion that there is a need and creates an acceptance for women to date young people their kid's age so they can get some level of ego boost which is needed due to severe insecirity issues. It gives petty women a chance to get the sick satisfaction of leaving men their own age with nothing. Relationships with an age gap are sometimes for real but it's not hard to tell from a lot of the attitudes and statements made in here (not to mention the very scary "look at me" playboy poses that pepper this place) that the intentions are a little messed up to say the least.
 TheJoeMan
Joined: 1/22/2009
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Posted: 6/13/2009 12:21:28 PM

CTG007 posted:
Hey JoeMan,

Tell me how that goes in 30 yrs..

Conceited Jackass

Tell you how what goes? That most generations have sex and relationships within their same generations, and any age difference over 10 years is pretty uncommon? Traditionalists (soon dead) are mostly currently married to traditionalists (or widowed), boomers to boomers, etc...

But okay, I'll make sure to contact you in 2039 to keep you updated on a very visible and obvious trend, forums superstar "CTG007."
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 63
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Posted: 6/13/2009 12:30:06 PM

You just can't argue with the truth.....


Certainly, and obviously, not when one is deluded as your post suggests. LMAO!!
Look, who on earth would not want to jump the bones of a 19-year old torso, if it housed a mind and soul that matched one's own? There is nothing reprehensible in any woman's leching after a hawt bod! And there are most probably times when her minds runs to exactly that prospect. We all lust, sometimes, even often, without a specific target in front of us. But when it is, it is stimulating, and for that, Bravo, Brava!!! Better lovers? Maybe the wrong question to ask. The key is what blend of needs she feels at the time, and whether those are satiated by the lover she chooses.
jmho
 NoQuarterGiven
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 6/13/2009 1:22:05 PM

The only thing young guys care about is their own c0cks and of course they think they know everything from watching porn. Young, dumb and full of cum. Besides that, they really are quite useless for anything else unless they have a rich dad to date.


Wow, I'd like to see you say such insulting generalizations about fat women, or black people, or disabled people. You'd be disowned from the forums permanently.

Lets see, we can get it up without Viagra, aren't bloated or wrinkley or saggy, have more energy, and less health conditions. Sounds like a clear advantage to me.

Yes some guys are quick shooters but some guys never grow out of that. And some have bad technique but others are naturals and mature quickly.
 Queen_Mab
Joined: 6/21/2006
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Posted: 6/13/2009 2:07:41 PM
I've had lovers in all age ranges and, as whytwater stated, the best lover is the one who suits your needs and fulfills you at that time. I despise generalizations and have had both excellent and pretty crappy lovers my age, older, and younger than me. A recent lover was simply eye candy that I ended up bedding on a regular basis... We had a few things in common but the most important was that we were extremely sexually in tune. I did end it because I felt like a lech (he was closer to my adult son's age than my age), but he was amazing!

It comes down to the quality of men you choose to bed and making sure that you are in synch with one another before getting naked. To bash entire generations of men based on nothing more than age and assumed sexual ability is not only ridiculous and demeaning, but immature; to write off large sectors of potential mates or lovers based on generalizations or your own inability to pick quality lovers is the same thing. We almost all end up with one (or more) really bad/selfish/boring lovers at some point, hopefully most of us are able to realize it is the individual, not his/her entire generation, at fault.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 6/13/2009 8:06:19 PM

old men can't move around as well as young men, and old women have lower expectations of sex than young women.

Nice generalization. I don't have lower expectations now versus when I was 20. In fact, I would have to say they are much higher. I know what good sex is now, and I certainly won't settle for anything less.

Funny how some presume to know what they have no possibility of understanding.
 cw35
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Posted: 6/14/2009 8:03:42 AM
stephanie: Great generalizations. Grow up. So how "firm" are you. You can make snide remarks about lack of "firmness" but that remark works both ways. Women expect men of all ages to think they're sexy, attractive etc. no matter what shape they're in but they put down older men for physical flaws as if no woman could ever want them. SERIOUSLY HYPOCRITICAL. If this is what you base the worth of a relationship on then you are one SAD human being.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2010 6:43:01 PM
Well, young compared to me, yes. I'd say men in their early 30s are best lovers. Still strong, still super horny, still super hard, yet know women's bodies. Guys in their 20s are not so good, too fast, too selfish. older guys--45 + CAN be good, but sometimes are in bad shape so stamina is lacking, flexibility (physical) is lacking (HINT TO MEN: keep your backs LOOSE!).
 Blue-Eyes-Shine
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Posted: 2/19/2010 12:23:43 AM
Yes, younger is better! Of course I'm 52, so that includes men up to 51.

Seriously, it depends on the individual man, not age.
 Casper66
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Posted: 2/19/2010 4:10:50 AM
I much prefer lovers around my own age and experience, but I have to say I did have a younger man in his 30s who was very good, had great technique, willing to try some different things and stamina, was sorry to see him move away.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 2/19/2010 7:08:26 AM

45 + CAN be good, but sometimes are in bad shape so stamina is lacking, flexibility (physical) is lacking (HINT TO MEN: keep your backs LOOSE!).


LOL! (visions of "Arch your back, Baby, Baby, Baby!" "Uhhhh, I used ta could" Lol) Exactly what is it that you do to guys that requires the "arch" ?


Experience and desire create the best lovers....no matter what thier age.


