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 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 108
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?Page 3 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)

If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.

So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?

(And don't tell me they don't!)


Well, a dyk is warm, has that oh-so-soft and smooth skin, can be easily hurt, so it's kinda fragile and helpless, in its own way, he swoons when you move your tongue, there's that moan music in the background.
And you probly know what's coming next.
It's his primary sex organ!!! You have it in your possession! It does tricks for you!
btw, the converse works pretty well, too. Sneak up on your guy, say, while he's working (not porn!) on his computer, take him completely by surprise, swing your leg over him and present your pvssy to his mouth, run your hand through his hair, do a couple pelvic thrusts, count to 10 (1001, 1002, etc.), then check his pants. Sprong!!!
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 109
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/18/2010 6:41:18 AM
Glad I read most of this post. Kudos to the ladies who know how to be mutually pleased with a man while doing what they love with their mouths. It's how you keep a relationship going, compatibility, loving the same thing in your intimacy, especially those who said they love it more than conventional sex.

Saying what only you want, what you will and will not do has made more women single than any engine I know. Those who love his pen!s and lavish affection on his c()ck and balls know that it's in the love for it that they do it. About as much passion and affection a lot of men want to expend on a woman's breast and are subsequently slandered for their passion and affinity for them. Of course anyone into their own thing isn't going to see someone else's attraction to it unless they approach with an open mind. I am not talking about delving into deviant sex. This is intimacy between a man and a woman which a lot of women don't have a clue on how to get done other than to grace men with their bodies to ravage. Few women I meet even know the nuances of a man's c()ck and balls. It is so gratifying to see that there are those on here who do and love it to the point of orgasm. Gives me hope for a future relationship based on that very premise.
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 111
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 10:14:48 AM
oral fixation , or the pleasure created in giving your partner intense pleasure...or, if she's lucky, a combination of the two
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 114
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 5:33:56 PM
I can only speak for myself when I say there is nothing more exhilarating than knowing I have probably thee most important part of the man in my mouth...along with my teeth and tongue and while I know I may be giving him an immense amount of pleasure, I also hold the power to inflict a whole lotta pain....that is not only hot...it's priceless
 jcharles01
Joined: 1/25/2010
Msg: 115
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 6:14:17 PM
Because all women like feeling like dirty sluts. They just dont want to admit it.
 DIVISION77
Joined: 8/10/2009
Msg: 116
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 8:11:16 PM
Most women have an oral fixation and they like the control over their partner that oral gives them.

Usually this is the only time a woman has full control sexually.

Anal or Vaginal, the guy usually determines everything and has the final word.

Women have told me they like oral because it gives them an idea of what's to come later, that feeling a guy's erection in their mouth leads them to wonder what it would feel like inside of them in tighter spaces, smaller places.

It's best if you withold oral until a woman really wants it, that tends to yield the best results.



 xxxDINOxxx
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 117
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 8:23:24 PM
This is going to be unpopular probably but just IMO it doesn't seem like she is in a "dominant" position at all when on her knees (or however) performing oral. That just doesn't seem dominant to me. Not remotely.

Maybe that's coming from a particular male viewpoint (well obviously it is) but that's how I feel. I feel like she is being more like submissive and "worshiping" or "adoring" her man's penis. Just the same as I feel the man is then likewise being "submissive", in a sense, by going down on her. I'm not saying I disagree with people doing either act; it's great in fact.

Both acts are (when a couple is in love) loving and giving acts, yes, but I don't view either of them (the woman sucking d!ck, or the man eating pu$$y) to be positions of "dominance" over their lover. IMO it's closer to the contrary.

After all, some guys will joke (in private) about how quickly they got some girl to "go down", and they didn't even do it themselves in return.

Now for some of the men I know and have associated with (and this is probably a cultural thing I realize) going down on a woman is viewed as something you shouldn't do. Or at the very least you shouldn't go around bragging about it. It's viewed by these guys (not saying I share this view particularly , because personally I like doing it and I'll admit that) as being "submissive" to the woman, letting her "use" your mouth to get off. And they don't view this as something that should happen.

