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 CNJSWP
Joined: 8/26/2012
Msg: 292
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?Page 14 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
I would think the stimulation a woman would get from giving a BJ would be more mental which would lead to something physical. I know for me, when i go down on a woman it's no the act that makes me feel good, it's mental from watching her facial & body expressions as well as the thought of pleasing her, that makes me physically aroused.
 gtr1025
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 293
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/29/2012 5:43:19 PM
Goes both ways, for sure. I love traveling south on my partner and it turns me on a ton, I would like to think the same would be true for her. It depends, I guess on how strong and connected your relationship is. You HAVE to talk about sex with your partner just as much as, how was your day kinda stuff. I love to know what my partners turns on are, favorite foods are, most beloved movies or pets, etc. Spending time knowing what they like by either doing it and seeing the reaction or the changes in how she moves or moans or talks when I'm going down on her or sliding a finger inside her, a light kiss on the thigh or maybe she likes her mans face with a little 5 o'clock shadow....whatever it is...Especially if she takes my hand or head and guides me to where she wants me to be or uses one of her fingers to show me how she likes to be touched or talks to me and tells me where and what she wants done to her. I guarantee, I WILL NOT FORGET! In turn I want her to do the same. Spending time on what your partner likes in bed is again, just as important as all the rest of the things that make a relationship grow and work. No communication....well...then forget it... Talk can really spice things up. Don't be shy! :)
 chatylady
Joined: 2/25/2011
Msg: 294
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/29/2012 7:19:56 PM
the stimulation for me comes from how he expresses himself. also knowing that I can control what he is feeling either by licking or sucking, hard or soft weather its his shaft or balls.. also the anticipation of what is going to happen next is also very stimulating
 ClydeMcFly01
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 295
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/29/2012 7:50:57 PM
I can't speak for women, but I thoroughly enjoy giving blow jobs. I love the feel and taste of a****in my mouth, how it throbs and hardens as I rub my tongue over its head, and the sudden gush when he cums. But most of all, I love giving pleasure and that's a wonderful way to do it.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 296
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/29/2012 9:00:04 PM
I always wondered why WOMEN found it stimulating.
Control as the answer, is scary. lol if they do it for control it's really scary. Because men already will do just about anything desperately, for a woman. I mean look at the NFL player who killed his girlfriend then himself. If that says anything it says how much women push men over the edge till some just lose it and become a beast. Not ideal. I would much prefer to meet a woman who just loves what they are doing because it's who they are.


just as most guys can tell when a girl is really into (or not into) what she's sucking on. If you don't like it or aren't good at it, don't do it, you're (sort of) ruining it for the poor guy.

Is a very true statement. Unlike most who think men are some desperate kind of beast who will take what ever he can get. I have been on the receiving end of this and it DID ruin it for me. So much so I never saw her again. I don't mind if someone doesn't like something. It's like being hit on by a guy when you aren't into that kind of perversion. It won't do it for you to be with a guy. That simple. So it is with this. If you don't like it. Don't do it. I don't do anything I am not in to, and I wouldn't make my lover, just do it for me because I want her to prove something. I find out before we become lovers what she is in to. I won't make someone in to BDSM happy. So why would I date her? Same thing. I don't eat at the 'V' because it's not something I grew to like. Likewise, some women just don't like it. I am okay with that. Just not romantically.
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 297
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/29/2012 10:12:29 PM

I always wondered why WOMEN found it stimulating.
Control as the answer, is scary. lol if they do it for control it's really scary.


Oh, bloody 'ell.
Why does it have to be a control issue.
When I do something nice, loving, for my woman (or for anyone at all) I get a pleasant feeling. If I do something my woman finds intimately / sexually satisfying and pleasing then I find it arousing in and of itself for me as well. I assume the same sort of feelings are reciprocated. It certainly ain't about trying to control her. Sheesh.

TK
[You want control? A silk halter with matching reins is much better]
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