Yup. Eye of the Tiger! (Rocky III, not that foo foo lawn game, Lol). I'm a guy, so what do I know (I've been a young man, but never had one, lol), but I'd think a hungry lover would be best, and the moobless torso somewhere down the list. Lol Kinda depends on the individual woman's buttons. Too bad we can't all create some Weird Science perfect lover, like Kelly LeBrock swaying out of red smoke, with a puter and some lightning.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 2/19/2010 10:14:30 AM

LOL! (visions of "Arch your back, Baby, Baby, Baby!" "Uhhhh, I used ta could" Lol) Exactly what is it that you do to guys that requires the "arch" ?

Ever heard the expression "Let your backbone slide"? It's the motion of the ocean. I don't want to be on top ALL the time...
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 2/19/2010 3:25:47 PM

Yep, experience trumps stamina every time.
Bless you!!! I'm 50, I don't have a six pack any more, (more like a party ball, LOL...not THAT bad really), and if you see me running...please stop and help. However, I'm a MUCH better lover now, than I was at 25-30. (Unless you're the type of woman who likes a guy who's only technique is penetration, with pounding...I find that kind of sex boring.)

If, on the other hand, you can appreciate a lover who shops for sex toys in the produce and hardware isles... NOW we're talking...

FYI...bananas, cucumbers, and carrots...NO IMAGINATION!!! However, artichokes scare the sh!t out of me..
 windloverr
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Posted: 2/19/2010 5:51:37 PM

Step away from the pineapple...
Oh yeah, and by the time you figure out what to do with a pomegranate , everybody's out of the mood anyway...
 windloverr
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Posted: 2/20/2010 1:09:51 PM

older guys are set in their ways. You can't teach an old dog new tricks because they think they know it all when it comes to sex and pleasing a woman.
Wow, nothing like sweeping generalizations that group everyone under one heading; or a "one size fits all" category. I'm 50, I've learned things on here in the last 6 months that I've used in practice. Guess I'm a YOUNG 50!!
 cw35
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Posted: 2/20/2010 10:30:25 PM
Actually, all the same negative stereotypes can be applied to older women as well, so I guess what's being said in this thread is that I should be seeking someone in the 20-25 range. Thanks. Maybe I'll try that. They can't possibly be more confused, flaky or immature than the women in my age range.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 2/20/2010 10:31:23 PM
Personally, I prefer in my own age range.
I'm sure there are younger men that are great lovers, but when I make a reference
about Link and Julie I'd like him to "get it"!!
 MsMicki
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Posted: 2/21/2010 8:18:53 AM

that in itself turns me off sex with an older guy besides other things that dangle loosely ... Urghhhhhh.....


Oh Good Lord.....comments like this just crack me up......especially coming from a 51 yr old!
Never understand how anyone thinks a man can control how low their balls hang!!
And then have the gall to publicly denounce these men for it!

Hell, it just gives 'em more swing!!
With doggy style you get some extra sensations with they bounce off your clit!!

Too graphic for you.......sorry.......but I try to look at the positive side of things instead of trying to make a man feel like crap for something they have no control over.
No different than when men make rude comments about the shape of a girl's puss.....
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2010 6:18:41 AM

I know he is still being a pleasing ,selfless lover to whomever he is with.


He migrated on you? Transient worker, following the harvest. Maybe that's an unintentional commendation for "older men"- like the damn Canadian geese around Philadelphia, they don't fly away with the change of seasons anymore. Lol


older guys are set in their ways. You can't teach an old dog new tricks . . . .


Any older guy posting on these forums, or even the ones who just signed onto this site, have proven the ability to learn new tricks- use of a computer, and maybe even a keyboard, and maybe, just maybe, the ability to research stuff online. And, at least on here, that trick is a sexual one. Lol
I raised two daughters, no sons, but when they hit double digits, they were pretty much know-it-alls, about everything! Lol
Teaching anything demands skill, knowledge of the subject, and certainly an ability to communicate, of/from the teacher. If the student doesn't get it, whose fault is that?
Hmmm, maybe there's another point here- older guys debate better, and might question the "lesson" from time to time. Do you field questions?
Hey, who wouldn't want to fvck a 20- something torso? Eye candy is a stimulant for most of us, and stimulation is a big part of the final grade a lover student earns. Kinda all depends on whether you consider lollipops to be relationship material.
 egboy
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Posted: 2/23/2010 1:01:45 PM
Ok humpty
Of course younger men are better lovers.

Oh yeah and for you old dudes who are saying you're better lovers because you concentrate more on foreplay, of course that's the case because your viagra pills take an hour to kick in.

That isn't the case with 90% of us older guys. I have never even tried V don't need it. As far as forplay goes that is the realy fun part. If a lady wants to play for an hour or 2 thats great I can do that. I have done the forplay thing and been happy with that. I all so can and have had sex nonstop for over 5 hrs. Not bragging just a fact. I have had a few ladyes my age that wouldn't date me any more because it was to much for them.
About 2yrs ago I was dateing a younger woman (35) that brought 2 other women over 1 night and all went home verry satisfide. So don't say old guy can't do as well and as long as younger guys IT"S NOT TRUE and so you don't have to look it up I'm 1 month short of 58. My Dad was keeping it up at 75 without V.
 egboy
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Posted: 2/23/2010 1:50:44 PM
With me I like sex but love to make love. The worst sex I ever had was GREAT. I like doing new things and have done a lot sofar nothing I didn't like. I love it when the woman tells you what she wants and doesn't want. I have greatly emproved my skills in the last 6 yrs. Being that I was married to a woman that didn't like sex after having ower son . So I was deprived for 22yrs of haveing fun with sex or even having sex far as that goes. I have a lot of making up to do.
 mysteriousromeo
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Posted: 2/23/2010 3:14:48 PM
The best lovers are usually around 32 years old... and from New York.
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