And yes I know that the teeth are in close proximity to the vital male member with the bj, but I mean come on....that's hardly an argument for "dominance". I mean, if she's even remotely thinking of ever biting into one then she's hardly suitable for contact with other human beings (male or female) and she shouldn't have anyone anywhere near her in the first place much less sexually.
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 118
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 9:24:44 PM
I'm just wondering why the BJ HATERS like Cat and that other chick bothered to check out this thread...they've made it CRYSTAL FRIGGIN CLEAR in other threads how they feel...so why the hell come pollute a thread that is about LIKING and even LOVING sucking d1ck...with your negativity?
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 119
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 1:44:36 AM
A lot of women just want men to know how much they hate them for feeling, cousin. They want men to feel but only feel about the things they wish for them to feel about. That is why calling a man an unfeeling monster is so important. But when men can feel, they are mocked for those feelings by being called a big baby, or people going, 'wah, wah, wah!' to them to mock the fact they do feel becaues men are suppose to be so tough.

Then there is the old getting kicked in the groin and laughed at because the big man got hurt and he's funny hurt because we thought he was so tough and look at that, he ain't tough at all.' It's hard being a balanced heterosexual, red blooded, decent, Homo sapien kinna guy with a sensual wish list these days. The only one's who seem to want to satisfy male passions are obscure women who want to do a background check on you before the first date, hookers, lap dancers, milking your pocket Hooters Girls who will be nice to you therapeutically, prostitutes and cam girls. They all seem to not have a care what kind of sexual fetish you come to them with, they promise they will understand as long as you bring plenty of what they do love; cash. But try getting a loving woman to do that. Most of them seem to all be pissed of at men because no matter how many gifts you give some women, how many implants and botox, dinners and movies etc. You can't fill a spiritual void with material things. So most are and never will be satisfied. Much less satisfied with you as a man. So this is just another forum for their venting about that dissatisfaction and what they don't want to do for men because all men want is sex. But all most women want is Everything in the world but. And they get it and still won't think about what a man wants.
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 121
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 10:27:07 AM
its cylindrical, like a d1ck I think she meant.

Its funny Mikey, the way things keep going they are going to need a Men's issues class.
 xxxDINOxxx
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 125
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 1:25:56 PM
I think more women than will perhaps openly admit it get off on the idea of being somewhat submissive , so to speak, in a safe scenario with a person they know and/or love, by orally pleasing their man. Rather than this whole d!ck in their mouth power trip or whatever that some of them claim it is. What else is actually "supposed" to be viewed as a "position of dominance"?? When they're riding on top receiving anal??
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 129
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 5:06:00 PM
I have a newsflash for the guys who think a woman can't get off sucking on your nob---um, we can, just like some men can get really aroused just by licking a woman's vagina. Sexual foreplay is arousing...kissing can be arousing...and for those who think a chick on her knees is in a 'submissive role' ----don't count on it----speaking in terms of being a switch---I can top from the bottom because a Dom/me role is useless without a submissive (role).

I get what I want....and he thinks he's being the top dawg....nah, I control the pace....and even if he decides to get aggressive I can always slow em down with just a quick tweet of his man sack or a little digital probing... Regardless, I enjoy oral copulation--more so giving than receiving, but that is just me. I enjoy how I can make him feel with just my little mouth and hands. Some folks get off on stranger things than giving oral pleasure...I mean really...lol.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 130
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 7:11:48 PM

Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
LOTS of reasons...and Bless 'em every one!!
 Squeakee
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 132
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 7:44:25 PM
I don't think I could be with a guy that didn't let me blow him. Really. It is my favorite thing to do sexually and non sexually.
I love the feeling of putting something so powerful yet vulnerable in my mouth, taking it soft and making it hard, feeling the texture of his head and then his shaft in my mouth. being able to act like a kid having fun with bubbles or in the water, and just do whatever I want- making noise, sucking, licking, nibbing, rubbing, caressing, kissing.
I like seeing the look of anticipation on a guy's face, how he watches you as you take care of it, I love when a guy is resting on his elbows and watching innocently, I love when the guy closes his eyes and rolls his head back
I love the texture of his balls and how vulnerable they are
I love being able to change speeds and positions and changing up the arousal and pleasure for me and him
I love that you can take the same techniques you do, but changing something as simple as the speed or variation can make the entire blow job feel different.
I love when his****is in your mouth and it stirs
i love the drops of precum that slide down

I love starting on my knees him standing, then changing it up to him sitting, not using my hands at times, having him bob my head up and down, I love going on all fours as he fingers me while i do it, i usually get on my knees while he is lying down on one side of his body, i love having him straddle me while i'm lying down and fucking my face,

I love that a girl giving a guy head gives him control in a way, but for me it feels like i have control bc i have something so important and sensitive of his in my mouth and i can control whether it makes him cum or make him scream .
Wow, i can't even continue I am so turned on.

 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 133
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 7:53:55 PM
It's kinna comforting to hear the female side to this. Gives a guy hope on one day this being more appreciated to the point that more guys don't have to be single and go without this kind of darling appreciation.
 f6man
Joined: 8/17/2008
Msg: 135
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/1/2010 9:25:45 PM
Now you are my kind of girl. I need to find someone just like you to please me like you like it !!! Yaaahoooo !!!!!
 Khamrun
Joined: 2/20/2008
Msg: 141
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/2/2010 9:24:59 PM
Well I can't speak for that particular gender but from my point of view. Smell, taste, texture, eroticism, intimacy, love, passion, kink etc. Can't say that I've ever gotten any of that by just eating at Taco Bell. Maybe you should be asking that question when you are a little older and experienced. Then again you probably won't need to at such a matured junction of your life. Happy, happy, joy, joy....
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 144
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Posted: 2/3/2010 1:58:19 PM
Yes the squirm of the worm is awesome~
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 145
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/3/2010 2:10:29 PM
Help me understand something..."we are pleasing someone we are sexually attracted to and knowing it will be reciprocated." why would you do something that doesn't please you and you need to trade to get it? I don't get why someone thinks they are giving anything. Sex should be share, not bartered, traded or bought. If you don't get pleasure from something why would you do it? More over, why would you charge? I say, if you don't derive pleasure from it, like Grover says, "Don't DOOoo it!"
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 147
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/4/2010 7:51:06 PM

He also likes up /down movement with girl on top.


Most men I know feel this way too. myself included. Don't get me wrong the back and forth grinding motion feels nice...but will NEVER make me bust a nut.


the name of this thread makes me laugh: Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?

dude A) WHY ARE YOU COMPLAINING!! this is good lol
B) I don't think there are THAT many...as out of the women i've been with i'd say only 2 REALLY dug it...the rest I had to ask for it, or they never seemed REALLY into it.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 148
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/4/2010 9:48:03 PM
" there are plenty of things I do or have done for partners that don't give me physical pleasure. And I don't do them "in trade". I do them because that's part of sex. That's part of sharing pleasure." I understand what you are saying. You seem to be very selfless to the point of suffering for pleasure. I try to avoid that. I don't understand the oxymoron when you say you have done for partners that didn't give you pleasure. Then to say that you are sharing pleasure, I don't see what's shared if you are sore and in pain or it's just not your thing. I don't have a lot of sex partners. If I did, I wouldn't have one who suffered through sex for me. It should be mutually enjoyed, in my estimation, or I am with the wrong partner.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 150
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/8/2010 11:29:58 AM
Sorry Kayliecat, when you said "It kills my thighs." that to me meant, "I'm not suffering, nor am I in pain or sore? Where did I say that????" because to me, my thighs killing me, means I am so sore they are like my worse antagonist. I can't say I am that capable. I mean you seem giving because you would do something without getting pleasure from it. So to me that sounds selfless. lol sorry if I got that wrong.
 Cartier84
Joined: 12/5/2009
Msg: 156
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/9/2010 7:09:10 PM

Maybe it's knowing that you're providing some good pleasure for someone else. That can be a massive turn on.


YES!!!
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 158
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/10/2010 3:08:07 PM
I believe the whole body is a sex organ. People get nipple arousal, foot arousal, spanking arousal. What planet do you live on? Hair, on women turn me on. The hand isn't a sex organ to you, but people use it to get off. Some men want women to use their feet. Boobs, you don't consider a sex organ maybe? Ever hear of boob fvcking? Facials? People kiss, that's sexual, but not a sex organ? Naw, I case the rest and rest my case.

lol kaliecat, I would rather you get muscular lips. But then I am being selfish. What can I say? I prefer a woman who orgasms from head.
 This Good Guy
Joined: 2/7/2010
Msg: 160
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 2/11/2010 11:21:57 AM

If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?


It's amazing and sad. You know, you get no direct stimulation from feeding your dog, but you do it. Can you really not get any enjoyment out of being directly responsible for the intense joy that you give to your SO with a "good" blowjob? And, I say "good" blowjob because not all blowjobs are created equal. If you don't know what you're doing, it can (pardon the pun), suck!

Peace
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